Is it ok for guys to treat frens more impt den their gf?
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i feel dat my bf is treating his guy frens more impt den me??I dunno y when i see him treat his frens more impt..i will like feel unhappy abt it??Is this call jealous or??Sometimes i realli feel sad when he treat his frens more impt den me..T.T..we often quarrel because of this problem...How??What shld i do???
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Peng You Ru Shou Ju
Nu Ren Ru Yi Fu!
To answer the topic, you might want to have a talk with your guy and thrash everything out. -
Yes. This is a form of jealousy. haha.. How long have u all been together? Have u seen guys who treats his game more impt then their gf? Maybe if you tell him about your worries sincerely, he will take note of it. It really depends. But i believe u are something inside him. All guys would like their gf, but some are not good in showing it..
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Yes.. but in a nice way..Originally posted by CoolMyth:Peng You Ru Shou Ju
Nu Ren Ru Yi Fu!
To answer the topic, you might want to have a talk with your guy and thrash everything out.
Quarrel will only make things worse and you might ended up saying hurtful words. Talk to him nicely.. And see if he could give you some assurance. -
Hmmx...my bf also likes to play games...so wad shld i do??Open one eye close one eye??
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You can't stop your bf from playing games.Originally posted by Trouble^ga|:Hmmx...my bf also likes to play games...so wad shld i do??Open one eye close one eye??
You need to give him some space to do the things that he like.
If possible, join in the fun so that you won't feel left out. -
Fuck, some guys treat the TV remote control better than their girlfriends.
Really.
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WAd makes me realli angry is when i let him play games..he will ignore me totally when he is playing his games...i just dun like him always play games instead go out to get a part time job..Haizzz...
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Simple.. tell me what do you want from him?Originally posted by Trouble^ga|:WAd makes me realli angry is when i let him play games..he will ignore me totally when he is playing his games...i just dun like him always play games instead go out to get a part time job..Haizzz... -
Originally posted by Mao x 2:Simple.. tell me what do you want from him?
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Each guys have their own interest. If it's playing games, join him the game! Play silly games with him, it may even bring ur relationship closer. Believe me. U want him to get a part time job? Will u complain again if he's working too much and neglected u?
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of coz i won't complain if he is willing to go out to find a part time job..hmmx...he prefers to play with his frens...
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Originally posted by Trouble^ga|:of coz i won't complain if he is willing to go out to find a part time job..hmmx...he prefers to play with his frens...
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First off... heres wishing u a belated birthday..
ok
how old is ur bf? if he is also in his late teens.. that prolly explains why he still likes to "play".. as in not caring about the future that much.. and erm.. in a r/s.. its about giving and taking... and it seems to me ur unhappy that he is not doing something that u would like him to do... but leos like to be in control dun they?
btw.. what games does he play? if possible join in lor... or not ask him to play maple story with u lor.. hehe
cheer up ba.. -
Been there done that!!!
if your bf likes to play games too much... some guys just need to grow out of it... my case we were mentally of different levels.... now after we broke up he's much better i think
sometimes a guy needs time to outgrow such "hobbies"... but if u really can't wait then go....
I told my ex. he maybe the right guy for me... but we met too soon... and by the time he "grew up" mentally he'll be Mr right but Mr Right for someone else.
hmm... in physical pain now (hurted my back)... am i making any sense? -
Get this in your head: Guys - they never mature, they just grow older.
Whether they are 15, 30 or 55, they will still be playing with their online games and such.
Better they waste their time at home blowing up ugly green monsters than screwing your best friend's sister behind your back. -
sad but trueOriginally posted by charlize:Get this in your head: Guys - they never mature, they just grow older.
Whether they are 15, 30 or 55, they will still be playing with their online games and such.
Better they waste their time at home blowing up ugly green monsters than screwing your best friend's sister behind your back. -
I dun like to play games with my gf.....she always win me....then i'm always the one buey song...so, i dun like to play games....if wanna play games, once in a while go Arcade n play, it brings both closer too....
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I'm the type who will balance bf and frens wan..
got bf also muz spare some time for frens.. bcos I believe frens can be there for u for a long long time..whereas if I break break up with bf..most of the times.. we dun even talk..no to mention, remain as frens. -
u sound like my sis
she's complainin abt the same thing too.. -
The more u want his attention, the less u feel u are getting.
your jealousy will make things worse.
my experience is that, i already spent most of my time with my gf(i get to see my gf everyday, we sleep together 5days out of a week, either her or my house, i only meet my frens about 3times per week, and of cos i dun sleep with them.), and my good frens all say i everytime accompany gf never go out together with them, BUT MY GF STILL JEALOUS OF MY FRENS.
So, the problem is, no matter how much attention i give to my gf, she's always hungry for more, there is no "enough". Or maybe i should put it in another way, she feels that all my time should be spent on her, watever time i give to others, she feels that someone "steal" my time away from her.
to be fair to u, that may not be ur case, maybe ur bf really spend most of his time going out with his buddies, and only meet u once in a while. -
i'm curious what game you play? can tell me?Originally posted by dcx:I dun like to play games with my gf.....she always win me....then i'm always the one buey song...so, i dun like to play games....if wanna play games, once in a while go Arcade n play, it brings both closer too.... -
U wouldn't wanna play one......Originally posted by freedom4ever:i'm curious what game you play? can tell me? -
I'm the opposite kind of gf (before I got married) I want my own space. Lots of it. Till the extent my friends say it seems like I'm single Thank goodness my husband, then boyfriend likes his own space too.
Also, he is the one nagging at me for playing too much online games instead of doing something productive.
All I can say is, once a gamer, always a gamer. Most of my guildmates are all married and they are stuck to the pc straight after work. Then again they do spend time with their wives. Best way is to get into the game as well. You might love it -
Yah lorr yah lorr! My guy also He & his pet fish pet turtles pet hamsters From young already collect all these pets, including a very ugly pet salamander
AND recently, a very slimey green frog
I told him I'm fine with him keeping such pets, but if I'm at his place & his frog jumps on me, it's going down the toilet
FeowFeowOriginally posted by charlize:Get this in your head: Guys - they never mature, they just grow older.
Whether they are 15, 30 or 55, they will still be playing with their online games and such.
Better they waste their time at home blowing up ugly green monsters than screwing your best friend's sister behind your back.