Will you patch up with your ex again?
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If I am A, I will not rekindle it again. It's like NS, u do it only once.
after being together with B for 3 years, and had agreed mutually that there's no love anymore, I would consider the chapter closed because there's nothing to be achieve, what's to be done, had been done, the fireworks, the sunsets, etc.. It had ended. No more leftovers to pick up.
Having second thoughts probably because of familarity?
Why not? As B knows you best.
Further to that, if I have feelings for C than B, it further confirms that B is not for me anymore.
Anyway, it all about choices. The mind is a powerful thing, it can make you love B back and hopefully she feel the same way too. -
girl C is juz after guy A's money lah.. simple as dat...
i tink i wld choose girl B over C.... the one u love most might not be the one most suitable for u or even ur soulmate. i tink Girl B is the rite choice -
Me wonder how does it feel to make friends with your ex? Will it feel like family or normal friends? -
haha.. most r like stranger for me oready... a couple of them is like brother to me....Originally posted by Ayukat:
Me wonder how does it feel to make friends with your ex? Will it feel like family or normal friends? 
others r juz like normal frens -
i did once... and i never patch again...
once breaked, there will be a scar liao... if tt girl hurt u too much... y bother? its her, not you. Patching back is your loss, not her loss... she just merely got another chance to mistreat u tts all...
tts my case.
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just got back from speaking with Guy A.
He finally decided that it was time to refuse both of them and start everything new. He knows is tough but I believe he can do it. thanks to all for your kind comments. -
Dear DRX,
YUCK. NO.
If I break up with somebody, it means that I've given up hope on the relationship, & have exhausted all ways possible to make the relationship work. Better to give someone else a chance & start afresh after taking time out to empty my emotional baggage.
If I'd given in to my ex & patched up with him, I wouldn't be so happy today. So, my answer is NO.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:Somtimes I wonder is it right to patch back?
The hurt the pain will always be there, you cannot run or hide.
I see couples break up then patch back so many times till I lost count in the end get married cos they cannot find anyone new. -
i will..
i had a chance to patch wif her.. and she was waiting.. but things got worse..
dunno still got chance in future anotz.. hai
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I got back together with my ex. Our chemistry still remains, and I admit I hurt him a few times very badly but somehow we got back together, and we're glad we found each other again because although we both had relationships with other people, I still found myself happiest when I'm with him. Ex or not, isn't really the question I reckon...I think its more of the person. Shouldn't concentrate too much on the past since the whole idea of living is to look forward rite?
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lolz.. tts gd for u.. and all the very bestOriginally posted by Kimosabe:I got back together with my ex. Our chemistry still remains, and I admit I hurt him a few times very badly but somehow we got back together, and we're glad we found each other again because although we both had relationships with other people, I still found myself happiest when I'm with him. Ex or not, isn't really the question I reckon...I think its more of the person. Shouldn't concentrate too much on the past since the whole idea of living is to look forward rite? 
and hopefully things between me n my ex will turn out better as well.. hahaha =( -
Buddy I'm sure things with you will flow just fine no sweat
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never did and never will....
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Hello all,
personally i think there`s really no specific answer for this kinda question..
i feel that most of the time, people break up for various reasons,
1st being the lack of love or 2nd havin found new love
if one had broke off due to the lack of love, i believe that it`ll be reasonable to have a considerable patch up
but if one broke off due to one party finding new love, i think it`s much harder to patch back
taken from Westlife`s "If I let you go"
'..... but if i let you go, i will never know, what my love would be, holding you close to me.....'
Sometimes people do break up for reasons that are beyond their control.
eg. guys going NS.gal goin exams, or are temporary in different phases of life..
sometime these stress levels force ppl to give up on a r/s befoer it turns too strong. some people have this ` i must break up or i`ll love her too much and i`l be very sad when it happens` mentality.. that why guys ( lots of them ) break up with their gf when they enter army..
sometime i really feel that this could had been managed better, but somehow it seems like most ppl took the easy way out..
in cases when ppl had found new love ( esp when it`s too easily ), it`s hardly advisable for a patch back, cuz wat happend once will have a very high chance to happen again, not saying that it surely will, but the chances are high..
so my conclusion is that you have to think for youself,
Like every human, every love is so alike, but yet so unique and different -
Agreed...come to think of it there really isn't a definite answer...love is damn ambiguous and it cuts like crazy and all we need is support...perhaps the answer is somewhere in you but in tough times most people aren't too keen on doing much soul searching while crying their hearts out. Humans are dangerous because they look sweet on the outside and you have NO idea what goes on in their minds. If not for love, we would never have a reason to trust anyone. Support is all that is required now.
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if she/he can give you happiness, why bother if he/she is your ex...
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Hmm... People often don't become ex for nothing...? Then again, this is also a mentality hinder when it comes to cases where the former doesn't really apply....Originally posted by dreamykite:if she/he can give you happiness, why bother if he/she is your ex... 