My girlfriend of a year broke up with me...
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My girl friend of a year broke up with me... we were very close in the past, but since school started in poly, i was busy hanging out with my friends cauz during the 7 months holidays i only went out with her... she was like feeling neglected and she looked for her new classmates for company... after 1 month or so, i decided to treat her better and company her more, but by then she felt that we have drifted apart and decided that we should break u and cool off before deciding whether to patch again... after thinking for 1 month, she decided that we shold stay as friend... she is a girl who takes her work seriously, so her reason for not wanting to patch is that she needs time for her work, wants to enjoy freedom first with her friends, and dun want to commit to a relationship yet... im sure that she still likes me, thats y she try to avoid me first, she said until the time is right and the emotion is not so strong then she will come back as a friend to me... meanwhile she said she wont step into any relationship cauz she dun trust other guys, but in future, she says she not certain... do u think i can get her back??? shold u keep contacting her or take things slowly one step at a time???
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You didn't show her any love or care.Originally posted by bao__bao:My girl friend of a year broke up with me... we were very close in the past, but since school started in poly, i was busy hanging out with my friends cauz during the 7 months holidays i only went out with her... she was like feeling neglected and she looked for her new classmates for company... after 1 month or so, i decided to treat her better and company her more, but by then she felt that we have drifted apart and decided that we should break u and cool off before deciding whether to patch again... after thinking for 1 month, she decided that we shold stay as friend... she is a girl who takes her work seriously, so her reason for not wanting to patch is that she needs time for her work, wants to enjoy freedom first with her friends, and dun want to commit to a relationship yet... im sure that she still likes me, thats y she try to avoid me first, she said until the time is right and the emotion is not so strong then she will come back as a friend to me... meanwhile she said she wont step into any relationship cauz she dun trust other guys, but in future, she says she not certain... do u think i can get her back??? shold u keep contacting her or take things slowly one step at a time???
Girls need tender loving affection sometimes.
Sometimes , you should sms her at least a few times a day, to maintain it ,
u can get her back .Girls are soft-hearted , just make sure no guys get close to her at the moment.
But you must slowly try to prove your affection and show some care for her , let her slowly be assured of the "emotional" back-up you can give her. -
give her time since she isn't ready.
Singlehood , at times is much better then being inside a relationship.
Maybe , to her , being in a relationship doesn't give her freedom , take things easy always.
If you trying to bind her , the more you try to bind her to your will , the more i think you should let her go , do note that you are chasing her back because you like her , but if she really doesn't wanna be with you ..etc , you should re-evaluate yourself , sure , it ain't easy to move on , but gradually , you should begin to discover those around you who truly deserves your love instead of her. -
being single is good.
relationship is too much trouble, especially in singapore. -
Slowly take 1 step, i don't know if there's term break , the most important thing is to pour out your heart to her sometimes , have meaningful conversations if possible , if she's unsure of it , let her be sure of it first..
Girl's are difficult to understand sometimes , but they are very easy to understand sometimes , but guys just overdo it sometimes. -
during the one month which we just broken up, i alreadyassured her of wad i will do to change, she was also very touched, and she still has feelings for me, but she forces herself not to come back cauz she wanna experience her school life now to the fullest first... so wad can i do to be by her side and when she is ready she will come back to me instead of falling for someone else???
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yes, correct.Originally posted by dragg:being single is good.
relationship is too much trouble, especially in singapore. -
you are single too?
congrats.