Deep of Separation
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Hi Guys
Need advise for below mentions Letter Before I Sign it........
DEED OF SEPARATION
THIS DEED is made on the day of August 2005 between Her Name I.C Name hereinafter referred to as "the Wife"] of the one part and Name I.C no [hereinafter referred to as "the Husband"] of the other part.
WHEREAS:
I. The parties were married at the Singapore Marriage Registry on the _______ day of ___________ 1997.
II. There are no children to this marriage.
III. They are joint owners of an HDB flat at Apt Blk .
IV. The parties have been living separately since sometime at the end of May 2005 when the Husband moved out of the matrimonial flat. Although he has subsequently moved back into the flat, they have lived in separate rooms and in separate households.
V. The Wife has moved out of the matrimonial flat on _____ August 2005 and is contemplating commencing divorce proceedings.
VI. Parties have agreed to enter into this agreement to regulate their conduct vis a vis each other pending the Wife's decision in respect of the divorce proceedings.
NOW THIS DEED WITNESSES as follows:-
The Husband and the Wife mutually covenant and agree with each other as follows:-
1. The Husband and the Wife shall each live separate and apart from and free from the marital control (if any) of the other and neither of them shall molest, annoy, disturb or interfere with the other or his or her relations, friends or acquaintances or in his or her profession or business.
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2. Upon the expiry of three years from the date of their separation, either party may petition the Court to dissolve the marriage and in the event that a party intends to commence such proceedings, the other party shall consent to the marriage being dissolved and shall execute such consent or other documents signifying his or her consent.
3. This agreement does not preclude either party from commencing proceedings for a dissolution of the marriage on such grounds as he or she sees fit and at such time as he or she sees fit.
4. The parties agree that both parties shall have the right of access to the matrimonial flat and to reside in the flat. The Wife shall have exclusive possession of one room and the Husband shall have exclusive possession of one room and neither party shall enter into the other party's room without consent.
5. The parties shall continue to pay the monthly mortgage instalments of the flat until the flat is sold.
6. The parties shall pay the expenses of the flat, that is, the utility bills, conservancy and service charges, telephone bills, television licence fees, SCV fees and any other charges arising from the use of the flat equally for the period when they are both residing in the flat. The Husband shall solely bear the charges for as long as the Wife continues to reside outside the flat.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF the parties have set their hands and seals the day and year first abovewritten.
SIGNED SEALED and DELIVERED )
by )
in the presence of:- )
SIGNED SEALED and DELIVERED )
by )
in the presence of:- )
DATED this day of August 2005 -
Why this happens? Can't save this marriage anymore?
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THERE IS NO WRONG AND RIGHT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ALL she want isOriginally posted by Manager433:Why this happens? Can't save this marriage anymore?
freedom because of my MAN EGO.
Honestly miserable (I am still human after all right ! ) we are more like friend right now , I 'm not sure what going to happen to our marriage life , (not in good sign ) it all depend on her.....decision ? I HOPE so THAT WAY i HAVE TO SIGN IT. -
What advice do you need?
From what I see, it's legal & proper what
FeowFeowOriginally posted by cwvlchua:Hi Guys
Need advise for below mentions Letter Before I Sign it........
DEED OF SEPARATION
THIS DEED is made on the day of August 2005 between Her Name I.C Name hereinafter referred to as "the Wife"] of the one part and Name I.C no [hereinafter referred to as "the Husband"] of the other part.
WHEREAS:
I. The parties were married at the Singapore Marriage Registry on the _______ day of ___________ 1997.
II. There are no children to this marriage.
III. They are joint owners of an HDB flat at Apt Blk .
IV. The parties have been living separately since sometime at the end of May 2005 when the Husband moved out of the matrimonial flat. Although he has subsequently moved back into the flat, they have lived in separate rooms and in separate households.
V. The Wife has moved out of the matrimonial flat on _____ August 2005 and is contemplating commencing divorce proceedings.
VI. Parties have agreed to enter into this agreement to regulate their conduct vis a vis each other pending the Wife's decision in respect of the divorce proceedings.
