How to approach a girl when....
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(i know this may have been asked alot of times, but i just want comments)
How do you approach a girl when she is always with her friends? I dunno any of her friends and i usually see her in the school foodcourt. She is hardly alone, seems that i cant find a moment to chat up with her. Should i try some smart pickup in front of the friends? -
How interested in her are you?Originally posted by hypercurry:(i know this may have been asked alot of times, but i just want comments)
How do you approach a girl when she is always with her friends? I dunno any of her friends and i usually see her in the school foodcourt. She is hardly alone, seems that i cant find a moment to chat up with her. Should i try some smart pickup in front of the friends?
School foodcourt? Is that the best you can do? Is it usually the same group of friends hanging around her?
Where else does she hang out? Seek opportunties..
You can try to act a smart@ss infront of her friends if you like? But personally advice is.... Unless you are REALLY 'smart' or has something which can be rather equivalent to it... Chances are... You're just out on PURELY LUCK.. (and chances are, luck won't be very much on your side if you simply can't catch her eyes there and then...?)
Find out more about her group of friends if they're the same people hanging about... Btw, try to find out if she's attached beforehand yeah? -
most impt....Originally posted by Devil1976:How interested in her are you?
School foodcourt? Is that the best you can do? Is it usually the same group of friends hanging around her?
Where else does she hang out? Seek opportunties..
You can try to act a smart@ss infront of her friends if you like? But personally advice is.... Unless you are REALLY 'smart' or has something which can be rather equivalent to it... Chances are... You're just out on PURELY LUCK.. (and chances are, luck won't be very much on your side if you simply can't catch her eyes there and then...?)
Find out more about her group of friends if they're the same people hanging about... Btw, try to find out if she's attached beforehand yeah?
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Plan, Plan and Plan... Best advice.
Think of topic, joke, magic, palmistry, etc... u have to do ur homework b4 going. Or not u will look like 1 stupid idoit.
Just a point. Think of what u have to lose and it is not so bad to approach after all. -
try to know her friends first.
Do a data check.
No point go so fast only to find out she got a bf. -
Dun need to go up and ask. Ask from her friends her email address, her phone number and slowly work out from there. Sms her once in a while, let her know of ur presence. Then the rest is up to u.
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come on! be a man~ just go up straight and ask her name. if i can do it, u can too
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See if you got from that might knw her lor. If she's got some many friends, there might be a 3 degrees of seperartion. You might just know somebody who knows her. Ask around.
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best get her msn mail chat chat liao got her number then ask her out.
in sch SMILE more
provided she not attach loh
or add her infriendster then get msn -
Did her friends and her 'check you out' or not?Originally posted by hypercurry:(i know this may have been asked alot of times, but i just want comments)
How do you approach a girl when she is always with her friends? I dunno any of her friends and i usually see her in the school foodcourt. She is hardly alone, seems that i cant find a moment to chat up with her. Should i try some smart pickup in front of the friends?
Did they know your existance?
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go watch the wedding crashers for very good pickup tips.
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Last time my friend tried writing a letter to her but she gave the letter to her teacher. Then they were label as Remeo and Juliet after that.Originally posted by hypercurry:(i know this may have been asked alot of times, but i just want comments)
How do you approach a girl when she is always with her friends? I dunno any of her friends and i usually see her in the school foodcourt. She is hardly alone, seems that i cant find a moment to chat up with her. Should i try some smart pickup in front of the friends?
But he was successful in getting his gal. -
i take it that you dun really know each other yet??? like you're not "friends" yet right??? maybe you can just go up confidently and ask her, "er... can i borrow you from your friends for a while?" and then smile charmingly.
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Do lots and lots of 'background checks' first. Try to get someone who knows her well. Find out about what she's like, whether she's attached, etc, etc.
Try to engineer a situation where you will have to talk to her. For example, try to drop a pile of notes in front of her, ask her for directions, etc.... I know it sounds corny but it's a lot less unsettling for you to do so than to go up to her directly. And for goodness' sake, when you do talk to her, DON'T FREEZE.
In any case, don't rush things. Don't expect her to fall madly in love with you five minutes after talking with her. Heck, I'm not trying to sound evil, but your opinion of her may very well change after getting to know her. These things take time. Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day.
Good luck!
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wah so many pro here
i should hav join tis forums early
5 years no GF liao
sad~~~~~~``