Love at first sight
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What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love? -
'true love'.....
when u dont mind her being
below avg looking
poor
having bad habits
unreasonable at time
when u do
speak up for her in any situations, even when u know she is in the wrong
suffer more, to make sure she is protected at all time
work hard, so that she will be given the best in life
not know 10 reasons why u love her, but still love her
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it doesn't matter if it happens at first sight or at second sight or after millions of sights. if it's true, it's true.
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Love at 1st sight, to me, equates more to an infatuation, because you have No idea what the person's character is like. There's still a risk you'll find both of you aren't well-suited. However, there're cases whereby Love at 1st sight works, when both parties find their characters, beliefs & attitudes match & complement each others'.
Love developed over time starts with fondness, warmth & liking for a friend. You'll already have an idea of that person's good & bad characteristics, yet you love her all the same?
I dunno : ) Just my own personal opinion.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by soulness:What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love? -
muack ah feowfeow darlingOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Love at 1st sight, to me, equates more to an infatuation, because you have No idea what the person's character is like. There's still a risk you'll find both of you aren't well-suited. However, there're cases whereby Love at 1st sight works, when both parties find their characters, beliefs & attitudes match & complement each others'.
Love developed over time starts with fondness, warmth & liking for a friend. You'll already have an idea of that person's good & bad characteristics, yet you love her all the same?
I dunno : ) Just my own personal opinion.
FeowFeow
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The first line is easier to answer.Originally posted by soulness:What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love?
The only obvious difference is Time.
Emotions and activities could happen at the same level of both infatuation and love at both scenarios.
The litmus test - again its time.
Your second question i presume is - Which kind kind between these two is consider true love?
None could be considered true love, only the person experiencing it knows whether it is true or not.
What could be seen, felt is deceiving to the eyes and mind.
Don't be fooled by that. -
Love at first sight is mainly physical love. You love her outlook.
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i would say.. love is indefinable.. love is up to the person him/herself to define.
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If I understand your questions correctly, I would say it doesn't matter how it originate from, as long as the end result is true.Originally posted by soulness:What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love?
But who can predict the how it will end up right?
That's where MC have mentioned, Time will be the best judge. -
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I must go facial already
FeowFeowOriginally posted by sgboy2004:muack ah feowfeow darling -
love at first sight might not be true love(maybe u only love her outlook?). but it can developed to true love and it can be otherwise too
love developed from friendship, shld be true love?
can i say that? -
for me, true love needs time to help it cultivate and build.
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Actually, even for love developed from friendship, there are risks that the relationship can turn sour. If things escalate, you can scars & a friendship in tatters. True love is NOT guaranteed, you can't expect it, you can only hope for it, & do what you can to make the relationship work. Why do you think they call it "effort"?
True love, or what I've learnt so far, is giving & taking, of both parties feeling loved & treasured, of both parties having fun, & sharing something that No other can replace. True love also means being willing to forgive, willing to forget, & willing to nag sometimes.
But that's just what I've learnt, it doesn't mean that other people experience the same thing. That's what makes true love so exciting.
FeowFeow
[/u]Originally posted by soulness:love at first sight might not be true love(maybe u only love her outlook?). but it can developed to true love and it can be otherwise too
love developed from friendship, shld be true love?
can i say that? -
i don't believe love at first sight cos even the blind fall in love...Originally posted by soulness:What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love?
Next, love developed from pure platonic relationship is when u and the opposite sex , for example , since secondary sch days has been talkin' bout game or sports ( none of the others like sex or porn.. ) , which both of u considers sharing common interest or hobby. From there, u continue onto adulthood until ur marriage. That's where sex and porn came in.
True love is only consider when the opposite sex doesn't need each other. In other words, he or she is financially independent. Also, he or she shows maturity in thoughts and actions. This can be proven on how he or she treats his or her parents. Why do i said that? Cos It's a tried and tested formula... I have people around me who are either married happily or divorce sadly... Guess that's life... -
i don't believe love at first sight cos even the blind fall in love...Originally posted by soulness:What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love?
Next, love developed from pure platonic relationship is when u and the opposite sex , for example , since secondary sch days has been talkin' bout game or sports ( none of the others like sex or porn.. ) , which both of u considers sharing common interest or hobby. From there, u continue onto adulthood until ur marriage. That's where sex and porn came in.
True love is only consider when the opposite sex doesn't need each other. In other words, he or she is financially independent. Also, he or she shows maturity in thoughts and actions. This can be proven on how he or she treats his or her parents. Why do i said that? Cos It's a tried and tested formula... I have people around me who are either married happily or divorce sadly... Guess that's life... -
True love question again... probably the 112425647636th times this came up.Originally posted by soulness:What the difference between love from love at first sight and love developed over times from pure platonic relationship?
which kind is consider 'true' love?
The CloUdiSm Law of Love at First Sight (LAFS) states: Love at first sight is like prayers; it only works for those who believe in it. Some people believe that LAFS is actually crush/infatuation... some people believe that it is actually love in his rawest form. Regardless, this Law is the same as Platonic friendship - only works for people who believe in them, except that platonic friendship has to be both sided.
P.S: To me, it doesn't matter how it begins, more importantly, how you handle from there makes the difference in love.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
This thread will be in your archive again.
True love question again... probably the 112425647636th times this came up.
The CloUdiSm Law of Love at First Sight (LAFS) states: [b]Love at first sight is like prayers; it only works for those who believe in it. Some people believe that LAFS is actually crush/infatuation... some people believe that it is actually love in his rawest form. Regardless, this Law is the same as Platonic friendship - only works for people who believe in them, except that platonic friendship has to be both sided.
P.S: To me, it doesn't matter how it begins, more importantly, how you handle from there makes the difference in love.
Cheers [/b] -
lolz.. i like the LAFS thing... yah, i totally agree with yun jie on the it doesn't matter how it starts, but how you go from there... if it's true, it'll be true no matter if it's LAFS or otherwise..
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The most natural, and, consequently, the truest and most intense of the human affections are those which arise in the heart as if by electric sympathy -- in a word, that the brightest and most enduring of the psychal fetters are those which are riveted by a glance.