Do u always like/lov any gal friend u feel comfortable with?
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As long as I feel comfortable chatting or together with a gal(peer 20+,not auntie or small girl),I will like or love her! Is it normal or considered flicker-minded?
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i have many good females friends that communicate really well with me.do i have to like them all?
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that means you have not reached maturity.
dont confused liking to love. -
such feelings r common la .. i mean .. hw often u see some gal hit off with u so well of a sudden .. then somemore will treat u nice etc .. then will start to tink .. mayb u like her ..
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Originally posted by dragg:that means you have not reached maturity.
dont confused liking to love.
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i must admit that itz always ez to have a deeper feelings for a gal whom u are comfortable with... esp so when both are like-minded, share common interest, and can talk for donkey yrs without running out of topic..
if say u r currently not attached, then i suppose falling in love with her is a possibility.. on the contrary, if u r attached, i think one ought to be mature enuff to know where the limit is... -
Originally posted by CannyOng:As long as I feel comfortable chatting or together with a gal(peer 20+,not auntie or small girl),I will like or love her! Is it normal or considered flicker-minded? Not so much about maturity, more like you don't really know what you are looking for; as long as anyone who could click well with you, you you fall in love with her.
It will probably take some time before you would develop other pre-requisites, beyond that of just 'click well'.
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u think 2 much. they might jus think u r "robert"
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i guess it's in guys lah.. at one point in time, they will feel like they got the feelings for a gal they can click with. it's after a while later that they revert to the friends mode...
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Disagree on the guys part. The opposite sex can tease guys just as well.Originally posted by starblue:i guess it's in guys lah.. at one point in time, they will feel like they got the feelings for a gal they can click with. it's after a while later that they revert to the friends mode...
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Dear CannyOng,
It's normal to develop warmer feelings towards those you're closest with. I'm very fond of my close guy friend, who, sadly, went overseas to London in March this year (on my damn birthday itself
) to work. When the London blasts occurred, I called his house in a panic to obtain his London no. (prior to that, we kept in touch via email) & called screaming, "Ohmigawd, ohmigawd, I'm so GLAD you're ok!".
In my case though, it's a fondness that has been built up over time, more than 10 years, & we care very deeply about each other. But it's something that's warm, I don't get that melting feeling like I get when I'm with my guy. I don't have the urge to reach out & hold my friend's hand. I don't have the urge to kiss my friend (GROSS). I don't have the urge to... oh nevermind, the thought of it is yucky enough. It's something really like an older brother-younger sister thing. My guy knows about it, & is fine with it.
In a nutshell, you may be confused by the joy of getting close to a friend with feelings of the heart. True love is Not so fickle that you'll fall in love with every girl you're close to. But falling in love with the special someone closest to your heart is the most wonderful thing in the world.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by CannyOng:As long as I feel comfortable chatting or together with a gal(peer 20+,not auntie or small girl),I will like or love her! Is it normal or considered flicker-minded? -
Like is ok, not love?Originally posted by CannyOng:As long as I feel comfortable chatting or together with a gal(peer 20+,not auntie or small girl),I will like or love her! Is it normal or considered flicker-minded?
I used to think that way too... When I was still a young teen.. Are you a teen?
Perhaps it's just the way you get affections for the people around you..?