You think too much...?Originally posted by Big Bot:If you ask a guy/girl out for the first time and you 2 never really been out together alone, let's say IF he/she is really busy and can't come out.
And the both of you "kinda" have crushes on each other, just not VERY strong and both are "kinda" shy too.
To the sender: What would you expect her/him to reply if he/she is REALLY busy?
To the receiver: What would you reply or not reply and leave him/her wondering?
Because, Busy is one of the top rejection lines and you don't want him/her to get the idea you dunwan him/her but not replying is a double edged sword.
So in actual fact, all replies give negative ideas....
Originally posted by Big Bot:If you ask a guy/girl out for the first time and you 2 never really been out together alone, let's say IF he/she is really busy and can't come out.
And the both of you "kinda" have crushes on each other, just not VERY strong and both are "kinda" shy too.
To the sender: What would you expect her/him to reply if he/she is REALLY busy?
To the receiver: What would you reply or not reply and leave him/her wondering?
Because, Busy is one of the top rejection lines and you don't want him/her to get the idea you dunwan him/her but not replying is a double edged sword.
So in actual fact, all replies give negative ideas....
Not replying may be he/she forgotten...Originally posted by Big Bot:If you ask a guy/girl out for the first time and you 2 never really been out together alone, let's say IF he/she is really busy and can't come out.
And the both of you "kinda" have crushes on each other, just not VERY strong and both are "kinda" shy too.
To the sender: What would you expect her/him to reply if he/she is REALLY busy?
To the receiver: What would you reply or not reply and leave him/her wondering?
Because, Busy is one of the top rejection lines and you don't want him/her to get the idea you dunwan him/her but not replying is a double edged sword.
So in actual fact, all replies give negative ideas....
For the receiver, expect the other party not to say no if you allow him or her to choose an alternative date.Originally posted by Big Bot:If you ask a guy/girl out for the first time and you 2 never really been out together alone, let's say IF he/she is really busy and can't come out.
And the both of you "kinda" have crushes on each other, just not VERY strong and both are "kinda" shy too.
To the sender: What would you expect her/him to reply if he/she is REALLY busy?
To the receiver: What would you reply or not reply and leave him/her wondering?
Because, Busy is one of the top rejection lines and you don't want him/her to get the idea you dunwan him/her but not replying is a double edged sword.
So in actual fact, all replies give negative ideas....
precisely what i want to say also.. so simple.. gosh... some people got no brains leh...Originally posted by golani_bde:For the receiver, expect the other party not to say no if you allow him or her to choose an alternative date.
For the receiver, Easy lah, just apologise and explain why you are truly busy and propose another day/date and even the venue. That already shows that you are keen to meet.
Originally posted by Big Bot:If you ask a guy/girl out for the first time and you 2 never really been out together alone, let's say IF he/she is really busy and can't come out.
And the both of you "kinda" have crushes on each other, just not VERY strong and both are "kinda" shy too.
To the sender: What would you expect her/him to reply if he/she is REALLY busy?
To the receiver: What would you reply or not reply and leave him/her wondering?
Because, Busy is one of the top rejection lines and you don't want him/her to get the idea you dunwan him/her but not replying is a double edged sword.
So in actual fact, all replies give negative ideas....
Originally posted by Big Bot:If you ask a guy/girl out for the first time and you 2 never really been out together alone, let's say IF he/she is really busy and can't come out.
And the both of you "kinda" have crushes on each other, just not VERY strong and both are "kinda" shy too.
To the sender: What would you expect her/him to reply if he/she is REALLY busy?
To the receiver: What would you reply or not reply and leave him/her wondering?
Because, Busy is one of the top rejection lines and you don't want him/her to get the idea you dunwan him/her but not replying is a double edged sword.
So in actual fact, all replies give negative ideas....