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have been feeling very very depress for the past few weeks. things have not been going well and it affected me so much that there i have sucide thoughts. first my mom gone "crazy"... sunddenly throw temper at me and hit herself. then i was badly late for an important meeting almost got a scolding from boss .... 1 week later i got into a car accident and have to pay around $1k for repair , the worst part is my car is 1mth old and the accident is due to my misjudgement... i felt mentally ill... can't sleep , no appetitie.......
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It's all over, isn't it?? So, y brood abt it??? As for your mum, ever ask her why?Originally posted by depress2005:have been feeling very very depress for the past few weeks. things have not been going well and it affected me so much that there i have sucide thoughts. first my mom gone "crazy"... sunddenly throw temper at me and hit herself. then i was badly late for an important meeting almost got a scolding from boss .... 1 week later i got into a car accident and have to pay around $1k for repair , the worst part is my car is 1mth old and the accident is due to my misjudgement... i felt mentally ill... can't sleep , no appetitie....... -
Chill man. The bad days will past, 1 fine day.
I'm currently undergoing my fair share of shat now. Could be so much worse than yours?
Trust me.
Everyone will think that their misery is worse than the others anyway.
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Dear Depress2005,
We all have our bad days, & it's natural to rant abit & feel sorry for ourselves once in awhile. Nobody has good days all the time; if we did, none of us would actually grow & know how to deal with adversity.
You can wallow in self-pity for a day or 2, but do eventually snap out of it, & become stronger.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by depress2005:have been feeling very very depress for the past few weeks. things have not been going well and it affected me so much that there i have sucide thoughts. first my mom gone "crazy"... sunddenly throw temper at me and hit herself. then i was badly late for an important meeting almost got a scolding from boss .... 1 week later i got into a car accident and have to pay around $1k for repair , the worst part is my car is 1mth old and the accident is due to my misjudgement... i felt mentally ill... can't sleep , no appetitie....... -
I agree with feow on this... I had a very very long case of "bad luck" at work... about a year long worth of it....
got me really upset too... it's like all the uncommon. should never happen scenerios are happening to me... I even broke down at work and cried a few times... i know how it feels like the whole world is against u... but remember to snap out of it. If you are religious, remember that one that loves you always, and is will somehow help you through this...
it's ok to wallow in self pity for a while but it's a dangerous place to stay in. cos the longer u stay in self pity land, the harder it is to find your way back.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Depress2005,
We all have our bad days, & it's natural to rant abit & feel sorry for ourselves once in awhile. Nobody has good days all the time; if we did, none of us would actually grow & know how to deal with adversity.
You can wallow in self-pity for a day or 2, but do eventually snap out of it, & become stronger.
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How is your mum now? Hope that she is fine now. As for the car, don't be upset you can easily earned back the $1,000.00. No point crying over spill milk. Just be more careful in future, if bad things still happen, think of a way to wash away your luck. If you are a buddhist, maybe you can go temple and get the flowers to wash away your luck.
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few are lucky in the Ghost Month.
You may want to carry something to "protect" yourself. Same for the house.
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You've got troubles.. How best it is for you to slow down, take sometime out for yourself and take it easy. None of us can bring you out of depression if you choose to be in there and did not take steps to alleviate it through means that is most effective for yourself...
some of the things that happen are beyond your control - ie your mom. And somethings happen to remind yourself to be careful - ie your car ... -
you might want to talk to a counseller..it might help...one thing tho...dont try to attempt suicide..life is preciousOriginally posted by depress2005:have been feeling very very depress for the past few weeks. things have not been going well and it affected me so much that there i have sucide thoughts. first my mom gone "crazy"... sunddenly throw temper at me and hit herself. then i was badly late for an important meeting almost got a scolding from boss .... 1 week later i got into a car accident and have to pay around $1k for repair , the worst part is my car is 1mth old and the accident is due to my misjudgement... i felt mentally ill... can't sleep , no appetitie....... 
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ya.... look at it this way. u get depressed, you commit suicude.
if you manage to die... will your soul live on? (shall not talk about your soul. religion is a sensitive subject)... but what about your love ones... your parents... friends... u want them to feel that kind of sadness?
If you don't die... you'll live to regret your actions. it's scar both you and your LOVED ones for LIFE!!!Originally posted by ceecookie:you might want to talk to a counseller..it might help...one thing tho...dont try to attempt suicide..life is precious -
hello...are u making she confused?u tell her dying might make her soul living and not living on and then if she dun die she will regret it...like this you are telling her to be at the middle thus making her more confused..Originally posted by smudgey:ya.... look at it this way. u get depressed, you commit suicude.
if you manage to die... will your soul live on? (shall not talk about your soul. religion is a sensitive subject)... but what about your love ones... your parents... friends... u want them to feel that kind of sadness?
If you don't die... you'll live to regret your actions. it's scar both you and your LOVED ones for LIFE!!! -
Problems are like rain clouds they will never last. Just keep moving and i'm sure in a few days time you'll be happy againOriginally posted by depress2005:have been feeling very very depress for the past few weeks. things have not been going well and it affected me so much that there i have sucide thoughts. first my mom gone "crazy"... sunddenly throw temper at me and hit herself. then i was badly late for an important meeting almost got a scolding from boss .... 1 week later i got into a car accident and have to pay around $1k for repair , the worst part is my car is 1mth old and the accident is due to my misjudgement... i felt mentally ill... can't sleep , no appetitie.......
"...Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming,Just keep swimming swimming swimming...What do we do we swim, swim, swim..." -
Shit happens.. chain of events happens.. karma bites. Welcome to the real world. This aint matrix.. this aint no hell or heaven. This is the place u get to choose ur actions and choose them right. Everyone makes mistakes. Throught mistakes, failure and bullshit does it make a person stronger. Its allabuot struggling. The moment u are born.. u are already struggling out of your mum's womb.
Dun gimme that suicide bs.. u die .. they mourn for few days.. n they go on living. And as for u.. dead.. never to savour the pleasures of life.
"A man is not finished when he is defeated. He is finished when he quits."
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Erm, I think if you know a leeeeeeeeeeetle bit about Christianity, then you wouldn't be confused about what Smudgey is talking about. There is a distinction between the body & the soul. So from what I interpreted, she's saying that even if this depressed guy manages to commit suicide & the body is dead, how can he guarantee that his soul will be alive? Perhaps due to sin, the soul will die soon... [ooops, Not "soon", I meant to write "also"]
Whatever lah, I'm just giving you the gist of it, I don't really like to preach yadda yadda yadda. So if you want to read up more, can read the Bible
FeowFeowOriginally posted by ceecookie:hello...are u making she confused?u tell her dying might make her soul living and not living on and then if she dun die she will regret it...like this you are telling her to be at the middle thus making her more confused.. -
thanks everyone. I felt better. yup , I think I will stay strong with all your encouragements.
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try this "cure"
buy 3 big rough-skinned green lime.
squeeze juice into bath tub
bath using the water.
don on freshly washed bright clothes (red, pink recommended)
avoid using the bathroom for the next 3 hours.