i doubt so... there are some people who are happy all the time. I don't think being permanently depressed is part of life. Seems to me that me, and many other people I see, are either depressed or emotionless, when we deny, hide and repress that depression deep inside us. But we know that will only work for a short time, and when that depression rises to the surface again, it hits us so bad we feel the deepest of despair the soul can feel.Originally posted by charlene_:haha
all i want in life is to be happy.
that simple.
i guess depressions are just part and parcel of life?
even the most happy person on earth gets depressions sometimes too..
Do you still remember a time when we do not even have to use Pagers ?Originally posted by tir4misu:seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
i dont mean it as being permanently depressed, what im trying to say its like, everyone have their bad times in life when they get depressed with stuffs..Originally posted by HENG@:i doubt so... there are some people who are happy all the time. I don't think being permanently depressed is part of life. Seems to me that me, and many other people I see, are either depressed or emotionless, when we deny, hide and repress that depression deep inside us. But we know that will only work for a short time, and when that depression rises to the surface again, it hits us so bad we feel the deepest of despair the soul can feel.
Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
Doing things... Start from the simpler things and which you actually enjoy doing...?Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
well tell me about it... depression is pretty much a way of life for meOriginally posted by charlene_:i dont mean it as being permanently depressed, what im trying to say its like, everyone have their bad times in life when they get depressed with stuffs..
about what you said about repressing that depression, i agree for some people actually goes through life like that, and when the depression hits them, it really hits them and hits them really bad..they just go in and out, in and out..so repressing isn't really a good way if there is a choice..as it will be like a cycle..
life is weighing heavily on people's shoulders nowadays..
i used to think i would be really happy and have no worries when i grow up, but in the end, its the totally opposite, as i grow up more, i would have more worries..
this is what i feel...Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
letting go of electronic stuff eh... i wonder.. cause.. my laptop is kinda like my "xiong di" in the sense.. its one of the only thing tat keeps me accompany.. haha sounds pathetic? i guess im dependent on my laptop.... but its a very good idea! maybe one of these days i must really learn to be more independent... =)Originally posted by OH-FF:Do you still remember a time when we do not even have to use Pagers ?
We used to mail our friends birthday cards, new year cards etc.
How often do we use the home phone and hog it? No, not very often also.
The fact is , we're significant to ourselves , we choose to be so.
Sometimes i let go of all electronic stuff and go read a book and enter the author's perspective or story.
This is what literacy is all about.
Even King Solomon complains of life is meaningless when he have everything.
(from the bible)
Do what you have to do , and make the best of it.
Originally posted by Yunhaier:experiencing the fall.. and then learn how to cushion it eh...Dude, you4 lai2 liao4?
Like always, your thoughts wandered away too far into realms that shouldn't even matter at all. To the common folks, it's known as 'think too much.' But of course, knowing your personality, you reminded me of a mandarin proverb - Li bu chong xin.
[b]To overcome your stagnation, you got to remove your fear of failing because you are so afraid of rejection, you pause and consider... so much that nothing is done in the end.
Have you ever tried doing something WITHOUT thinking about the rejection/failing part? You want to be able to remove the fear about negative part? When you have fall enough times... you will gradually get used to it and following on... you will learn the art to survive and NOT to fall the way you did previously.
This is a natural cycle - learn to embrace them.
I give you one personal example (can't remember if I did tell you before):
I used to 'think' alot of Love. This goes even before I ever had my first relationship, so many years back. Everything which came from my thoughts is recorded in the fabled Book of CloUdiSm.
Everything changed when the first relationship took place.
I rewrote... renew... refresh... constantly.
You cannot grasp the essence of success unless you understood what it takes to bring you there. And to understand fully, you got to fall along the way... somehow... absolutely.
P.S: Quit procrastinating, the release of your mental/emotional bondage.
***
Personal note: And what's the thing about falling? At the very least, you know I AM ALWAYS HERE... to try and catch you.[Ok serious] People are AROUND.. dude... people are around. And more importantly, people are concerned... cease the self pity and gain some foothold in yourself.
There is so much things I (others as well) could tell you, a huge BUT is that because you ain't there. You can only learn so much from knowledge/others - you need experience to complement your learning process. What I speak to you sounds merely logical. You agreed because everything is logical... going through the analysis by the mind. BUT logical is still hardly relevant because you ain't there yet... to understand why. Look at SY... look at where she is now?? Look at her last year... do you see the difference when you speak to her that time? Maturity came in because she finally understood the essence and picture I am painting to her.
You want to succeed? Have clarity in whatever you are pursuing? Have some strength in personality?
Start falling now! Learn the use of poison first... before you can create antidotes.
Cheers [/b]
Taking that step is always not easy..Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...
Well, I can say I was once in your shoes too.... but now that I'm working, I don't even have much time to think about so much, i just reach home every evening, stay awake for awhile and very soon I'll be ZzZz land...Originally posted by tir4misu:its 3.42am in the morning... have been hesitating whether or not to post some thoughts of mine.. well here goes..
seems like lately everything aint going well for me... big matters... small matters all pilling up into a mess.... y do ppl suddenly get into a sudden emotional distress? the feeling of insignificance... that even if u turned ur handphone off.. not log into msn or whatever ways of communication no one would infact, actually even notice....
feeling tired...
'wanna say just say, wanna do just do' a phrase told to me by my friend... sounds seemingly easy to achieve.. but in actual fact.. not..... at least to me...
what does it take to just do wad u wanna do?
what does it take to not fear negative results from ur actions?
what does it take to stop assuming and just act?
probably im just too weak to be like u guys out there who can be straightforward and confident in ur actions.. who knows that u r sure to suceed and thus confident in taking that step...
nitez...