How to secure a woman's mind /how to make your gf love you m
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sounds like the type of strategy that i will use.... to PLOT a Break UP!Originally posted by Elfred:Same thinking here...
And to cling on someone who already pulling his close friend in to plot a breakup... unless miracle happens, it's just wasting time.
Her mission now is: Break up... break up... break up...
And she's the sort who'd kinda be creative with that.
If you really love her, the only way to risk a second chance is to agree to break up, cool off for some time, be friend during this time, and if she starts missing you being a bf, she'd take you back.
And if you continue to drag... it's like throwing good monies after bad ones in stock market... you'd just bankrupt yourself any more chances to be with her again cos you'd just look like a pest who just won't let go.
Not everything is just you nia nia try and compete and you win. Gotta be more mature.
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But i guess for a gal to plot a break up means that she really really dun
want the guy anymore.
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Or she hasn't realize how much weight he has become in her world...Originally posted by pinkygal76:But i guess for a gal to plot a break up means that she really really dun
want the guy anymore.
My personal opinion!
Not only such guys need to mature... gals may need to be mature too.
Will be good to stop dragging on and on endless into some sort of misery, anyway.
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HELLO !!!Originally posted by G.I. Lim:this thread is ****ed up...
if the girl really saw this y would she post to allow her bf to notice that she knows? What can she possibly gain by that? Why would she then ask us to continue to help her "darling"?
FaithGuy give up i say
it's not totally ****ed up
i post that comment with my boy sitting beside me typing those comments and HIS permission to post it!!!!
I DON'T GAIN ANYTHING!!!
I am just BEING FRIENDLY by saying hi to you guys that's all !!!
As simple as that. y would you want to think till so complicated?
sometimes the world is really simple. it's only get complicated when u think it is.
And there's nth wrong for you guys to continue to help ?
THere's nth wrong for him to ask help..
i think it's his freedom and his choice to ask for help and it's good that he can have someone to talk to and ask for help instead of over-stressing by himself alone .
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and stop ASKING MY INTENTIONS because i have NONE!!! -
does this make things clear? with my own nick?Originally posted by dcx:oh great~! Split personalities????????
the second post is by me
the first one by him
mr sotoong hehee :p
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hello mr alfred thanx for giving him adviceOriginally posted by Elfred:Same thinking here...
And to cling on someone who already pulling his close friend in to plot a breakup... unless miracle happens, it's just wasting time.
Her mission now is: Break up... break up... break up...
And she's the sort who'd kinda be creative with that.
If you really love her, the only way to risk a second chance is to agree to break up, cool off for some time, be friend during this time, and if she starts missing you being a bf, she'd take you back.
And if you continue to drag... it's like throwing good monies after bad ones in stock market... you'd just bankrupt yourself any more chances to be with her again cos you'd just look like a pest who just won't let go.
Not everything is just you nia nia try and compete and you win. Gotta be more mature.
but please please please please get ur facts right before u comment,
Since when there's any mention about me plotting a break up???
and any mention of I pulling in a fren becos i want a break up
excuse me i ain't a kid/teenager anymore i am not that childish or bo liao to do this kind thing.
if i want a break i just Spell it out
why bother to waste my time and energy to break off
this is call immaturity if i did that.
This post is also for those who thought the same of me PLOTTING a breakup haha what a joke. ..... -
It's all fated .
I might not agree with some guy's view point here though ,all my posts has been reveal and she knows everything about what i have posted. Ironically from my first posts till now, I somehow, instinctively earlier or later she will be aware of the posts .
It takes time, care and some thinking to maintain and cultivate love, it might as simple as you think but not yet so simple for some. Drastically, using words to describe my situation is difficult . I am sure of myself, my own thinking, my own feeling, but i am certainly uncertain of her , of her thinking , of her emotion.
You never try , you never know what's the outcome . I am trying , trying hard , but i knew being forceful bring no happiness . Love is not about being single directional , but mutually to have a fulfilling and lasting relationship.
