Regrets of the past
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2 years ago, I broke off with my girlfriend over a third party who was such a bitch. In the end, I was with no one. I know I made a mistake. When i look back now, my ex was the only one I would want to live with forever. She's the kind of girl who will take bus with me(unlike those $$ girls who only take cars). Because of what happened, I lost myself, became depressed, and until now I still have regrets. 2 years of pain and loneliness and god knows how long more before I can love someone again. Now she is attached, happily or not I dunno cos right now I dare not step into her private zone. how I wish i was wiser in the past and never left her. pls dun flame me as I have already realised my mistake. i just hope she knows that if got chance again, i wanna be with her and i will never break her heart again.
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Good to have realised your folly. But what's done cannot be undone. Let go of it and move on.
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how wonderful if I can go back and undo it. sigh should i tell her what i am feeling or just let it go and find someone else to love again. I dunno. afterall i once broke her heart and dunno how she will react if i told her this. or maybe just remain as friends? to those who thinking of dumping yr gf for someone better. I hope u think many times unless yr present gf is such a bitch. cos to find someone who loves u for who u r is very rare. treasure what u have or when it is gone, u may not get a second chance.
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I think that it works both ways.
She might have gotten over you and is seeking the one for her. In this case it would be better to back off, afterall you've hurt her before.
Otherwise, she might still love you. Her other half is only there so that she can try to forget about you. Maybe she still pines for you.
It's up to you to perceive it. But whatever you do, don't leave things halfway done. If you wanna pursue her, go all the way. Otherwise just be disappear from her life. -
since u lost her, wish her a happy life... dun lose heart, u might find the 1 for u some day... n dun make the mistake again...Originally posted by What if:2 years ago, I broke off with my girlfriend over a third party who was such a bitch. In the end, I was with no one. I know I made a mistake. When i look back now, my ex was the only one I would want to live with forever. She's the kind of girl who will take bus with me(unlike those $$ girls who only take cars). Because of what happened, I lost myself, became depressed, and until now I still have regrets. 2 years of pain and loneliness and god knows how long more before I can love someone again. Now she is attached, happily or not I dunno cos right now I dare not step into her private zone. how I wish i was wiser in the past and never left her. pls dun flame me as I have already realised my mistake. i just hope she knows that if got chance again, i wanna be with her and i will never break her heart again. -
but she love/loved me. is it possible she really gave up on me? is love that easily forgotten? not possible to be together again?
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Don't ask us.
Ask her. -
through it all... I wish you well .... Good luck and may you find a good partner
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Originally posted by What if:but she love/loved me. is it possible she really gave up on me? is love that easily forgotten? not possible to be together again?
love is not easily forgotten if she love u so deeply before... but not to get back together doesn't means love is easily forgotten.
She has to carry on her life even u dumped her for someone
....she might be loving u that she wants u to be happy with the one u choose. See, is 2 years and than u realise she is much better... did she know it? did u let her know? If u never do and find out, how would u know???
Treasure every relationship...if relationship fail, take it as a lesson and learn not to let it happen in the next relationship. Everybody makes mistake and is from the mistake that we learn to be better.
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Not that i wanna pour cold water but i have seen too many friends of mine who do the same things as you have done to your ex. The broke off and then regret and promise all sort of thing to their ex,
then same thing will happen over again.
But i have my reservation about you..... i think it best to leave thing as it is, dun try to worsen her impression of you....
Let her and yourself go and find a new gal and start afresh and just bear in mind this lesson and never commit the same error again. -
i regretted not taking actions to jio some1 dear to me ... some1 so close to me ... until she was finally taken ... she told me she liked me b4 ... i was so sian half ... this happened like 2 times ... 2 diff gals ... 2 platonic frenship tat could hav blossomed
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2 yrs...say long, not long
say short, oso not short...
2 yrs can really do alot of things...somemore u break her heart b4...so wat do u tink?
get over her dude...even if u tel her tt u still love her n stuff, do u tink she will leave her current for u?
even if she really does, do u mind all the things she had done with her current (hugging, kissing, having sex??)?
even if u dun mind, tink abt how u hurt her...it will always leave a scar behind her n the trust level btw u n her is hardly fixable.. -
The past is an experience. Let it not be a burden but a good reminder not to commit the same mistakes again.Originally posted by What if:2 years ago, I broke off with my girlfriend over a third party who was such a bitch. In the end, I was with no one. I know I made a mistake. When i look back now, my ex was the only one I would want to live with forever. She's the kind of girl who will take bus with me(unlike those $$ girls who only take cars). Because of what happened, I lost myself, became depressed, and until now I still have regrets. 2 years of pain and loneliness and god knows how long more before I can love someone again. Now she is attached, happily or not I dunno cos right now I dare not step into her private zone. how I wish i was wiser in the past and never left her. pls dun flame me as I have already realised my mistake. i just hope she knows that if got chance again, i wanna be with her and i will never break her heart again.
