how to resolve a broken friendship?
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as above..
girl friend fell out with her friend, dont know how to help..
any advice?
prob now is they dont trust her..at all. and hate her. -
need to know more about what happen to help
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kindly elaborate on the situation, so we might be able to help?
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A = girl
B = close friend of A
C and D = close frens of both A and B
E = cute guy
A and E liked each otehr
but both didn't make any move, and A treated E really cold. act hard to get i suppose.
then E gave up and fell for B, B gradually fell for E too.
A said she didn't mind..
till today, B and E together for lightly more than a month already
anyway, on monday, that is, 2 days ago la.
B had to go after the national day celebrations at school..
and told her friends A C and D..
they said okay..and bye and all that stuff
but as she was walking out, E asked her to walk with him to busstop..
but after awhile asked her to sit and chat lah. steads after all..
but then A C D found out they were chatting.. and thought B had lied to them!
all the pent up feelings jus exploded and all hate her now.. =/
like that. how..?
B didn't lie.. she was just intending to chat for like 5 minutes while waiting for cab home..
well? -
huh? I guess A,C and D are very petty if they are mad at B just because of this..Originally posted by teasixten:A = girl
B = close friend of A
C and D = close frens of both A and B
E = cute guy
A and E liked each otehr
but both didn't make any move, and A treated E really cold. act hard to get i suppose.
then E gave up and fell for B, B gradually fell for E too.
A said she didn't mind..
till today, B and E together for lightly more than a month already
anyway, on monday, that is, 2 days ago la.
B had to go after the national day celebrations at school..
and told her friends A C and D..
they said okay..and bye and all that stuff
but as she was walking out, E asked her to walk with him to busstop..
but after awhile asked her to sit and chat lah. steads after all..
but then A C D found out they were chatting.. and thought B had lied to them!
all the pent up feelings jus exploded and all hate her now.. =/
like that. how..?
B didn't lie.. she was just intending to chat for like 5 minutes while waiting for cab home..
well? -
nothing wrong to talk to a stead
anyway...one should really accept this explanation...if because of this and they dun listen...dun become friends better...good friends should understand one another as they know each other really well and their behaviour for a long time
Cheers
~+StarPuppy+~ -
dont do anything.
if they are really close friends the problem will solve by itself.
consider it a test of friendship.
you will be surprised most people dont value it. -
Originally posted by dragg:dont do anything.
if they are really close friends the problem will solve by itself.
consider it a test of friendship.
you will be surprised most people dont value it. true...but is that a mindest of most ppl nowadays?
most will just "fine...dun friend..dun friend loh"
who will really test their friendship?
Cheers
~+StarPuppy+~ -
"but then A C D found out they were chatting.. and thought B had lied to them!
all the pent up feelings jus exploded and all hate her now.."
1) Lie to them about what? not going home and going out with bf?
2) you say A C D got pent up feelings what are these pent up feelings? -
out of the 5 i will swallow his/her pride to salvage the friendship, if they value it.Originally posted by StarPuppy: true...but is that a mindest of most ppl nowadays?
most will just "fine...dun friend..dun friend loh"
who will really test their friendship?
Cheers
~+StarPuppy+~ -
1)yeah. in a way. they THOUGHT she lied so that she could be with her 'beloved one'. she didnt! not intentionally. they just too petty..Originally posted by drx:"but then A C D found out they were chatting.. and thought B had lied to them!
all the pent up feelings jus exploded and all hate her now.."
1) Lie to them about what? not going home and going out with bf?
2) you say A C D got pent up feelings what are these pent up feelings?
2)means that. they didn't like her "snatching" away E, as "A" saw him first.
but PLEASE lah. apparently A act hard to get, and dao him..
whos' to blame? =/ -
Originally posted by teasixten:1)yeah. in a way. they THOUGHT she lied so that she could be with her 'beloved one'. she didnt! not intentionally. they just too petty..
2)means that. they didn't like her "snatching" away E, as "A" saw him first.
but PLEASE lah. apparently A act hard to get, and dao him..
whos' to blame? =/ in reply to 2)....that is one of the most childish behaviour i can ever expect to find from a girl....there is no such things as snatching in issues of love..."either the guy/gal likes u for who you are and both parties are faithful,there will be no 3rd party...love is not a game why u can snatch ppl's toy away"...if one cannot understand that simple sentence...then one cannot be ready to have a relationship
Cheers
~+StarPuppy+~ -
So am I rite to say when "A said she didn't mind.." she actually minds a lot?
So B is the poor thing, with friends who sides A and believes wat she says?
"they didn't like her "snatching" away E, as "A" saw him first."
Just curious is E a toy? If E is a toy will they be happy if B return this toy to A?
A C D got bfs? -
It's a small issue wor.
Chat a bit also cannot ar? Duiz.. -
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