post ur opinions..
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scenario..
a guy know dis gal 6mths ago..they are normal fren who often sms n talk on phone..once,the guy went overseas to work w/o expressin any feelings for tt gal..when he is back..the gal is attached..he said he's gonna wait for tt gal..n 2mths later..the gal broke off with her bf..Dis guy was with her all along when she was down..console her n went out with her often to cheer her up..
After a month..he expressed tt he likes tt gal..said he dun wana regret nt tellin her,n lost her again..but the thing he is worried is tt he cant brin happiness to her due to his workin condition..(he is those NS regular de..sometime also dun get to go home)at that period of time,whenever he is able to book out,he will try to find time for tt gal.goin out with tt gal..see movie n stuff,even though he doesnt lk to watch movies..
Soon after..they gt attached..but was realli a short 9days..the reason they cant get together is bcos he says tt their thinkin is different..character,opinion n stuff are different..the guy is a very outdoor person n the gal is v indoor..but the gal is willing to go outdoor with him..the gal also dun mind to meet him lesser bcos he gotta work n stuff..
wad do u think is the reason y the guy gave up on her once he gt her?? -
ask the guy.
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Because the girl refused to give the guy any sex during the 9 days?
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=144219 -
Humm possible scenarios I can think of.
1) The girl have sex with the guy and the guy is sick of her cos he had already "played" her and looking for a new toy. I notice the change of the girl after 9 days as she is so willing to be with him even at when she is at the losing end shows is possible that it really happen,
2) The girl had sex with her ex and was found out by your friend and the excuse of "their thinkin is different..character,opinion n stuff are different." is just a big cover up.
3) The girl did not have sex at all but is totally boring to your friend cos she likes to read books but your friend likes to outdoor sports.
4) The guy is a possible flirt type, he just want her as a prize and once he had gotten her from her ex, he just dump her cos he won liao no point playing with her.
5) He serious he does not love her at all he just treat her as a latest game and he must have it. At first he could not buy the game, he wants it so much that he begs for the game for 6 months finally he got the game he wanted and after playing for 9 days he realised that the game is very boring at just dump it asap.
Final Verdict :
The guy does not love the girl at all!
Come on man!
Just look at his action!
If he really loves the girl so much that he was even willing to see movies n do stuffs with her, even though he doesnt like to watch movies but why did he stop doing all this love stuff only after mere 9 days with her?
I got cases where guys still love girls who got kids, got Aids, at the brink of death and even look very ugly, do u even think the guy can even match up to this group of guys at all?
Real love is accepting a person for who she or he is without asking for more, or the past and giving her or him your attention and care for as long as you can live. -
WOAH.Originally posted by drx:Humm possible scenarios I can think of.
1) The girl have sex with the guy and the guy is sick of her cos he had already "played" her and looking for a new toy. I notice the change of the girl after 9 days as she is so willing to be with him even at when she is at the losing end shows is possible that it really happen,
2) The girl had sex with her ex and was found out by your friend and the excuse of "their thinkin is different..character,opinion n stuff are different." is just a big cover up.
3) The girl did not have sex at all but is totally boring to your friend cos she likes to read books but your friend likes to outdoor sports.
4) The guy is a possible flirt type, he just want her as a prize and once he had gotten her from her ex, he just dump her cos he won liao no point playing with her.
5) He serious he does not love her at all he just treat her as a latest game and he must have it. At first he could not buy the game, he wants it so much that he begs for the game for 6 months finally he got the game he wanted and after playing for 9 days he realised that the game is very boring at just dump it asap.
Final Verdict :
The guy does not love the girl at all!
Come on man!
Just look at his action!
If he really loves the girl so much that he was even willing to see movies n do stuffs with her, even though he doesnt like to watch movies but why did he stop doing all this love stuff only after mere 9 days with her?
I got cases where guys still love girls who got kids, got Aids, at the brink of death and even look very ugly, do u even think the guy can even match up to this group of guys at all?
Real love is accepting a person for who she or he is without asking for more, or the past and giving her or him your attention and care for as long as you can live.
haha, TOTALLY AGREE.
real love is being able to accept a person for who she/he. -
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and i guess the girl should be feeling really horrible now, its like for quite sometime the guy chased after her and when finally she was tog with him, he didnt want her anymore..
the feeling sure is sucky..
the rejected feeling.. -
You're such a negative guy... You simply just came up with your 'possible conclusions' and WAH LAH... Out comes the 'VERDICT'... How efficient...?Originally posted by drx:Humm possible scenarios I can think of.