NOW THIS DEED WITNESSES as follows:-
The Husband and the Wife mutually covenant and agree with each other as follows:-
1. The Husband and the Wife shall each live separate and apart from and free from the marital control (if any) of the other and neither of them shall molest, annoy, disturb or interfere with the other or his or her relations, friends or acquaintances or in his or her profession or business.
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2. Upon the expiry of three years from the date of their separation, either party may petition the Court to dissolve the marriage and in the event that a party intends to commence such proceedings, the other party shall consent to the marriage being dissolved and shall execute such consent or other documents signifying his or her consent.
3. This agreement does not preclude either party from commencing proceedings for a dissolution of the marriage on such grounds as he or she sees fit and at such time as he or she sees fit.
4. The parties agree that both parties shall have the right of access to the matrimonial flat and to reside in the flat. The Wife shall have exclusive possession of one room and the Husband shall have exclusive possession of one room and neither party shall enter into the other party's room without consent.
5. The parties shall continue to pay the monthly mortgage instalments of the flat until the flat is sold.
6. The parties shall pay the expenses of the flat, that is, the utility bills, conservancy and service charges, telephone bills, television licence fees, SCV fees and any other charges arising from the use of the flat equally for the period when they are both residing in the flat. The Husband shall solely bear the charges for as long as the Wife continues to reside outside the flat.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF the parties have set their hands and seals the day and year first abovewritten.
SIGNED SEALED and DELIVERED )
by )
in the presence of:- )
SIGNED SEALED and DELIVERED )
by )
in the presence of:- )
DATED this day of August 2005 -
Perhaps you can give us abit more info about this man ego bit, then we may be able to help you?
Marriage isn't something to be taken lightly, by both parties. It doesn't mean the party unwilling to end the marriage takes it more seriously. Sometimes it's because the party unwilling to end the marriage didn't take the other party's needs seriously enough that caused the marriage to end.
What has been done?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by cwvlchua:THERE IS NO WRONG AND RIGHT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ALL she want is
freedom because of my MAN EGO.
Honestly miserable (I am still human after all right ! ) we are more like friend right now , I 'm not sure what going to happen to our marriage life , (not in good sign ) it all depend on her.....decision ? I HOPE so THAT WAY i HAVE TO SIGN IT. -
I Have done nothing ?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Perhaps you can give us abit more info about this man ego bit, then we may be able to help you?
Marriage isn't something to be taken lightly, by both parties. It doesn't mean the party unwilling to end the marriage takes it more seriously. Sometimes it's because the party unwilling to end the marriage didn't take the other party's needs seriously enough that caused the marriage to end.
What has been done?
FeowFeow
A letter from to her
(You've to be strong in order to overcome you fear .I know it's hard but time is the best medicine . Have to survive for your own Good.
This is a phrase of life that some people might went through ,and I didn't expect we landed in this situation. I'm so sorry that I brought this to you .Pardon me for my selfishness! Have to face the fact of life.
Go our separate way at this time ,we might know or see how far can we go or shall I say give each other healing space and time.
Pls see attachment for the letter I reply to her , And You guys don't have to worry about me any more,
From the day I accepted Lord he has been taking care of me Amen. She is the one in the lost right now( she deny,saying that not so sure but know pretty sure what she want in life, to me she living in her own world right now.
Move to my sister place since 22July n were come back home only when she not around,reason she want to move to her out ,so I find this is a better solution as is so inconvenience for her to move out and also hope by staying at home she would really miss this house .( Even for temporary sometime I can't even take the sadness of leaving the house) She has come back from work fly to Hong kong on 06 to 11 aug holidays coming back on 11 Thursday going to work on Fridays 12aug.
Anyway she did mentions........Be It Or Not .........this guy is in our life right us now,But have not really start the relationship ....yet ..... So you guys get the Point ? -
slow down...
what do you need from this site or you're just ranting. -
The cross word And sentence in the Letter of DEEP OF SEPARATION ?? ANY THINK I HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR B 4 I SIGN IT.Originally posted by mistyblue:slow down...
what do you need from this site or you're just ranting. -
Folks had already reviewed it and said its a normal one...Originally posted by cwvlchua:The cross word And sentence in the Letter of DEEP OF SEPARATION ?? ANY THINK I HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR B 4 I SIGN IT.
