Originally posted by bigdeal:hi bird, i got quite the same thing u going tru... although my case is being rejected... not break up.. but hey y dun we go "tiao lao" together? u want raffles hotel? or red hill roll down?
plz dun tell me u gonna be a pastor and preach him...Originally posted by Devil1976:E-mail me at [email protected] if you think that everything's still that all important to you... Whatever you do, don't stray your thoughts 1st before you give anyone a CHANCE to straighten it for you...? It WON'T be FAIR to yourself...?
Sorry, my MISTAKE! Can you please DELETED away this message of yours also? :pOriginally posted by bigdeal:plz dun tell me u gonna be a pastor and preach him...

Originally posted by Malbordus:well since you've asked... *kick*
there was one point in time when i thought relationships aren't worth it too. you put in so much, and the girl doesn't appreciate or some bastard without balls snatch her away. your happiness and sadness is all pegged to her actions. her every move either makes you scream to the heavens for joy, or sit in a dark corner and cry. no doubt it is exhausting, physically and mentally. i used to think why must love be this way. i would gladly sacrifice all this happiness if it means i won't get pricked by the thorns of love again.
and i succeeded.
only to find that life without happiness and the resulting sadness isn't a life worth living. it's just a void, where living has lost its meaning. if this is what you want, you might as well go be a monk - yu3 shi4 wu2 zheng1 (no interest in mortal affairs)
well your friend might be right. everybody goes into adulthood with dreams of romance and true love. unfortunately real life isn't played out in this way. the key here is to take things slowly, and don't put too much hope, bcos you nvr noe wat the other side is thinking. if she enjoys being with you then good. if she wants a breakup after then too bad. it's nobody's fault. things just happen to be this way. it is something you can't change, like physics. nobody feels overtly sad bcos there is gravity right?Originally posted by birdbird:Thanks for the kick.I never expect love would be so painful for me.My fren say i'm simply naive and stupid.
