what is love
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Dibilo,
It may be love, it may Not be love yet, it's difficult to tell right now.
You can't have the mindset whereby if you're Not in love, you won't make a move. Love is developed over time, with fondness, touching, & all those things that couples do.
Usually, love is Not 1-sided. True love isn't about an all-encompassing love to the point whereby you smother your partner. It's built with a solid foundation, you're comfortable with this person to let this person see your faults, knowing that she'll accept them & love you anyway.
You can fart, burp & dig your nose in front of this girl, & she'll still love you even if she teases you.
And love is when even if she hurts you so very deeply, you can bring yourself to forgive her anyway.
You're also in love if you can bring yourself to put her need for space above your need to cling on to her, i.e. you love her enough to respect her wishes.
A whole lotta things make up love, it's complicated, it's complex, it's full of mysteries, but damn, is it wonderful.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by dibilo:wow haha a really complicated reply to a simple question... haha. ok the story is that there is this girl who came into my life and we talk to each other quite often and thus i begin to think of her.. but i am not sure if this is a feeling of love you see... i don't wish to go ahead if i dont love someone. -
Whatever you want to call it... However ya wanna define it.... If there's no great harm for both of you... Why don't you just fall into its embrace....?Originally posted by dibilo:for your question: yes
haha and i really cant put it anyway clearer coz that's all there is to it haha. ok so you are saying if we continue to get closer to each other, i would probably love her in the end, haha yes... then back to the same question.. how would someone who loves another feel...
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love...another 4 letter words tt is temporary out of my dictionary...
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hehe thx for all the inputs.. will be seriously considering them..
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Love is not abt its ur fault
but im sorry
not where are you
but i'm right here
not how could you
but i understand
not i wish you were
but im thankful you are
Love isn't abt becoming someone else's perfect person,
its all abt finding someone who helps you become the best you can be. -
"....babe don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more......."
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[quote]Originally posted by drx:
[b]To me love is something which comes straight down from the heart, u will know when your heart pains for the someone whom u love and unwilliness to give her up..
truly agreed..
Wat's more.. watever he/she said/do affects u deeply..
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to me , love is still strong between relationship ( even if the couple has been together for a long long time).
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you know you love someone when:
1. the first thing you think about when you get up in the morning is her
2. you set limits that she must not cross, but keep drawing back the limit everytime she does
3. everytime she cries, you feel like crying too
4. no matter how hurt she makes you feel, you know that deep down, you'll always love her truly
5. she makes you want to be your best, (at work, at home, as a person etc)
6. even though you call each other and remain quiet at both ends of the line, you still feel happy she's right there at the other end.
7. she makes you do things you never thought you could or would, and you feel great about it. -
very true...Originally posted by starblue:you know you love someone when:
1. the first thing you think about when you get up in the morning is her
2. you set limits that she must not cross, but keep drawing back the limit everytime she does
3. everytime she cries, you feel like crying too
4. no matter how hurt she makes you feel, you know that deep down, you'll always love her truly
5. she makes you want to be your best, (at work, at home, as a person etc)
6. even though you call each other and remain quiet at both ends of the line, you still feel happy she's right there at the other end.
7. she makes you do things you never thought you could or would, and you feel great about it.
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Love,
So damn true ... love always find new ways of expression !!!
Undefinable,
Illogical,
Irrational,
Irrelevant,
hurtful,
demeaning,
painful,
demoralising,
Crippling,
psychological scarring,
mentally wounding,
physically straining,
Numbing,
Agony,
Torture,
Experimental,
guinea pig,
Scape goat,
A !!@@#,
A bastard,
A @^@!,
A MCP,
horniness,
Pervertedness,
Sickness,
Hell,
Heaven,
Yin,
Yang,
No perfect solution,
No perfect definition,
No Perfect Shit,
No perfect answer to your perfect question.
But where is the word psychic ... guess if you love someone enough through thoughts they should be able to tell if and when they r sensitive enough to be aware that you are thinking of them.