In the very 1st place, his excuse is very disrespectful to you. Selfish as much as he can be. And to note, you love him, but he do not love you. He wants companionship (sexual desire included)...So, what do you love him for???Originally posted by xiaoling:What happens when your bf betrayed you? He found another gal, reason being you are overseas and he is lonely. He wanted companion for just that short few months that you are away?
I forgive him as i still love him very much. I came back hoping to start everything afresh with him and we did... But things isn't as wonderful as last time. He tried his best but his feelings for me is no longer there.
An sms to him a day and meeting up with him only for a few hrs a week, seems too much for him to bear. He feels pressurised. He requested for his own personal space.
He says he wants to be fair to me and for him to have his own space. We have been together for close to 6 years. I just can't bear for us to part this way..
How come a person can change so fast without a reason? Is there really eternality love?? Why does one person commit fully whereas another can just let it go just like that??![]()
Sorry to hear such a sad problemOriginally posted by xiaoling:What happens when your bf betrayed you? He found another gal, reason being you are overseas and he is lonely. He wanted companion for just that short few months that you are away?
I forgive him as i still love him very much. I came back hoping to start everything afresh with him and we did... But things isn't as wonderful as last time. He tried his best but his feelings for me is no longer there.
An sms to him a day and meeting up with him only for a few hrs a week, seems too much for him to bear. He feels pressurised. He requested for his own personal space.
He says he wants to be fair to me and for him to have his own space. We have been together for close to 6 years. I just can't bear for us to part this way..
How come a person can change so fast without a reason? Is there really eternality love?? Why does one person commit fully whereas another can just let it go just like that??![]()
from the description here, sounds like its over... if he love u he would stood by u all the while... 6yr is long but how ur relationship is ran in this 6yr nobody noe... can only take it tat he lost the love for u liao.. so let it go gal... u tried but its lost so walk away from this 6yr n rebuild this new life... y he changed so fast? probably things started changing afew yr ago but at a slow rate where u didnt noticed it n it accelerated while u were away... cheersOriginally posted by xiaoling:What happens when your bf betrayed you? He found another gal, reason being you are overseas and he is lonely. He wanted companion for just that short few months that you are away?
I forgive him as i still love him very much. I came back hoping to start everything afresh with him and we did... But things isn't as wonderful as last time. He tried his best but his feelings for me is no longer there.
An sms to him a day and meeting up with him only for a few hrs a week, seems too much for him to bear. He feels pressurised. He requested for his own personal space.
He says he wants to be fair to me and for him to have his own space. We have been together for close to 6 years. I just can't bear for us to part this way..
How come a person can change so fast without a reason? Is there really eternality love?? Why does one person commit fully whereas another can just let it go just like that??![]()
hes my AA idol, cannot arh?Originally posted by alexkusu:hmm..starpuppy copy yuhaier style of posting
may the heavens forgive your soul.. YUNHAIER is a HER.. lolOriginally posted by StarPuppy:hes my AA idol, cannot arh?
hes the first AA person to give me solid advice when i first came in![]()
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and yes, Yunhaier is damn cool. her advice is so good and meaningful, love the stories tooOriginally posted by StarPuppy:hes my AA idol, cannot arh?
hes the first AA person to give me solid advice when i first came in![]()
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oh? let me tryOriginally posted by StarPuppy:hes my AA idol, cannot arh?
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Originally posted by coffeeortea:may the heavens forgive your soul.. YUNHAIER is a HER.. lol
Only he knows the answer.Originally posted by xiaoling:How come a person can change so fast without a reason? Why does one person commit fully whereas another can just let it go just like that??![]()
b'cos from that moment he found a subsituition, Your heart is no longer with him.Originally posted by xiaoling:...Whenever i ask myself, how cum he can take it so lightly and i can't? I feel myself so useless...
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No one knows how long it'll heals...and it's not really a factor that need to be concerned about. Like what you've said above, let go n move on...yea...Move On....Originally posted by xiaoling:Thanks for all your advices. I really don't know how long i will take to heal this broken heart of mine.I know i have to let go and move on. I have been trying very hard to....
My mind will think about him every now and then which is really a torture to me. Whenever i ask myself, how cum he can take it so lightly and i can't? I feel myself so useless...
Sigh....
A person can change his feelings as fast as within a day. A moment could take to change a person's life.Originally posted by xiaoling:What happens when your bf betrayed you? He found another gal, reason being you are overseas and he is lonely. He wanted companion for just that short few months that you are away?
I forgive him as i still love him very much. I came back hoping to start everything afresh with him and we did... But things isn't as wonderful as last time. He tried his best but his feelings for me is no longer there.
An sms to him a day and meeting up with him only for a few hrs a week, seems too much for him to bear. He feels pressurised. He requested for his own personal space.
He says he wants to be fair to me and for him to have his own space. We have been together for close to 6 years. I just can't bear for us to part this way..
How come a person can change so fast without a reason? Is there really eternality love?? Why does one person commit fully whereas another can just let it go just like that??![]()
If i'm her. The guy is not worth it.Originally posted by drx:"My mind will think about him every now and then which is really a torture to me. Whenever i ask myself, how cum he can take it so lightly and i can't? I feel myself so useless..."
He took it so lightly cos he never love you very much at all..
Is it really worth to think so much for a guy who never cares about u?
YOu are not useless in fact you did all the things you can for the one you love.
In fact you should be proud of yourself, as you have done your best and why should you waste your time on someone who does think about u when he is kiss another girl?
Be brave girl, we are here to support you. Breaking up is never easy it takes time to forget the pain. Give yourself more time go and have fun, stop thinking so much.
pats pats