Should i find a GF?
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I don't feel right, In sch my class all got ether GF(boys) or BF(girls), i got a feeling that "wah siao", i feel so left out, thrown to one side like i was not even there. I was thinking of find one, but there's something goes into my mind, Simple Minded, Don't Talk Much and like to stay at home those type. Day dream only i guess. the question is the Subject up there.
Cheers
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its not a fad.
dun find one for the sake of getting one.
dun screw up other ppl's lives as well as your own -
nothing wrong with your choice of how you live.
Having a BF/GF don't make you any happier or sad-der or improve your status
Perceptions of this world is as you choose, you saw only people who have BF/GF but there are also lots who don't have GF/BF and just have friends. If you are happy with yourself... is it that bad not to follow the herd ? -
thanks for your advice, but omg your word looks like i'm killing someone!!!Originally posted by tripudio_mutatio:its not a fad.
dun find one for the sake of getting one.
dun screw up other ppl's lives as well as your own
Cheers
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hmm..its entirely depends.. I wasnt looking for a partner..but it just happen.
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u are finding a gf for the sake of not being an 'outcast'?
then I really have to kokz ur head. how old are u ar?
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100% agree.Originally posted by tripudio_mutatio:its not a fad.
dun find one for the sake of getting one.
dun screw up other ppl's lives as well as your own -
for a start, u can join forum outings....
proven to be more effective than SDU
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Thank you, well said, yes i'm childish, hate me if you want but i have too say this, People Make Mistake!!! i will learn from it get on w/ my life.Originally posted by browniebaobao:u are finding a gf for the sake of not being an 'outcast'?
then I really have to kokz ur head. how old are u ar?
so childish!
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Wrong Post
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haha..chill...not that serious...Originally posted by WJHR:thanks for your advice, but omg your word looks like i'm killing someone!!!
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Originally posted by WJHR:Thank you, well said, yes i'm childish, hate if you want but i have too say this, People Make Mistake!!! i will learn from it get on w/ my life.
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at least u know that it's a mistake. not too bad. -
bo bian one, when testo level is high...u get horny. ask any gym goers taking TT and zma...they'll tell u the same thing....testo make ur gym worker more fruitful and oso make u more 'manly' both upthere and downthere.
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I don't understand what you are talking, maybe because of my poor understanding or your poor english, i'm not "sexually excited"(horny, Meaning Found in: Cambridge Dictionary 1995) for your information.Originally posted by chunyong:bo bian one, when testo level is high...u get horny. ask any gym goers taking TT and zma...they'll tell u the same thing....testo make ur gym worker more fruitful and oso make u more 'manly' both upthere and downthere.
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maybe what u need is a hobby like
play golf lar
learn how to sing ktv lar
go social dancing lar
come on life is exciting as u make it.
Everyone have gf so what ?
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Originally posted by WJHR:
If the question needs to be asked, the answer is "No".
the question is the Subject up there.
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when ur liking for the other sex bo dai bo ji suddenly increase then u know ur test level is high...heh. test is wat keeps the world pop going leh....mai siao siao....no test = no spermOriginally posted by WJHR:I don't understand what you are talking, maybe because of my poor understanding or your poor english, i'm not "sexually excited"(horny, Meaning Found in: Cambridge Dictionary 1995) for your information.
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Good things happen to those who wait.................Originally posted by WJHR:I don't feel right, In sch my class all got ether GF(boys) or BF(girls), i got a feeling that "wah siao", i feel so left out, thrown to one side like i was not even there. I was thinking of find one, but there's something goes into my mind, Simple Minded, Don't Talk Much and like to stay at home those type. Day dream only i guess. the question is the Subject up there.
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High testoterones make u bald also he he... the women can smell the testosterones..the manliness. But now adays..they go for pretty boys he he..
Dont need to rush in finding gf la. If all ur friends pierce thier left balls will u do it ? Most important is dun feel that u are left out..coz u are not. U will feel that way but its all good... coz u dun need a girl 2 b cool =P sweet ? -
can smell one meh...wah...so power ah, they aren't really real b1tches are they ?!Originally posted by BadzMaro:High testoterones make u bald also he he... the women can smell the testosterones..the manliness. But now adays..they go for pretty boys he he..
Dont need to rush in finding gf la. If all ur friends pierce thier left balls will u do it ? Most important is dun feel that u are left out..coz u are not. U will feel that way but its all good... coz u dun need a girl 2 b cool =P sweet ? -
lol.. no u shld nt get a gf just wait for the right girl, someone u love, things will happen one, you'll know the answer to your own qn by then
ya la we can tell u all these, but i dun think u will listen, you'll still try, but u'll realise one day that u were really stupid for thinking like that, but thats life, people dealt with it before le, ur turn
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Originally posted by FireIce:for a start, u can join forum outings....
proven to be more effective than SDU -
Hi WJHR,
My guess is that you're feeling the "pressure" of blending in with your peers, to experience whatever they're experiencing, & having 1 just to be able to say, "I have a GF". But this isn't a good reason to have a GF.
True, during your teenage/younger days, it's an experimental time. With a few gfs under your belt, you'll eventually know what it is you want in a woman whom you'll eventually settle down with. However, there's still such a thing as "Puppy Love", which should be the basis of your getting a gf (IF you do get any) now.
Just because some other people have partners doesn't mean you should have 1, some people don't start until they're 21, & boy do they make up for lost time then
I'm serious, I happen to know of 1 guy who's making up for lost time by cheating on his current gf like mad
Still, have fun during your younger days. There's plenty of time for you to experience BGR, why take the fun & happiness out of it by letting yourself be pressured?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by WJHR:I don't feel right, In sch my class all got ether GF(boys) or BF(girls), i got a feeling that "wah siao", i feel so left out, thrown to one side like i was not even there. I was thinking of find one, but there's something goes into my mind, Simple Minded, Don't Talk Much and like to stay at home those type. Day dream only i guess. the question is the Subject up there.
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No... don worry you won be left out.. sure that there are plenty of people single also... there is nothing wrong.. why need to be a clone of others and do what they do leh.. haha..
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eh, i 24 soon and got no gfs at all under my belt....how ah ?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Hi WJHR,
My guess is that you're feeling the "pressure" of blending in with your peers, to experience whatever they're experiencing, & having 1 just to be able to say, "I have a GF". But this isn't a good reason to have a GF.
True, during your teenage/younger days, it's an experimental time. With a few gfs under your belt, you'll eventually know what it is you want in a woman whom you'll eventually settle down with. However, there's still such a thing as "Puppy Love", which should be the basis of your getting a gf (IF you do get any) now.
Just because some other people have partners doesn't mean you should have 1, some people don't start until they're 21, & boy do they make up for lost time then I'm serious, I happen to know of 1 guy who's making up for lost time by cheating on his current gf like mad
Still, have fun during your younger days. There's plenty of time for you to experience BGR, why take the fun & happiness out of it by letting yourself be pressured?
FeowFeow