Need some advice from u people....
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drx sound so harsh....
come here seek advices
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Take note that, Love has not develop yet.Originally posted by drx:If your friend told u that she is such a good girl then why your friend never go after her?
Ok if you say your friend have gf liao then why he never intro the girl to you?
Since he knows her, he should be able to ask her out and u can tag along.
Why do you still need to hide behind friendster?
My advise for you is to go meet the girl.
In love, if you are so scared to meet the girl then my advise is to forget her cos you got no guts to face her. If you are so frighten then why do u still want to love ?
Let's not misuse 'love' yeah?
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Agreed I have been too hash cos been handling too much cases like this lately.
Since everyone here had already used the easy way, why not try the hard way for once?
Do not mind being the bad guy since the good guys method does not work for him.
Sometimes I feel people needs a kick in the butt to start to work.
Love maybe a word too early for him.
but just added the last part to wake him up a little. -
It is even more surprising to see a counsellor handling cases similiar to this topic being worked up over it? (Are there more and more youths going through the internet to look for love?)Originally posted by drx:Agreed I have been too hash cos been handling too much cases like this lately.
Since everyone here had already used the easy way, why not try the hard way for once?
Do not mind being the bad guy since the good guys method does not work for him.
Sometimes I feel people needs a kick in the butt to start to work.
Love maybe a word too early for him.
but just added the last part to wake him up a little.
I thought those counselling should have led to a greater understand of 'why people react this way.'
I don't mind you being a bad guy, hmm...just try not bringing 'Love' into the topic. There is none to start with.
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try seeing the same problem poping up again and again for so many times and the possible solution could be staring at you right in the face but no one wants to go ahead and try it out
counselling is not as easy as it seems, sometimes our methods are different from how people sees it.
"Are there more and more youths going through the internet to look for love?"
how many people do not have a computer in singapore with internet access? -
I always see same problem popping in AA also mah.Originally posted by drx:try seeing the same problem poping up again and again for so many times and the possible solution could be staring at you right in the face but no one wants to go ahead and try it out
counselling is not as easy as it seems, sometimes our methods are different from how people sees it.
"Are there more and more youths going through the internet to look for love?"
how many people do not have a computer in singapore with internet access? 
Counselling?
I always use unorthodox counselling.
Well, if it works, why not?
P.S: Chill pal. You are putting emotions too foward when dealing with these cases. And when emotions are involved, it will affect judgement, neutrality and objectivity. At the very least, avoid becoming personal regarding counselling. You are doing something noble and the least you could reward yourself is avoid sinking into the enviromental moods of your cases and affect your day?
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Frostice i seriously suggest u do not use friendster 2 get to know the person because u most probably would be branded as desperate and grostque . Why i say this is because i have a lot of female friends who got a lot of this kinda "wanna be friends?" "hello? " kind of messages in their friendster inbox then when i ask them why they never reply they tell me "u crazy ar , look oso can tell they sibei desperate to look for girls online lo" and i would say they are quite rite cause some of them are quite gd looking so i guess they will feel ppl jus want to know them because they look good lo , so advice pal is get to know her thru ya mutual friend and say hi to her face and at least she will feel safe seeing ya real person and not some virtual stuff .