My choice..

• Roxy_Gurl

  1 Aug 05, 18:43

  I know what i wanted already. I'm not going to pretend that nothing had happened, i'm not going to sit and wonder why are we over. I'm going to go all way out, but please dun break me again..
  
  Love is double sided, u'll need 2 palms to clap *I'm ready for u already, are u prepared to catch me*
  
• StarPuppy

  1 Aug 05, 18:45

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  I know what i wanted already. I'm not going to pretend that nothing had happened, i'm not going to sit and wonder why are we over. I'm going to go all way out, but please dun break me again..
  
  Love is double sided, u'll need 2 palms to clap *I'm ready for u already, are u prepared to catch me*
  

  u mean u gonna patch back the r/s?
  
  ~+StarPuppy+~
  (UA Mod/AA Vistor)
• M©+square

  1 Aug 05, 18:48

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  I know what i wanted already. I'm not going to pretend that nothing had happened, i'm not going to sit and wonder why are we over. I'm going to go all way out, but please dun break me again..
  
  Love is double sided, u'll need 2 palms to clap *I'm ready for u already, are u prepared to catch me*
  

  I understand what your post is. I don't understand what you're trying to do or say?
  
  Do you wish to explain further? Hope everything is fine with you.
  
  why am i feeling slightly paranoid...?
• starblue

  2 Aug 05, 08:20

  hey gal, watch your step.. i think you're sinking into depression....
• FeowFeow

  2 Aug 05, 11:19

  Dear Roxy_Gurl,
  
  I presume you're saying this to someone in SGForums? I sympathise with you for having to go through heartbreak, but please maintain some dignity. The guy you're posting about has Not replied to you. I hope he's at least PM'd you.
  
  Perhaps it's just me, but I won't let anyone else see I'm hurting, & I don't like playing the victim, nor being a victim. I don't need anyone's sympathy, & in being strong, I sometimes get admiration for the inner strength I've learnt to summon in times of need.
  
  It's only when a guy seeks to present himself as a wronged/maligned party & portrays ME as the heartless 1 will I speak out.
  
  Similarly for you, don't degrade yourself by grovelling, what is the purpose of it all? Will it win the guy's respect for you? Unlikely. Will you respect yourself for doing this? Unlikely. Do you really need sympathy from strangers? Unlikely. What you need, is to be strong.
  
  Cry, scream, shout, break things all you want. But after moping, start your life afresh. Do something symbolic of that by getting a new hairstyle, new makeup or have a totally new image complete with wardrobe. Get your own confidence back, & that's when a guy will be attracted to you.
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  I know what i wanted already. I'm not going to pretend that nothing had happened, i'm not going to sit and wonder why are we over. I'm going to go all way out, but please dun break me again..
  
  Love is double sided, u'll need 2 palms to clap *I'm ready for u already, are u prepared to catch me*
  

• Roxy_Gurl

  2 Aug 05, 16:41

  Thanks FeowFeow and all those who cared.. haas nope.. this is not for someone in SG forums.. These are my thoughts.. When i become really sad and there's no where i can throw my thoughts, or no one else to console me, I find coming to forums good.. It's so free and not restricted.. I had fallen and gotten myself quite bruised because no one was there to catch me.. after much sadness and thinkings, i had came out with a decision. I realise what i want, or no.. wat i need.. so i'm going for it again, all out.. and with all my heart.. I'm feeling so vulnerable, i might be broken anytime and this time will be worst.. at least i tried.. love really does hurts, doesn't it? =)
• M©+square

  2 Aug 05, 16:43

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  Thanks FeowFeow and all those who cared.. haas nope.. this is not for someone in SG forums.. These are my thoughts.. When i become really sad and there's no where i can throw my thoughts, or no one else to console me, I find coming to forums good.. It's so free and not restricted.. I had fallen and gotten myself quite bruised because no one was there to catch me.. after much sadness and thinkings, i had came out with a decision. I realise what i want, or no.. wat i need.. so i'm going for it again, all out.. and with all my heart.. I'm feeling so vulnerable, i might be broken anytime and this time will be worst.. at least i tried.. love really does hurts, doesn't it? =)

  If you feel that you have something in mind and need someone to share with.
  
