relationship = sex ??
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hi all. i been very disturbed by this incident for a very long while already. its like this. my gf's colleagues/frenz always seem to be very interested in my gf sex life. always when she goes out with me whenever she off work or during weekends, her stupid frenz will always tease her saying that she will be eating my 'carror' or not etc etc. i find it so annoying that ppl nowadays always seem to associate sex with relationships. its like if A n B are a couple, they will definitely be involved in sex!! it seems tat the majority of them asking this type of stupid qns are her male n some of her female colleagues.. my gf knows how to handle the situation but i find it damn irritating whenever i find out that those ppl keep asking her qns. why is it tt so many ppl always get this idea that relationship=sex? i'm sure there are hundreds of u who will surely think that a gal has been 'used' whenever she comes out of a relationship. rite? and i'm extremely sorry if i haf offended anyone with nmy frank comments. but this is wat i gather after hearing from many ppl about a gal coming out from a failed relationship .. even gals themselves relate about other gals to me as 'used'. now does it all matter if u sincerely love tt person? no rite? anyway damn pissed off with my gf frenz etc
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haha.. i'd be pissed too.. i mean what the Fuck... how can they be so stereotypical.. they're like blaming they're lack of foresight on other people and stuff.. sheesh
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this kind of thing no need to care la.... they wanna say let them say lo... no need to get heated up wan ma....
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tell them to STFU since u don like it
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You really shouldn't be bothered with such people...?Originally posted by bravo82:hi all. i been very disturbed by this incident for a very long while already. its like this. my gf's colleagues/frenz always seem to be very interested in my gf sex life. always when she goes out with me whenever she off work or during weekends, her stupid frenz will always tease her saying that she will be eating my 'carror' or not etc etc. i find it so annoying that ppl nowadays always seem to associate sex with relationships. its like if A n B are a couple, they will definitely be involved in sex!! it seems tat the majority of them asking this type of stupid qns are her male n some of her female colleagues.. my gf knows how to handle the situation but i find it damn irritating whenever i find out that those ppl keep asking her qns. why is it tt so many ppl always get this idea that relationship=sex? i'm sure there are hundreds of u who will surely think that a gal has been 'used' whenever she comes out of a relationship. rite? and i'm extremely sorry if i haf offended anyone with nmy frank comments. but this is wat i gather after hearing from many ppl about a gal coming out from a failed relationship .. even gals themselves relate about other gals to me as 'used'. now does it all matter if u sincerely love tt person? no rite? anyway damn pissed off with my gf frenz etc -
They are just trying to live vicariously through your gf because they do not have a life. Pity them and ignore themOriginally posted by Devil1976:You really shouldn't be bothered with such people...? -
Tell them to get a life dude...Originally posted by smudgey:They are just trying to live vicariously through your gf because they do not have a life. Pity them and ignore them
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your gf should change friends or avoid these people.
I got that in the past from guys in office who seem to think they can ger laid with any girl in office (cause some gers are loose and did whatever with these men).
Through actions and words ... these people got the message that if they talk more sh!t like this, I am gonna log a harassment note with HR. -
your gf should change friends or avoid these people.
I got that in the past from guys in office who seem to think they can get laid with any girl in office (cause some gers are loose and did whatever with these men).
Through actions and words ... these people got the message that if they talk more sh!t like this, I am gonna log a harassment note with HR. -
I think this is a "privacy" issue rather then whether r/s = sxx....Originally posted by bravo82:hi all. i been very disturbed by this incident for a very long while already. its like this. my gf's colleagues/frenz always seem to be very interested in my gf sex life. always when she goes out with me whenever she off work or during weekends, her stupid frenz will always tease her saying that she will be eating my 'carror' or not etc etc. i find it so annoying that ppl nowadays always seem to associate sex with relationships. its like if A n B are a couple, they will definitely be involved in sex!! it seems tat the majority of them asking this type of stupid qns are her male n some of her female colleagues.. my gf knows how to handle the situation but i find it damn irritating whenever i find out that those ppl keep asking her qns. why is it tt so many ppl always get this idea that relationship=sex? i'm sure there are hundreds of u who will surely think that a gal has been 'used' whenever she comes out of a relationship. rite? and i'm extremely sorry if i haf offended anyone with nmy frank comments. but this is wat i gather after hearing from many ppl about a gal coming out from a failed relationship .. even gals themselves relate about other gals to me as 'used'. now does it all matter if u sincerely love tt person? no rite? anyway damn pissed off with my gf frenz etc -
Maybe ur gf ever discussed that kinda topics with them before? That's why they dare to ask her/tease her like that.
Back in my ite days also a lot of such topics, at my work palce also.. those aunties like to talk abt their sex life over lunch time.. gees.. often makes me wana stand up and walk away. -
relationship= MUST HAVE SEX THEN CONSIDER RELATIONSHIP?
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Dun needOriginally posted by Manager433:relationship= MUST HAVE SEX THEN CONSIDER RELATIONSHIP? -
It really can be due to various reasons?Originally posted by smudgey:They are just trying to live vicariously through your gf because they do not have a life. Pity them and ignore them
But often no point to brood over it... -
Its thier mentality.. they wanna know. Curious..wanna see ur reactions or ur gf reactions. Or maybe they just aint getting enough and envying you like little virgin boys n girls getting ready to be popped.
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same thots..y bother at allOriginally posted by Devil1976:You really shouldn't be bothered with such people...? -
Like you just said, they are just joking, making fun of her, and teasing her only. No harm done, so dun get heat up on these minor minor stuff, you think too much eh bro. Anyway if your gf can handle it, why not you?
And as for your topic "relationship = sex", well.... I can only tell you one word : Eventually.
And if you can't take this kind of pressure, you dun deserve to be in one, cos sooner or later, you'll use this "topic" to stir up a heaty conversation with your gf. The aftermath.... just use your imagination.
Besides, she's your gf... not your dog. Wat right have you got to restrict who she can or cannot befriend with? But no harm sounding out to her about your unhappiness and let her sayang abit.
Anyway, if I sound harsh in anyway, I beg your pardon.