nid advise pls help!!!!
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heres my story. i told tis gal frm my company i like her 2weeks ago. at 1st she say she dun like mi
but lata say 2b frenz 1st. but lately she suddenly told mi terz tis guy tackling her like crazy siah almost send her hm everyday 
wat she is going 2 prove 2 mi? when at work she c mi like pai say pai say like tis dun dare 2 tok 2 mi. dan i ask her y she say she oso dun noe & say nid time 4 us both & oso say i not sincere enough. hmmmm does tis mean she got feel 4 mi, wat she wan mi 2 siah i realli duno 
sumtime i feel sad like juz fuck it lah 4get bout her lah.....
plz sum1 tel mi wat u tink i should do?
or sum1 wif same exp can share ur info wif mi?
ty beri much^^ -
My advice is : Learn to type properly. No one can understand what you're trying to present. How can they help?
Cheers -
The girl trying to play hard to get.
This type of girls likes to play around so if you can accept it then go ahead.
Recomend that you leave her alone cos if anything happens between u and her the office will know and it not be good news. -
Dear Mr Seeker (I've deliberately left out the word in front),
You're probably thinking too much & reading too much into what she's saying, etc? She's probably taking her time to decide between the 2 of you, & frankly, I'm Not gonna judge whether that's wrong or Not, unless there's deliberate manipulation on her part. Frankly, this is called playing the field, & it's pretty common... However, I don't really get the "Not sincere enough" remark, perhaps she's trying to spur you on to make you give her even more attention. Personally, I don't practise such tactics, as it only spurs the guy on to super-human efforts, but when he can't maintain that effort, it'll only lead to disappointment later.
My own experience is that my guy friends who're suckered into this kinda thing, eventually find that they can't stomach the loss of the girl (i.e. she decides on another guy). Their main lament? "But I've invested so much time, effort, etc in her" plus what's implicit, "I really NEED to have her, or my money back"
I think by now you should get the gist of what I'm trying to tell you, very gently. If you choose to heed it, good on you. If you choose Not to, please know that I won't waste time on people who won't help themselves. I've had people PM me, ignore my advice, then come crying back to me, hoping for me to say something encouraging. Most of the time, I can't do anything more than that.
If you choose to persist in your efforts to pursue her, I would seriously advise you to still mentally prepare yourself for the fact that at the end of the day, you might Not even be her choice. At least mentally & emotionally prepare yourself. If she chooses you, then good on you.
Good luck!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by boobs_seeker:heres my story. i told tis gal frm my company i like her 2weeks ago. at 1st she say she dun like mi but lata say 2b frenz 1st. but lately she suddenly told mi terz tis guy tackling her like crazy siah almost send her hm everyday wat she is going 2 prove 2 mi? when at work she c mi like pai say pai say like tis dun dare 2 tok 2 mi. dan i ask her y she say she oso dun noe & say nid time 4 us both & oso say i not sincere enough. hmmmm does tis mean she got feel 4 mi, wat she wan mi 2 siah i realli duno sumtime i feel sad like juz fuck it lah 4get bout her lah.....
plz sum1 tel mi wat u tink i should do?
or sum1 wif same exp can share ur info wif mi?
ty beri much^^ -
this is mine point of advice.. "Dont eat where you shixt"
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What size is the boobs of the gal?
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sorry, this is not my field of speciality, hence not much advise to give maybe just like feow feow say.. you are spending too much time thinking...
women talk to feel better, thats why they can talk a lot and maybe you should let nature takes it course..court her at your own pace... -
use to have a relationship that start off like that..the girl and i can talk about anything when we are alone or when talking on the phone, then when got friends around, we pretend not to know each other that well..i cant find a reason for our behaviour, when i ask her, she also say don know.
maybe it is our basic instinct of, don shi t and work at the same place..cause if it fail...things will turn ugly... -
forget about it la.... go live your life and seek better gals out there....Originally posted by boobs_seeker:heres my story. i told tis gal frm my company i like her 2weeks ago. at 1st she say she dun like mi but lata say 2b frenz 1st. but lately she suddenly told mi terz tis guy tackling her like crazy siah almost send her hm everyday wat she is going 2 prove 2 mi? when at work she c mi like pai say pai say like tis dun dare 2 tok 2 mi. dan i ask her y she say she oso dun noe & say nid time 4 us both & oso say i not sincere enough. hmmmm does tis mean she got feel 4 mi, wat she wan mi 2 siah i realli duno sumtime i feel sad like juz fuck it lah 4get bout her lah.....
plz sum1 tel mi wat u tink i should do?
or sum1 wif same exp can share ur info wif mi?
ty beri much^^ -
she's flattered by your confession. but doesn't want to commit, cos of all the other trees out there. unless you can become a necessity in her life, you shouldn't waste time on a gal who doesn't want committment.
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Best don't get involve in office romance- if it don't work out, your work will be affected
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1. More ACTIONS.Originally posted by boobs_seeker:heres my story. i told tis gal frm my company i like her 2weeks ago. at 1st she say she dun like mi but lata say 2b frenz 1st. but lately she suddenly told mi terz tis guy tackling her like crazy siah almost send her hm everyday wat she is going 2 prove 2 mi? when at work she c mi like pai say pai say like tis dun dare 2 tok 2 mi. dan i ask her y she say she oso dun noe & say nid time 4 us both & oso say i not sincere enough. hmmmm does tis mean she got feel 4 mi, wat she wan mi 2 siah i realli duno sumtime i feel sad like juz fuck it lah 4get bout her lah.....
plz sum1 tel mi wat u tink i should do?
or sum1 wif same exp can share ur info wif mi?
ty beri much^^
2. OPEN UP. SPEAK UP. She probably prefers an extrovert than an introvert like you.
3. She might or might not be interested in you. But CHANCES are, she don't really that fancy you even she might be interested.. UNLESS.. What she's saying about the guy is a BIG HINT for you to BUCK UP and is suppose to be a MOTIVATOR for you... Then again, why she've mentioned about the guy could also have as easily meant alot of other things...
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shes jus a c o c k teaser. jus get her, f u c k her & leave her
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piak piak her if u got chance
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fully agree wif starblue's take.........To top it off, i would say tt this gal is a greedy and selfish person whu will do anything and everything to get things tt r beneficial for herselfOriginally posted by starblue:she's flattered by your confession. but doesn't want to commit, cos of all the other trees out there. unless you can become a necessity in her life, you shouldn't waste time on a gal who doesn't want committment.
She doesnt care abt others 
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what is happening is a very common thing that girls do to guys. She is playing you and turning you into her slave, her shopping bag carrier, her money withdrawal machine but she will not sleep with you.Originally posted by boobs_seeker:plz sum1 tel mi wat u tink i should do?
or sum1 wif same exp can share ur info wif mi?
ty beri much^^
She needs you to boost her ego so that she can have the courage to seduce and sleep with this hunk that she has been eyeing on.
What should you do? Get a life without her. -
Mr Boobs,
Seem like u are a great "qing shen" or don juan(is it) they call it ... -
Hmm?Originally posted by gypises:Mr Boobs,
Seem like u are a great "qing shen" or don juan(is it) they call it ...
At which post do you see that?