Mercy
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those who take the mickey, remember what this forum is... it's about real people with real problems...
either asking for help or to just vent or something...
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I am not sad because he makes me sad, I am sad because he is sad.
Do you get what I mean?
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DO you see what I see? do I see what you see? is see and get the same sort of thing? see what I mean?Originally posted by rainee:I am not sad because he makes me sad, I am sad because he is sad.
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no I don't and I won't bother toOriginally posted by the.raven:DO you see what I see? do I see what you see? is see and get the same sort of thing? see what I mean? -
Dear The Bear,
Perhaps we should let the Mods set the rules. If we go about the rules, as you just highlighted below, then I wouldn't be able to write about what I do to keep the light & fire in my relationship to help others, & to share with others. I write Not because I have problems, & I write Not because I want to rant. Instead, I write because hopefully someone who needs advice but is too shy to ask will read it & may benefit from it.
Poking fun, I believe there is a place & time. The poster is cussing & swearing. How do you take a person seriously? Then shouldn't he also respect the forumites here who wouldn't cuss vulgarly, & in Hokkien? Then shouldn't he be banned from posting?
Rules, rules rules... Sometimes it makes us too inflexible to have too many. No offence, of course.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by the Bear:those who take the mickey, remember what this forum is... it's about real people with real problems...
either asking for help or to just vent or something...
it is NOT for people to poke fun at... -
there is a time and place...
i feel that when a person is down, the last thing we should do is to poke fun at their misery...
if they want to poke fun at people, they can wander over to places like Bar where there are enough weirdos who will entertain them
another's pain should never be a source of entertainment.. no matter how crass and vulgar the person in pain is... -
he is just having a bad day, that's all. It is difficult to control ourselves when we are in a bad mood...who has never swore when they are in a rage? I would say I have myself...it would be a total angel to be able to say he/she never do that when they are in angerOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Dear The Bear,
Perhaps we should let the Mods set the rules. If we go about the rules, as you just highlighted below, then I wouldn't be able to write about what I do to keep the light & fire in my relationship to help others, & to share with others. I write Not because I have problems, & I write Not because I want to rant. Instead, I write because hopefully someone who needs advice but is too shy to ask will read it & may benefit from it.
Poking fun, I believe there is a place & time. The poster is cussing & swearing. How do you take a person seriously? Then shouldn't he also respect the forumites here who wouldn't cuss vulgarly, & in Hokkien? Then shouldn't he be banned from posting?
Rules, rules rules... Sometimes it makes us too inflexible to have too many. No offence, of course.
FeowFeow
He is just asking for a little bit of space to vent here, so I hope people will understand. No offense meant
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Does this sound familiar to you?
"You must..."
"You must..."
"You must..."
Don't repeat the mistake.
Let the mods decide. Afterall, they're Not going overboard.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by the Bear:there is a time and place...
i feel that when a person is down, the last thing we should do is to poke fun at their misery...
if they want to poke fun at people, they can wander over to places like Bar where there are enough weirdos who will entertain them
another's pain should never be a source of entertainment.. no matter how crass and vulgar the person in pain is... -
Shouldn't be getting more excited than the topic poster himself? Afterall, this is his thread...
No hard feelings people...
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I understand where you're coming from. I agree.Originally posted by the Bear:there is a time and place...
i feel that when a person is down, the last thing we should do is to poke fun at their misery...
if they want to poke fun at people, they can wander over to places like Bar where there are enough weirdos who will entertain them
another's pain should never be a source of entertainment.. no matter how crass and vulgar the person in pain is...
The keyword in AA is Sensitivity and Empathy.
Matured advices and well wishing will be the best post to those in AA.
Thank you Bear, it's a good wake up call.
Hope things are well with ya pesonal life, it's another phrase we go thru. Take Heart!
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working in a school with farked up students is even worse. you wanna swear profanities but cannot, cos teacher mah, must have good example all that sht. knn... can only come online to vent.
emperor, i know how u feel. just try to relax... picture your enemy's severed head on your dinner plate.
urgh, gross... but maybe it'll suit you i dunno.