How to stop ur GF's Ex to leave her alone???
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Hey there, my gf's ex called her EVERYDAY! and when she doesn't pick up his call, he will question WHY! and my gf is kinda scared of him.. i juz feel that he is so rude to her, EVEN me myself can't bear myself to do tat! And sometimes he will go to her place, and put smth on her table ( coz her windows is nv lock but gt grill la..) Been keeping quiet bout it but the more i keep quiet, the miserable i tend to be.. any suggestion for me?
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time to SAD dat guy.....Seek And Destroy....
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and he will have a chance to comment that i'm a violent guy? and in future i'll hurt her?
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ask ya gf to firmly tell him not to do these things as she is no longer his gf ... and if he still persists ask her to tell him to seriously stop or she will get the police to intervene ....Originally posted by MidiLand:Hey there, my gf's ex called her EVERYDAY! and when she doesn't pick up his call, he will question WHY! and my gf is kinda scared of him.. i juz feel that he is so rude to her, EVEN me myself can't bear myself to do tat! And sometimes he will go to her place, and put smth on her table ( coz her windows is nv lock but gt grill la..) Been keeping quiet bout it but the more i keep quiet, the miserable i tend to be.. any suggestion for me? -
ask your gf how she wants to settle it............ or if she wants you to settle if she want you to settle then call police lor say harrassment lor
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u are a man
behave like one go and confront that fella
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i think you should not try 2 intervene makes matters worse only u are her bf not her parents or siblings , if she can handle let her handle . Because if you step wun know how the ex bf would reactOriginally posted by OldAhPek:u are a man
behave like one go and confront that fella
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oooo... Quite true.. when a man is desperate, he will do anything?
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discuss with your gal first. ask if she feels you can do anything for her. show you are concerned about her safety but you're also concerned about her feelings... and violence is never a solution. (and i sure hope your gal doesn't suggest that to you in any case.
) good luck. 
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use Ye Li Cang Hua dis move.....(Inside a Leaf Hides the Flower)
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Marry her lah!
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haha.. yeah.. good idea..!
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You can help by just being there and be supportive.
Ask her to use you as her excuse/shield and hopefully that guy will backoff.
The most important thing is, she must be firm. -
ever considered about how her ex feels?
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change phone number
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feeling hurt and lonely doesnt justify harassing someone. I've been dumped so I understand how her ex must feel but scarying her doesnt do any good. it just makes matters worse.Originally posted by Itachi:ever considered about how her ex feels? -
why they break?
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Yeah.. juz hate the feeling of it.. You're having so much fun together, but after the phone call.. feel so awkward to ask was it him.. but deep in my heart i knw it;s him.. juz trying to make myself feel better by pretending it's her other frenz..
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be more garang.. meet him and you should know the rest.. but meet him with your gfOriginally posted by MidiLand:Hey there, my gf's ex called her EVERYDAY! and when she doesn't pick up his call, he will question WHY! and my gf is kinda scared of him.. i juz feel that he is so rude to her, EVEN me myself can't bear myself to do tat! And sometimes he will go to her place, and put smth on her table ( coz her windows is nv lock but gt grill la..) Been keeping quiet bout it but the more i keep quiet, the miserable i tend to be.. any suggestion for me? -
Bring ur gf along and confront him.
Talk things out. -
wadeva he feels he has to keep it to himself , pestering OTHER ppls gf is a big NO NO , besides why dosent the ex-bf consider hw the current bf will feel?Originally posted by Itachi:ever considered about how her ex feels? -
this is a good question ? some answers?Originally posted by drx:why they break? -
It appears that the actual presence of this ex is incidental. The heart of the matter is the effect it is having on the relationship between you and your girlfriend. This situation affects each of you in different ways, but you'll also have to consider how it affects the pair of you as a single entity.
Talk to her and let her know your thoughts on the matter. I'd advise starting with what this situation is doing to BOTH of you - if you start with what it's doing to yourself, you could come out sounding selfish and if if you start with what it's doing to her, you could come off as condescending.
As for the weird sh!t like the ex leaving stuff on her stable, that's something for the cops to handle. If at all possible, avoid direct action - it's too easy to do the wrong thing and end up looking like the bad guy. -
hehe wait till u were in the same shoes as ur gf ex. u will do the same thing.
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Hate to break it to you, but most people have more self-repect than to behave in such a manner. Calling and hassling an ex on a daily basis is just sad - actually, any kind of obsession is just sad.