Its more likely you need to think about things and if you're uncomfortable, then its best to seek the opinion or a professional legal service or counseller. Forum can only give you this much info. -
Guys >Ok thank alot ! As it a kind of rush for me as I have to sign the Letter tomorrow.Originally posted by mistyblue:Folks had already reviewed it and said its a normal one...
Its more likely you need to think about things and if you're uncomfortable, then its best to seek the opinion or a professional legal service or counseller. Forum can only give you this much info. -
3 years is quite a long time and many things can happen within this period. its kind of draggy in the sense you are being tied down by it. if you have not talk things out amicably, then do so. if you've already done that and sure that there's no point carrying on, then divorce straightaway. otherwise move back to the same house together and give it another shot. i dont really see the point of signing this contract.
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HiOriginally posted by fluffycloudlady:3 years is quite a long time and many things can happen within this period. its kind of draggy in the sense you are being tied down by it. if you have not talk things out amicably, then do so. if you've already done that and sure that there's no point carrying on, then divorce straightaway. otherwise move back to the same house together and give it another shot. i dont really see the point of signing this contract.
Thank for concern (whatever happen )always look at the positive side of life Right , I have move Back But Now she is moving out Sigh ? )
When you Truly Care Love For Someone ,You don't look for faults.yuo look for answer,You look for mistakes .Instead, You fight the mistakes ,You accept the faults ,and You overlook the excuses.
The measure of love is when you love without measure.In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return.So once you have it don't ever let go, the chance night never come your way again (marriage 13 years)
Just treat it as this is the
most Unfortunate and unfair thing in our life . TRUST
ME there is people our there worst than us is still
not end of the world yet !
No one can Go Back and make a Brand new start.Anyone
can start from Now And Make A Brand New Ending.God
didn't promise days without pain,Laughter without
sorrow,sun without rain,but He did promise strenght
for the Day,Comfort for the Tears,and Light for the
Way.
Instead I am so grateful to her that she had wake me out from present days of my Life. For sure my Future life would be better than present . Wish me Luck ! HOPE the 3 years can turn the table around. ! Hrmm 3 year down the road Sigh 42 ??? Do you know that A beautiful relationship is definitely the least to expect from here.. the learning of a new person (TOUGHEST) -
All the best~
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How I hope I can gathered such strength and move on faster in life. IT took me quite long to recover from my past r/s.
All the best to you too. -
If you are REALLY going for the DIVORCE in time to come, there's nothing much to look for in that Deed of Separation. In any sense if you're not comfortable with it, just take a little more time to think things through and review it if you like...?Originally posted by cwvlchua:The cross word And sentence in the Letter of DEEP OF SEPARATION ?? ANY THINK I HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR B 4 I SIGN IT. -
Dear All
Ready ! Thank you guys out there for info and supports .... Change to tomorrow 30aug ? Guess what it out 5th years Anniversary to be exact (stay together 8years marriage 5 total: 13years)after that we have dinner ho! ho !
Dear PTW
WAHT I WOULD CALL THOSE 2 month "LIVING AT HELL"You JUST Have to Learn ?? I WOULD JUST BITE THE BULLET AND SWALLOW IT .As I don't want her to sympathize me and this is not the kind of love I looking for ?
And she were move to her ex-colleague place beginning of september ...not sure what the date. her close friend said that ,after all I am not that bad compare to other ...have praying daily for restoration of our marraige. -
Good luck..Originally posted by cwvlchua:Dear All
Ready ! Thank you guys out there for info and supports .... Change to tomorrow 30aug ? Guess what it out 5th years Anniversary to be exact (stay together 8years marriage 5 total: 13years)after that we have dinner ho! ho !
Dear PTW
WAHT I WOULD CALL THOSE 2 month "LIVING AT HELL"You JUST Have to Learn ?? I WOULD JUST BITE THE BULLET AND SWALLOW IT .As I don't want her to sympathize me and this is not the kind of love I looking for ?
And she were move to her ex-colleague place beginning of september ...not sure what the date. her close friend said that ,after all I am not that bad compare to other ...have praying daily for restoration of our marraige.