I love her much more everyday, crazy as many of you will describe , giving up as the rest of you might suguest. One even recommend persistence. I will augment all paths and choose the best for me .
To my gal: I love you much more than you love me , I knew , saying i love you forever is unrealistic, childish and foolish. To count the days we had , the laughter you bring into my life during this period, the happiness that you inject into this period is wonderful . I sincerely hope there will no end to your sunlight which will clear the cloudy skys , paving a clear blue sky . I love you . -
the guy posted what he feels.the gal saw the posts and should have the answer on what to do next.Guy gets his answer and its the end of story?
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yeah I agree...
FaithGuy's Gal, since you have read you bf's concerns...you know what he's worried about.
and since this issue is now out in the open... it's up to you (both) to solve it.
FaithGuy's gal: From your Bf's post, he feel that you are insecure... because you have suggested breakups a few times... are you insecure? is there something about the relationship that is bothering you?
FaithGuy : To me you sound pretty insecure yourself... is there anything other than your gf's insecurity that is bothering you?
Both : since the cards are all out in the open, you two should have a long talk.... FaithGuy's Gal, talk to FaithGuy, let him know why you are insercure and what he can do to help you feel more secure... and vis versa...
Good luck to you two... to me things looks promising... just do not be afraid to share with each other on your inner most fears!!Originally posted by Xcert:the guy posted what he feels.the gal saw the posts and should have the answer on what to do next.Guy gets his answer and its the end of story? -
Hahahahaha... that's an assumption.Originally posted by Faithguy's gal:hello mr alfred thanx for giving him advice
but please please please please get ur facts right before u comment,
Since when there's any mention about me plotting a break up???
and any mention of I pulling in a fren becos i want a break up
excuse me i ain't a kid/teenager anymore i am not that childish or bo liao to do this kind thing.
if i want a break i just Spell it out
why bother to waste my time and energy to break off
this is call immaturity if i did that.
This post is also for those who thought the same of me PLOTTING a breakup haha what a joke. .....
When you wanna figure things out, you have to swarm in from as many corners as possible.
So, what's your side of story? All ears. -
pls save ur faithfulness for someone else who noes how to appreciate u better n will salvage tat last bit of pride left in u...
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This is getting interesting.. i find it hard to advise..considering the fact tht Faithguys' Gal is in here too.. feels like those marriege counselling sessions
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hey, don't say until i so mean lehOriginally posted by knnb:pls save ur faithfulness for someone else who noes how to appreciate u better n will salvage tat last bit of pride left in u...
i know how to respect him and know his pride.
i never take his pride away from him and neither do he feel like that too ( i strongly believe that :p)
maybe u are right maybe u are wrong
it's up to him whether he want to save it for someone else or for someone that he love :p
ask him :p -
Jerry Springer show!!
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To Faithguy's gal: how do you really feel about your bf?
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bo liao.Originally posted by Faithguy's gal:HELLO !!!
it's not totally ****ed up
i post that comment with my boy sitting beside me typing those comments and HIS permission to post it!!!!
I DON'T GAIN ANYTHING!!!
I am just BEING FRIENDLY by saying hi to you guys that's all !!!
As simple as that. y would you want to think till so complicated?
sometimes the world is really simple. it's only get complicated when u think it is.
And there's nth wrong for you guys to continue to help ?
THere's nth wrong for him to ask help..
i think it's his freedom and his choice to ask for help and it's good that he can have someone to talk to and ask for help instead of over-stressing by himself alone .
-period-
and stop ASKING MY INTENTIONS because i have NONE!!!
how come i get the feeling that someone is making all this up
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huh what u meant?
feel by hand? heart? fingers? legs?
hahaha :pOriginally posted by drx:To Faithguy's gal: how do you really feel about your bf? -
sorry i not that eat too full kind of person one
anyway
i decided to leave this forum , so that you guys won't think so 'haywire'
ciaoz thanx peeps
*GONE FOREVER*
byebyeOriginally posted by Kenashi:bo liao.
how come i get the feeling that someone is making all this up