yes, you don eat and shit at the same place, but if you decided to take a gamble, please go on. there are successful example of office romance. only act when you receive hints from her.Originally posted by drx:Gerenal rule in dating try not to date someone in your office.
Reason is that once you break up with the person it will be hard to work with the person.
I know, its not a good idea especially we are in the same office. I have think about this too. Weather is it a good idea to start off something or just leave it as it is???Originally posted by starblue:not a good idea to jump into such things, especially when you work at the same office. hang around her more. drop certain not-so-obvious hints. see how she reacts. and dun worry about her not seeing the hints, cos gals usually do. if she pretend she never see, well.... you should just bend yourself around the corner and look for another heart-racing.![]()
What are the chances which you think you might have now?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:I know, its not a good idea especially we are in the same office. I have think about this too. Weather is it a good idea to start off something or just leave it as it is???
Not saying that she will like me for sure or anything like that.
Hints.....still thinking of what kind of hints to tell her?
Frankly speaking, I do not know the chances?Originally posted by Devil1976:What are the chances which you think you might have now?
If you think time is ripe... How about asking her out on a date? Reveal the programme to her as a romantic dinner or something... Her answer should pretty much tell on how she feel between you and her..?
True, it make sense. The more I think the more I won't do it.Originally posted by rainee:The more you think about it, the more you won't do it
Think, make a decision, and stick to it instead of being wishy washy...then you will labelled as think too muchOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:True, it make sense. The more I think the more I won't do it.
So sometimes it better not to think too much. But again, thinking is a important process. This is headache! haha![]()
Yo bro i feel the exact same way too! We belong to the same All think, No Action group man .. gd luckOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:True, it make sense. The more I think the more I won't do it.
So sometimes it better not to think too much. But again, thinking is a important process. This is headache! haha![]()
I think I tend to think too much about many things thats why I am stuck.Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Yo bro i feel the exact same way too! We belong to the same All think, No Action group man .. gd luck![]()
so just do itOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:I think I tend to think too much about many things thats why I am stuck.
Sometimes really want to stop thinking so much and really do something.
Haha thanks! I will take it slowly and see how things go...Originally posted by rainee:so just do it
As you yourself know, such smses could simply mean nothing at all?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Frankly speaking, I do not know the chances?
Ok.. I tried sending her a goodnite SMS last nite. I don't expect a reply from her actually. But After around 10 mins I got her reply. And so we exchanged a few SMS before I went to bed and say goodnite to her. Ok I know this is nothing and it shows nothing. But at least for now, I have the reason to SMS her like as in a friend friend kinda of SMS.
As for asking her out for a dinner or something like that? Well, I think have to wait for sometime before I move in and start asking her out.
I know, this thing is kinda lame hahaha
Think of something which can be carried out in actions...Then CARRY THEM OUT....Originally posted by Seventh_Son:I think I tend to think too much about many things thats why I am stuck.
Sometimes really want to stop thinking so much and really do something.
YES, YOU ARE THINKING TOO MUCH! and you are turning into a wussy in the process.Originally posted by Seventh_Son:I tend to think too much about the following..
1- She is a grad I am not (Well...will be on in few months time)
2- What if the rest of the people knows?
3- What if her boss knows that I am after her?
4- What if she is just friendly?
5- What if she rejects me and we are still in the same office?
6- We are like kind of from different world?
Am I thinking too much? Sometimes the feeling of racing heart and the feeling of liking someone do not come that easily. As for me its been one whole year since I have felt this. So I do not know what should I really do about this right now man?
I remembered from the Fantastic 4 movie...the Invisible girl was telling the rubber man. "THE PROBLEM WITH YOU IS THAT YOU THINK TOO MUCH AND THERE IS NO ACTION FROM YOU"