  Feel free to MSN me.
  
  Hai. You ah. Take care.
  
  Cheers
• Mao x 2

  2 Aug 05, 16:52

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  Thanks FeowFeow and all those who cared.. haas nope.. this is not for someone in SG forums.. These are my thoughts.. When i become really sad and there's no where i can throw my thoughts, or no one else to console me, I find coming to forums good.. It's so free and not restricted.. I had fallen and gotten myself quite bruised because no one was there to catch me.. after much sadness and thinkings, i had came out with a decision. I realise what i want, or no.. wat i need.. so i'm going for it again, all out.. and with all my heart.. I'm feeling so vulnerable, i might be broken anytime and this time will be worst.. at least i tried.. love really does hurts, doesn't it? =)

  Don't worry, Roxy_Gurl.
  We will always be there to catch ya when you fall.
  Yeah... it's good that you tried.
  It's better than to have any regrets for not trying at all.
  No, Love doesn't have to be painful.
  Feel free to post in AA whenever you are feeling down.
  I'm sure FeowFeow, MC, and Yunhaier will give great advice.
  
• FeowFeow

  2 Aug 05, 17:16

  Hi Roxy : )
  
  You're welcome. It's your choice to try, & you have my respect but Not necessarily my support (please understand that I can't bring myself to willingly support something which may give you a broken heart). But it's your choice, & I won't try to stop you.
  
  However, do remember that when you fall, the most important thing is to get up again. The fall may become cause you more & more injuries. But each time you get up, congratulate yourself on overcoming a more difficult hurdle.
  
  My best wishes to you.
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  Thanks FeowFeow and all those who cared.. haas nope.. this is not for someone in SG forums.. These are my thoughts.. When i become really sad and there's no where i can throw my thoughts, or no one else to console me, I find coming to forums good.. It's so free and not restricted.. I had fallen and gotten myself quite bruised because no one was there to catch me.. after much sadness and thinkings, i had came out with a decision. I realise what i want, or no.. wat i need.. so i'm going for it again, all out.. and with all my heart.. I'm feeling so vulnerable, i might be broken anytime and this time will be worst.. at least i tried.. love really does hurts, doesn't it? =)

• pinkygal76

  2 Aug 05, 17:22

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  Thanks FeowFeow and all those who cared.. haas nope.. this is not for someone in SG forums.. These are my thoughts.. When i become really sad and there's no where i can throw my thoughts, or no one else to console me, I find coming to forums good.. It's so free and not restricted.. I had fallen and gotten myself quite bruised because no one was there to catch me.. after much sadness and thinkings, i had came out with a decision. I realise what i want, or no.. wat i need.. so i'm going for it again, all out.. and with all my heart.. I'm feeling so vulnerable, i might be broken anytime and this time will be worst.. at least i tried.. love really does hurts, doesn't it? =)

  Hi Roxy honey.....let me give you a BIGGGGGGG *sisterly* Hugz......
  most learn to strengthen & love ourselves first ya...... its not easy to let
  go of a relationship but if there is really a need to.... learn to free ourselves
  from this *nightmare*...... get out this relationship a BETTER person...make
  the guy realise his foolishness!!!!
  
  Just bear in mind....do not let ourself be vulnerable & do anything foolish ya....
  he's juz not worth it!!!! Plenty of eligible and nice guys out there!!
  
  RITE GUYS!!!!
  
  Cheers!
• Devil1976

  3 Aug 05, 11:47

  Originally posted by Roxy_Gurl:

  Thanks FeowFeow and all those who cared.. haas nope.. this is not for someone in SG forums.. These are my thoughts.. When i become really sad and there's no where i can throw my thoughts, or no one else to console me, I find coming to forums good.. It's so free and not restricted.. I had fallen and gotten myself quite bruised because no one was there to catch me.. after much sadness and thinkings, i had came out with a decision. I realise what i want, or no.. wat i need.. so i'm going for it again, all out.. and with all my heart.. I'm feeling so vulnerable, i might be broken anytime and this time will be worst.. at least i tried.. love really does hurts, doesn't it? =)

  No hurry, take your time.
  
  For something you take, there often is a price you might have to pay..