how do i get out of a crush and possibly love on this guy
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i love this guy but i know its impossible for us to be together
..how do i forget him?last time i had such feelings for someone is 5 yrs back and it took me half a year to forget him.
How do i prevent such crushes to happen to me again?i feel so miserable
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why is it impossible?
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Erm, why is it impossible for both of you to be together? Is it because he's married or something?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by depressed:i love this guy but i know its impossible for us to be together ..how do i forget him?last time i had such feelings for someone is 5 yrs back and it took me half a year to forget him.
How do i prevent such crushes to happen to me again?i feel so miserable
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find something to occupy yr mind.
find a new hobby or sport.
it will tied up yr time so u won't think too much -
Avoid meeting or talking to him. The less u see, the easier to forget
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open your eyes to other guys loh... everytime you see one guy, tell yourself as many things that are good about the guy loh.. maybe that'll help.
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the more u want to forget
the more u refuse to forget
dont foget him
just accept him as another male friend -
well, if you want to forget about something or someone, you either really just forget it, or use substitutes to keep your mind occupied. personally, if i had to forget somebody that i really love, i would choose not to, and that is why even though im halfway around the world from the person i love, i still stay firm 5 years and running. i didnt know much about her in the beginning.. and i cant say i know much about her now, i just don't know what makes me so attracted to her until now.
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engage in more activities, go out with friends, go for a trip etc...
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forget about yrself. Problem solved
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absence makes the heart fonder...Originally posted by gerrykoh:Avoid meeting or talking to him. The less u see, the easier to forget -
Erm...
I dunno lehz...
The first time I liked a girl was during Primary 5...
I only managed to forget her because... hell, I don't even know if she remembers me, since I was only in the same class as her during Primary 1 and we went to different Secondary School... Absolutely no contact at all... The last time I saw her was 2000 Teacher's Day... -
Keep urself busy. Busy with other guys, friends etc. An idle mind is a devil's playground.
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get out and meet some more guys.
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Like what others said, don't try too hard to forget about him. The harder you try to forget, the more you think about him.
The best idea is to keep yourself occupied. The busier you are, the less you think about him.
Best of luck!
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talk to other guys, try to find someone else fun to be with, and go out with him. who knows, u may end up with him instead! dun give up
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You are a guy right?Originally posted by depressed:i love this guy but i know its impossible for us to be together ..how do i forget him?last time i had such feelings for someone is 5 yrs back and it took me half a year to forget him.
How do i prevent such crushes to happen to me again?i feel so miserable
thx