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*sigh*
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WHat has happen, is in the past now... you can't turn back time to change history... so stop harping on it...
at a point in time you have to decide for yourself. " Yes, I made a mistake. Yes I regret the choice I made. But there is nothing I can do about it now. I have to move on"
This choice is yours to make. the sooner you make it the better. so stop looking behind you and start looking forward! you'll never know what nice surprises you have in front of you, that you'll miss out if you keep looking back!!!
Originally posted by What if:2 years ago, I broke off with my girlfriend over a third party who was such a bitch. In the end, I was with no one. I know I made a mistake. When i look back now, my ex was the only one I would want to live with forever. She's the kind of girl who will take bus with me(unlike those $$ girls who only take cars). Because of what happened, I lost myself, became depressed, and until now I still have regrets. 2 years of pain and loneliness and god knows how long more before I can love someone again. Now she is attached, happily or not I dunno cos right now I dare not step into her private zone. how I wish i was wiser in the past and never left her. pls dun flame me as I have already realised my mistake. i just hope she knows that if got chance again, i wanna be with her and i will never break her heart again. -
What's over is over. No point regreting.
My ex was wonderful someone whom I took 25yrs to find but in the end we didnt last long and I have been single since then and it has been 5 years.
Do I regret? Nope cos I gain precious moments with her. She is happily married now.
Past can only serve as memory... sweet ones or bad ones all are memories. Let go and look forward to a much better love with the experiences you gain on the last. -
Originally posted by What if:2 years ago, I broke off with my girlfriend over a third party who was such a bitch. In the end, I was with no one. I know I made a mistake. When i look back now, my ex was the only one I would want to live with forever. She's the kind of girl who will take bus with me(unlike those $$ girls who only take cars). Because of what happened, I lost myself, became depressed, and until now I still have regrets. 2 years of pain and loneliness and god knows how long more before I can love someone again. Now she is attached, happily or not I dunno cos right now I dare not step into her private zone. how I wish i was wiser in the past and never left her. pls dun flame me as I have already realised my mistake. i just hope she knows that if got chance again, i wanna be with her and i will never break her heart again.
sigh...tot i had gotten over my own experience but i jus realised how much it hurts all over again when i read abt wat u hv written... -
you can do a "What-If" analysis with Microsoft Excel...but not in real life
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haih...sometimes we wish doraemon exists so we can have acces to a time machine
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Originally posted by What if:
Yes, she loved you once and gave you the chance to love her, but you busted it and she woke up. She has moved on since. So should you -- you could wait or try to win her back, but the chances are pretty slim, particularly when she has someone else now. It is probably better not to delude yourself with false hopes.
but she love/loved me. is it possible she really gave up on me? is love that easily forgotten? not possible to be together again?
And please don't ask the question, especially to her, if love could be easily forgotten. She'd probably say that you already know the answer -- when you betrayed her love in the first place. -
Don't carry your regrets to the future....
My ex bf... hmm.. before he met me, he had 2 gfs..
whom he was with for many years
they were both very pretty girls and well,
it is no wonder he could not forget... he often regrets not marrying his
first gf because he chose his job over her
(she gave him an ultimatum) then he regrets
not treasuring the 2nd one enough
Everytime he was with me, he often talks about them
there was even once he introduced me wrongly to a friend
calling his ex's name instead
often he compares me to them and I never seem to be good enough
and I tried to explain things to him
how I can NEVER be good enough when he never gives me a chance
he refuses to forget the past
and I tried to be patient...for a few years
until I gave up finally because I felt well
maybe that's true... maybe I really am not suitable for him cos I tried
and ONLY after we broke up
then he realised he is collecting yet another bucketful of regrets
but its kinda too late... I don't know how many girlfriends he needs to go through
before he understands that regrets isnt good enough.
he got to learn from them and then let them go.
THEN learn to treasure from the present cos if you take care of the present
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Wat is done cannot be undone. WAt is past is past. Oneone lives in the past. Look forward abt ur future. U may hve lost a Gf. Who know u may find a better one in future.
ONCE ACT,DUN REGRET...................
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It's funny how last time I was always going looks. Because of looks, I was mesmerised beyond logic. I was so blinded by looks that I failed to see the beauty of the heart and dumped her. Right now when I look at my ex-gf, although she is just of average looks but somehow something within me which I cannot explain find her the most beautiful person I've ever known. I dunno if I can ever find someone like her. It's not abt finding someone better again but somethings when lost seldom can be found again.
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life is about moving forward and looking ahead! move on...
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Time heals all wounds. Let it rest.
Loving a person does not mean you have do to be wif him/her. Just wish him/her all the best. At least that's wat I did. Be happy for her 'cos she'll always hold a special place in my heart
Just my two cent's worth...