without sex..do u belief there is true love?
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in a relationship..without sex..everything cant work out?with true love..guys can forgo sex?
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It's hard, but it can be done.
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don't think that is remotely possible....no sex in an adult relationship is just not possible...adult maeaning above 21 yrs old...
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it is not possible at all
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I don't have the urge for sex... but if my gf is a virgin... I might want to have her first so that if she ever leaves me, I can suan the other guy....
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Life is not only sEx & gErs
The bond between a couple doesn't necessary need to be SEAL with sex. U can choose to remain celibate till marriage while in the mean time try to understand each other more, rather than rush into marrying & end up divorce...
The most common excuses for a married couple to break is Difference Personality... unable to Communicate. Therefore, WHY in the 1st place both want to be 2gether?? Becoz of SEX ?????? -
What's true love & what's sex?
To you, what's true love?
To you, what's sex? -
it's very easy to mix the two up. it's even easier to gel the two together. but that's just for Ashols...
most people have sex and true love at once. but Ashols think true love means sex. -
mi wan mi wan
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Watch the show: The mirror has two faces.Originally posted by [H]opes:in a relationship..without sex..everything cant work out?with true love..guys can forgo sex?
And you should be asking yourself the question of platonic sex vs monogamy. -
i don't think with sex, there can be true love. See what happens to the love when sex is "unsatisfactory". In most cases, bored sex life and eventually
mutual love.
on the other hand, i think it is without sex that one knows whether the love for/by the other is true or not. Even when sex is "unsatisfactory", you still hang on to each other. there's more to love life than just sex life.
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Each person treat sex differently.Originally posted by [H]opes:in a relationship..without sex..everything cant work out?with true love..guys can forgo sex?
Even the truest love need sex. It spice up the routine life and let partners get together physically.
Note that having sex and making love is different.
Having sex is to hav intercourse with the intention of lust
Making love is to hav intercourse with the intention of love
In this new generation where sex is a norm, do not ingudge in thoughts like "sex before marriage is a sin". It's SO WRONG.
Or, ask yourself this: "Do u rather get married and realise your partner cannot satisfy you?" Seeing so many cases where ppl divorce because wife cannot give enough, or even guys finding mistress.
Do not blame the guys. Its born in our genes. -
Originally posted by [H]opes:in a relationship..without sex..everything cant work out?with true love..guys can forgo sex? Possible. Say IF the issue of sex belongs to the karmic challenge of the couple. Which goes to say that if either party have difficulty in getting sexually intimate, it will test the overall structure of the relationship, depending on the preception, mindsets and attitude towards their own relationship.
Some people have this natural aversion to sex. In psychology, they would probably tell you your parental axis influence, early childhood development and such. In astrology, it is shown similar to the above discipline, in addition to affliction in 8th house, especially with negative Saturn influence. Sometimes, it is caused by scenarios - e.g. Rape, abuse, in which alienate one's preception towards sex.
Do not be mistaken that every BGR required sex upfront. Sex doesn't always automatically come as part of a relationship; it's an emotional privilege that is shared mutually in one's most comfortable state. In simple, if somehow, either party is uneasy with the notion of having sex, which means one is not emotionally ready/balance and which means one is NOT in his/her most comfortable state, therefore it doesn't satisfy the above conditions... thus nulled.
To plain phucking or make love?
A whole new world of difference. Exercise your judgement to decide if your man belongs to which category.
Cheers -
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True love cannot be without sex.Originally posted by [H]opes:in a relationship..without sex..everything cant work out?with true love..guys can forgo sex?
Without sex, true love cannot exist.
True love must contain sex as part of it.
Those who claim true love don't need to have sex are those who don't love trully. They are lying when saying "I love you." -
this is the 21st century... is your gf's virginity an issue???Originally posted by Ayukat:I don't have the urge for sex... but if my gf is a virgin... I might want to have her first so that if she ever leaves me, I can suan the other guy....
maybe the other guy suan you back ... and say that you were lousy in bed that's why she has to do it with him... how???
dont ask for trouble ! -
yes.
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R u looking for prostitute or life time partner?
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i really look down on u..... pui pui pui!!!!!Originally posted by Ayukat:I don't have the urge for sex... but if my gf is a virgin... I might want to have her first so that if she ever leaves me, I can suan the other guy....
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there always some whom still believe in true love, sex just like desert
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
My ultra short version is : When it comes to Love(if at the presence of Trueness of it), do you think of love first or sex first?
Do not be mistaken that every BGR required sex upfront. Sex doesn't always automatically come as part of a relationship; [b]it's an emotional privilege that is shared mutually in one's most comfortable state. In simple, if somehow, either party is uneasy with the notion of having sex, which means one is not emotionally ready/balance and which means one is NOT in his/her most comfortable state, therefore it doesn't satisfy the above conditions... thus nulled.
To plain phucking or make love?
Cheers [/b]
I don't really think the term 'make love' or 'sex' make a huge difference.
It's all the matter of mindset and heart.
Experience goes beyond explaination of words and terms.
p.s Write so long ah. So free these days hor?!
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Hahhahahahaha... wah rao... if not later kanna complain too chim again...Originally posted by M©+square:My ultra short version is : When it comes to Love(if at the presence of Trueness of it), do you think of love first or sex first?
I don't really think the term 'make love' or 'sex' make a huge difference.
It's all the matter of mindset and heart.
Experience goes beyond explaination of words and terms.
p.s Write so long ah. So free these days hor?!
Cheers -
Originally posted by [H]opes:
Depends on the context, I'd say, though it might be unfair to label a relationship that couldn't work out without sex as without "true love".
in a relationship..without sex..everything cant work out?with true love..guys can forgo sex?
But first, why would a couple not have or even want sex in their relationship? If done with the proper frame of mind and if both parties knew perfectly well what they were in for, sexual intercourse could be a fun-filled and enjoyable activity. Is there a particular reason why one or both parties did not wish to have sex?
If it is for moral reasons like the girl did not wish to be exploited and wanted to save herself till after marriage, then the relationship could work out without sex. Lots of relationships have worked out like that.
If it is for physiological or psychological reasons like the girl was frigid or the guy was impotent, then things may get more complicated. Provided there is no exploitation involved, physical intimacy does help to strengthen the relationship. A sexless relationship would probably demand a great deal of restraint and understanding from the normal party, and would inadvertently place not a small amount of pressure and strain on the other party as well. That is perhaps the reason why many couples with such problems are often recommended to seek professional help.
Not to say it is impossible, but the sexless relationship would probably have to be so strong and mature that it has transcended the need for sexual intimacy. Such relationships though, would be found more often among silver-haired aged couples, who probably wouldn't be asking such questions in the first place.
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Originally posted by Ayukat:
Have you ever considered the possibility that the other guy could suan you back, that the girl left you precisely because you were a lousy lay and couldn't satisfy her with your... ahem, lack of "urge"?
I don't have the urge for sex... but if my gf is a virgin... I might want to have her first so that if she ever leaves me, I can suan the other guy....