1) The girl have sex with the guy and the guy is sick of her cos he had already "played" her and looking for a new toy. I notice the change of the girl after 9 days as she is so willing to be with him even at when she is at the losing end shows is possible that it really happen,
2) The girl had sex with her ex and was found out by your friend and the excuse of "their thinkin is different..character,opinion n stuff are different." is just a big cover up.
3) The girl did not have sex at all but is totally boring to your friend cos she likes to read books but your friend likes to outdoor sports.
4) The guy is a possible flirt type, he just want her as a prize and once he had gotten her from her ex, he just dump her cos he won liao no point playing with her.
5) He serious he does not love her at all he just treat her as a latest game and he must have it. At first he could not buy the game, he wants it so much that he begs for the game for 6 months finally he got the game he wanted and after playing for 9 days he realised that the game is very boring at just dump it asap.
Final Verdict :
The guy does not love the girl at all!
Come on man!
Just look at his action!
If he really loves the girl so much that he was even willing to see movies n do stuffs with her, even though he doesnt like to watch movies but why did he stop doing all this love stuff only after mere 9 days with her?
I got cases where guys still love girls who got kids, got Aids, at the brink of death and even look very ugly, do u even think the guy can even match up to this group of guys at all?
Real love is accepting a person for who she or he is without asking for more, or the past and giving her or him your attention and care for as long as you can live.
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at least that part about real love is about accepting someone for who he/she is totally is true..Originally posted by Devil1976:You're such a negative guy... You simply just came up with your 'possible conclusions' and WAH LAH... Out comes the 'VERDICT'... How efficient...?
that is just his own way to look at things i guess..
cynical way.. -
hmm..den i heard frm my fren..dis guy seldom contact her after they broke off le..does it shows tt this guy is tryin to keep a distance frm her?or is he simply bz with work..cos his job also unpredictable..
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What do u think?
why are u so concern with the guy?
Does the girl still wants to be with him?
If not why borther cos he had already made up his mind to break up with her. -
im concerned cos the gal is my fren..
the gal of cos wan to get bac with him..but duno whether its possible..
duno whether the guy is worth it anot..wad do u think i can try to suggest to see if the guy still hav feelings for her..still gt any chances of patchin bac.. -
i see u r on the girls side.
humm
can ask the girl why she still why she wants to patch back?
I can give so many reason but is only guess work.
Is better to ask her for the reason. -
Something is wrong...
Most likely its from the girl's side but it has affected the guy to a larger degree. He needs to accept it 1st. -
Why force things through?Originally posted by [H]opes:im concerned cos the gal is my fren..
the gal of cos wan to get bac with him..but duno whether its possible..
duno whether the guy is worth it anot..wad do u think i can try to suggest to see if the guy still hav feelings for her..still gt any chances of patchin bac..
Have your friend find out more about how the other party is feeling about the whole thing?
Love simply cannot be forced... If so, often won't lead to anything close to a happy ending.... -
i asked her b4..u know love dis kinda thing where gt reason de..she jus simply likes him alot lor...
something wrong in the relationship..might b frm the gal side tt affect the guy alot..heard frm my fren..she said tt the guy said tt he feel stressed cos my fren too guai..too conservative..different frm him..look at things frm different view..he dun realli even dare to hug her..
but i find dis kinda things..can slowly change bahz..my fren conservative la.den wan her to hug n kiss him all over meh.. -
'Hopeful' alone sometimes is not equivalent to 'hope'..... Ripples move in all directions...Originally posted by [H]opes:i asked her b4..u know love dis kinda thing where gt reason de..she jus simply likes him alot lor...
something wrong in the relationship..might b frm the gal side tt affect the guy alot..heard frm my fren..she said tt the guy said tt he feel stressed cos my fren too guai..too conservative..different frm him..look at things frm different view..he dun realli even dare to hug her..
but i find dis kinda things..can slowly change bahz..my fren conservative la.den wan her to hug n kiss him all over meh.. -
I agree with tua tua.Originally posted by Tuatau:Because the girl refused to give the guy any sex during the 9 days?
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=144219
This man is already a NS regular and behave like this? He cant be having puppy love at his age ba. Well, man does goes into another stage of desire once they go into army where the major population are guys.. so true..