Everyone has emotions. Sometimes we feel very down. There is no one listening @ all. Sometimes jus feel very lousy & feels very frustrated. Anybody here who can control d emotions very well. Any tips?
Sekundes
what do you mean by controlling your emotions well ?
As in when ur angry, u keep urselves calm or u just act happy. ?
augleo
i would like to know too... hw 2control ...not 2throw temper so easily. besides counting to 10 and take deep breathe b4 uttering a words...what else...
Elfred
To outside people, no need to be so emotional in general.
Control is simple. Why bother with a loser who could be out of your life the next min.
Hele1668
I'm refering 2 when u r very angry, do u control it? Vent it out or...? When u feel frustrated wat will u do ?
Diffrent types of situation...u may include in. as long as it has somthing 2 do w ur emotions..... simple
dragg
thats EQ right?
stellazio
Yea,sort of..I don't blow up infront,but i do enough to let people know what i'm feeling..
starblue
i dun control my emotions. i control the way i act despite of them...
like when i feel like crying, i dun tell myself "dun be stupid, feel like crying for wad you idiot, you weakling..." i let myself feel depressed. its bound to go away some time.. but i dun let it show, cos i dun wish my friends to get worried about me.
same with anger. when i am about to erupt, i will tel my friends to leave me alone for a while cos i very angry. dun wan to burst on them now do i?? so they let me simmer down. gulp water to drown the anger. close eyes, concentrate on my breathing. finally i will be back to normal again.
simple.
The Emperor
as for me, i'm a very direct person. still, it depends on situations.
if i'm very sad, i'll sob openly. if i'm angry, i'll make the hint a little known. if i'm happy, well, everybody knows.
any more i can think off?? hmm..........
alexkusu
me keep poker face. Sad, happy, keep it inside. What really strike me is one of my fren knows how I feel....by looking at my eyes....wow.
Hele1668
Okay, when i'm feeling angry better leave me alone !Cos i will scold anyone tat comes near me,Really.
If I'm ver sad, i will not cry infront of anyone, will cry in the toilet.
When i'm happy, I tallks alot.
Manager433
When I'm angry, I used to smoke but since I quit smoking, I just walks away and look for a quiet place to cool down before deciding whats the next step/action to take.
When I'm sad, I'll be quiet for the whole day.
Sekundes
well...
One does control itself through many courses of action. We have, the reasoning method acting method or venting your anger on something.
Sometimes all 3 methods do come in to play.
When i'm damn pissed, like when i lose a game, first thing i tell myself "Wah U dumb ass how come you never do this or tat"
then i just look away take a deep breath.
Its preferance to anyone. Anyway... and situations varies too...
in BGR, one can control mostly thorugh reasoning, and venting ur anger on something.( not ur bf/gf)