my ex had a boyfriend for 5 years, but now.........

• Boo777

  25 Jul 05, 12:13

  Originally posted by powerpcsg:

  My ex has a boyfriend for 5 years, and now she tells me she is still a virgin, should I believe her? Acutally it doesn't matter to me whether she is a virgin, i only want honesty and trust in relationship. Pls advice... Thanks in advance.
  
  -- A troubled guy

  Since she's your EX, what is it to you whether she's still a virgin anot?? She's not with you now anyway.
• X-men

  25 Jul 05, 12:14

  I dont think there's any relationship between virginity and the length of the relationship.
  
  You can people end up as couple after having sex, you can also have couples having sex on their first meeting, you can also have couples who only hold and kiss each other but NEVER have sex even after 5 years.
  
• koshboi

  25 Jul 05, 16:33

  Hm.. well i dun think u just wan a honest relationship...
  
  I just feel that you r just hiding from your fear...
  
  U just fear that she is not a virgin!~ Thats y u keep doubting her and worrying yrself...
  
  Anyway wat i suggest is .. do change yr own mentality first... when u grow older... yr spouse tend not to be virgin le.. even those nerdy sometimes r not virgin anymore.. so dun pin yr hope
  
  Unless u wan to go find 14 yrs old ger 5 yrs so wat.... 10 bf so wat... even those no bf also not virgin le...
  
  Anyway virginity does not matter... even she gives, she give it to the person she love that time... i mean it will apply to you as well... Most impt is whether u love her or not.. if u continue to doubt her.. i think u might as well breakup ba... no point not trusting yr gf.....
• mahai102

  25 Jul 05, 16:45

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  cannot believe meh?? even with a guy like mi... my ex is a virgin during our 3 yrs relationship ok..

  believe, why don't believe...anal virgin lah...
  
  cheebye virgin? i think you tore her hymen first day you met her liao...poor girl...
  
  
• mahai102

  25 Jul 05, 16:48

  Originally posted by powerpcsg:

  My ex has a boyfriend for 5 years, and now she tells me she is still a virgin, should I believe her? Acutally it doesn't matter to me whether she is a virgin, i only want honesty and trust in relationship. Pls advice... Thanks in advance.
  
  -- A troubled guy

  aiyah simple lah...agonise for what? just put your filthy lanjiao in her virgin cheebye & see if shiok or not lor...if not shiok very simple what...break up lor...
  
  next time try geylang virgin...satisfaction not guaranteed but shiokness guaranteed...
  
  
• Devil1976

  25 Jul 05, 16:56

  Originally posted by X-men:

  I dont think there's any relationship between virginity and the length of the relationship.
  
  You can people end up as couple after having sex, you can also have couples having sex on their first meeting, you can also have couples who only hold and kiss each other but NEVER have sex even after 5 years.
  

  
• Kimosabe

  26 Jul 05, 02:05

  TRUST ME. Its possible she's telling the truth. I know someone like that.
• heavenlyfire

  26 Jul 05, 15:21

  does she allow you to sex with her?if she still doesnt sfter 5 years, then she should be one...but anyway, it doesnt matter, just a way to know.
  
  even if she lied, there may be other reasons, like she love you too much to hurt you or other stuffs...
• Kenashi

  26 Jul 05, 15:32

  U r more concerned with whether she is a virgin than whether she is telling the truth!!
  Stop being a hyprocrite
• sneezy

  29 Jul 05, 23:08

  Originally posted by powerpcsg:

  My ex has a boyfriend for 5 years, and now she tells me she is still a virgin, should I believe her? Acutally it doesn't matter to me whether she is a virgin, i only want honesty and trust in relationship. Pls advice... Thanks in advance.
  
  -- A troubled guy

  ermm.. i m confused.. you already said is ur ex.. why you bother so much ?
• Zelkeraious

  4 Aug 05, 13:03

  Originally posted by powerpcsg:

  My ex has a boyfriend for 5 years, and now she tells me she is still a virgin, should I believe her? Acutally it doesn't matter to me whether she is a virgin, i only want honesty and trust in relationship. Pls advice... Thanks in advance.
  
  -- A troubled guy

  Well, I think that if you really love her, whether she is virgin or not doesn't really matters, isn't it? The more important thing is that she already accepts you to be part of her life for now and rest of her life...
  
  Even if you really want to ask her, would you trust what she tells you since u already in the first place have the thinking that "its not possible that she could be still a virgin after 5 yrs of relationship".
  
  I think loving her and making her smile is more important than finding out what really happen in her past.