Need Help To Sort Feeling Issues

• r33b0k

  31 Aug 05, 16:57

  Hello, I am 16 this year and I have a problem
  
  The problem is that I find myself easily fall in 'love' or infatuation rather easily. I can fall in 'love' with like 4 people at one time?
  
  I know time will sort my feelings and I would like to know if the brothers and sisters out there have any good advise?
• drx

  31 Aug 05, 17:18

  think of the money u need to spent on each person if u really goes out with 4 at a time..
  
  The time and energy......all given to them..no life ...to do the things u want..
• browniebaobao

  31 Aug 05, 17:19

  still young..
  
  maybe eager to be in love also..
  
  u will grow out of it ba...only a matter of time.
• Mao x 2

  31 Aug 05, 17:23

  Still young to understand the meaning of "love".
• r33b0k

  31 Aug 05, 17:42

  Originally posted by Mao x 2:

  Still young to understand the meaning of "love".

  hmm.. i am aware of most of it is infatuation and only time will dissipate the feelings and also wondering if it is really love..
• Bigmacky

  31 Aug 05, 18:47

  i guess all that you're feeling are puppy love...? well... u're still young... take time to slow know them better n then pick the best....
• smudgey

  31 Aug 05, 19:41

  Wa... drx your advice very practicle right?
  hehehe
  

  Originally posted by drx:

  think of the money u need to spent on each person if u really goes out with 4 at a time..
  
  The time and energy......all given to them..no life ...to do the things u want..

• smudgey

  31 Aug 05, 19:45

  as you say it's all infatuation...
  
  you probably (conciously or sub-conciously) want to be in love, wondering how it feels...
  
  hence when you meet ppl who are nice... infatuation occurs base on a "she can Possibly be the one....
  
  nothing to worry about esp when you yourself say you can tell it's infatuation.
  
  

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  hmm.. i am aware of most of it is infatuation and only time will dissipate the feelings and also wondering if it is really love..

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• r33b0k

  31 Aug 05, 20:04

  Originally posted by smudgey:
  as you say it's all infatuation...
  
  you probably (conciously or sub-conciously) want to be in love, wondering how it feels...
  
  hence when you meet ppl who are nice... infatuation occurs base on a "she can Possibly be the one....
  
  nothing to worry about esp when you yourself say you can tell it's infatuation.
  
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  you hit the bulleye's.
  Any advice to handle the situation?
• smudgey

  31 Aug 05, 20:30

  well as i said... just as long as you know it's an infatuation.
  
  the nature of infatuation is that it doesn't last too long and it's not deep... so give it time for these feelings to subside...
  
  on the plus side, some infatuation could develope into love... but once again you need to give it time...
  
  

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  you hit the bulleye's.
  Any advice to handle the situation?

• Yunhaier

  31 Aug 05, 21:07

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  Hello, I am 16 this year and I have a problem
  
  The problem is that I find myself easily fall in 'love' or infatuation rather easily. I can fall in 'love' with like 4 people at one time?
  
  I know time will sort my feelings and I would like to know if the brothers and sisters out there have any good advise?

  Are you a Libra? (Gemini or Aquarius?)
  
  Cheers
• browniebaobao

  31 Aug 05, 21:10

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Are you a Libra? (Gemini or Aquarius?)
  
  Cheers

  that 3 horoscopes fall in love v easily ma?
• starblue

  31 Aug 05, 21:13

  hormones.... they can be irritating sometimes... especially the one called testosterone...
  
  dun worry, if you dun go breaking hearts, you will out grow it someday...
• r33b0k

  31 Aug 05, 21:24

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Are you a Libra? (Gemini or Aquarius?)
  
  Cheers

  haha.. nopez.. i am a capricorn
• r33b0k

  31 Aug 05, 21:25

  Originally posted by starblue:

  hormones.... they can be irritating sometimes... especially the one called testosterone...
  
  dun worry, if you dun go breaking hearts, you will out grow it someday...

  unfortunately, usually is the other way round.. i got rejected and my heart got broken by them...
• r33b0k

  31 Aug 05, 21:26

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  well as i said... just as long as you know it's an infatuation.
  
  the nature of infatuation is that it doesn't last too long and it's not deep... so give it time for these feelings to subside...
  
  on the plus side, some infatuation could develope into love... but once again you need to give it time...
  
  

  Thanks alot smudgey.. I will take ur advice seriously..
• smudgey

  31 Aug 05, 21:59

  You are welcome!!

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  Thanks alot smudgey.. I will take ur advice seriously..

• Elfred

  1 Sep 05, 14:44

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  Hello, I am 16 this year and I have a problem
  
  The problem is that I find myself easily fall in 'love' or infatuation rather easily. I can fall in 'love' with like 4 people at one time?
  
  I know time will sort my feelings and I would like to know if the brothers and sisters out there have any good advise?

  Very normal what...
  
  Next time you got kids, you also have to fall in love with all 4 or more of them...
  
  
• Elfred

  1 Sep 05, 14:47

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  unfortunately, usually is the other way round.. i got rejected and my heart got broken by them...

  Then get more rejections... so many hearts to fall enough... the last heart that still hangs around mean you found real love... Rejection doesn't matter with real love...
  
  ...cos you'd pursue on like no tomorrow whereby the girl is more important than your shame of getting rejection...
  
  Now, the feeling of rejection to yourself is more important than the girls...
  
  Of course you have to be rejected again and again...
  
  Now, which is important? Your own self feelings or the girl you really love?
• Frighter

  1 Sep 05, 14:55

  Study should come first, without a good education, you will fund it hard to look for a job in future.
  
  Now time has change
• Elfred

  1 Sep 05, 14:58

  Originally posted by Frighter:

  Study should come first, without a good education, you will fund it hard to look for a job in future.
  
  Now time has change

  Study hard, graduate and be jobless...
  
  Maybe investing the school fees start 4 shops is better than feeding some professors whose only big deal in life is hoping the universities spoonfeed them forver... with your monies.
  
  
• Frighter

  2 Sep 05, 00:31

  Yet, you have went through the system. In future, just don't send your children to school, will this be better?
• Yunhaier

  2 Sep 05, 00:53

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  that 3 horoscopes fall in love v easily ma?

  Not really, just a survey nia.
  
  Cheers
• Yunhaier

  2 Sep 05, 01:03

  Originally posted by r33b0k:

  haha.. nopez.. i am a capricorn

  Seriously, because you are just about to embark and began your initial step towards your life journey of Love and Relationship, I see this as a form of experimental process to shape your raw state of your emotions. Dunno what you want.... because you have yet to form your own concept to derive the equation and principle you want to follow.
  
  Cheers
• papercut87

  2 Sep 05, 10:19

  its okay.. dun get so disheartened by all the rejections yar ? one day you'll find the right one and you'll learn to treasure her after all that has happened.. its just a matter of time that you'll find her la..
  
  anyway at the age of 16, its normal to develop crushes easily.. could be a case of raging hormones i suppose.. =x moreover, youre still young.. usually at 16, most of the relationships pple go in could b a case of puppy love and such... seen alot my friends go thru this and personally experienced such heartache myself.. so i can tell u that its not very wise going into a relationship at 16... there's alot of things to do such as widening ur social circle n gettin to know more pple ard ur age, having fun with them and concentrating on ur studies..
  
  haha just my two cents worth... cheers!