Am i sick/got problem??

• Yan_BMT

  10 Sep 05, 10:53

  I m going 25 soon.But still no career,not married,no bf/childrens....
  Many ppl at my age,mostly earn $2k-3k,become wife and mother...
  
  I think main problem,i m too lazy type.
  Not so speeding up n defintly decide(guo duan) in certain stuffs.
  Not brave enough,always like to stay at hm.
  
  I can be alone,not so keen to had marriage/attached.
  Used to be alone in long long period.
  
  Career...working pt in kfc going to 3yrs.If quit,not sure what can i do.
  Go take some courses to upgrade myself,but nv touch books for
  long period,not so keen in studying.
  
  Want to set up my own biz.If i open a fastfood store/rent a place in
  nightmarket sell foods/open a video shop/set up pets hm biz.
  New n no experience in doing every biz.
  
  Which 1 is best biz??
  
  
• Patrik

  10 Sep 05, 10:57

  Sign on!!!!
  
• Yan_BMT

  10 Sep 05, 11:31

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Sign on!!!!
  

  ???
• Suicine

  10 Sep 05, 11:35

  let a rich guy bao1 yang3 u
• BrUtUs

  10 Sep 05, 11:52

  Originally posted by Yan_BMT:

  I m going 25 soon.But still no career,not married,no bf/childrens....
  Many ppl at my age,mostly earn $2k-3k,become wife and mother...
  
  I think main problem,i m too lazy type.
  Not so speeding up n defintly decide(guo duan) in certain stuffs.
  Not brave enough,always like to stay at hm.
  
  I can be alone,not so keen to had marriage/attached.
  Used to be alone in long long period.
  
  Career...working pt in kfc going to 3yrs.If quit,not sure what can i do.
  Go take some courses to upgrade myself,but nv touch books for
  long period,not so keen in studying.
  
  Want to set up my own biz.If i open a fastfood store/rent a place in
  nightmarket sell foods/open a video shop/set up pets hm biz.
  New n no experience in doing every biz.
  
  Which 1 is best biz??
  
  

  if u want to setup ur own biz, go do research first...
• nightzip

  10 Sep 05, 12:19

  video shop now very hard to earn money, dun set up...waste money onli.
• hisoka

  10 Sep 05, 12:27

  you can try pets seems got a lot of pple are crazy about pets for some unknown reasons to me.........
  
  bwt you nto so bad lah i 24 le haven't even got a job
• drx

  10 Sep 05, 16:36

  yo sis
  everything not keen then why borther to say at all?
  
  If you know u are lazy then try to be a bit more hardworking.. or else just stay in KFC lar.. Once u go out to open shop everthing u must do leh..
  
  Think opening a shop so easy is it ... want to be boss?
  
  If you are really serious about it then get your butt off the bed and learn more about business..
  
  I think you know your own problem liao not need for me to say so much.
• Xiao Jun

  10 Sep 05, 16:50

  Originally posted by drx:

  yo sis
  everything not keen then why borther to say at all?
  
  If you know u are lazy then try to be a bit more hardworking.. or else just stay in KFC lar.. Once u go out to open shop everthing u must do leh..
  
  Think opening a shop so easy is it ... want to be boss?
  
  If you are really serious about it then get your butt off the bed and learn more about business..
  
  I think you know your own problem liao not need for me to say so much.

  Wah...strong words of advice
• Tier

  10 Sep 05, 21:00

  Originally posted by Yan_BMT:

  I m going 25 soon.But still no career,not married,no bf/childrens....
  Many ppl at my age,mostly earn $2k-3k,become wife and mother...
  
  I think main problem,i m too lazy type.
  Not so speeding up n defintly decide(guo duan) in certain stuffs.
  Not brave enough,always like to stay at hm.
  
  I can be alone,not so keen to had marriage/attached.
  Used to be alone in long long period.
  
  Career...working pt in kfc going to 3yrs.If quit,not sure what can i do.
  Go take some courses to upgrade myself,but nv touch books for
  long period,not so keen in studying.
  
  Want to set up my own biz.If i open a fastfood store/rent a place in
  nightmarket sell foods/open a video shop/set up pets hm biz.
  New n no experience in doing every biz.
  
  Which 1 is best biz??
  
  

  25 years old already, its better for you to get a stable full time job first and
  
  experience working full time and the working experience. Rather you start a
  
  business and feels really tired handling a job for such long hours, more
  
  responsibility to be given, more stress and give up halfway.
  
  Work full time and gain more CPF so in future got money to buy flat as well.
  
  haha 25 is not too late for marriage. More women gets married at late 20s,
  
  depends on your priorty on careers or family. dun worry let it be natural and
  
  choose the guy of your life carefully. Make more friends so your life would be
  
  more energentic and livelier. Home may be cozy and comfortable, but when
  
  you are in the comfort zone for too long, theres left no fighting spirit! So come
  
  on and do your best!!
  
  You have to decide what you want for your life because nobody can decide for
  
  you. Work hard towards your decision and all the best!
  
  
• RaTtY81

  10 Sep 05, 21:12

  y not attend sgforums outing for a start?
• sinicker

  10 Sep 05, 23:06

  i wud tell u to enter bubble tea business if it was 2003 today.
• Sekundes

  10 Sep 05, 23:21

  Originally posted by Yan_BMT:

  I m going 25 soon.But still no career,not married,no bf/childrens....
  Many ppl at my age,mostly earn $2k-3k,become wife and mother...
  
  I think main problem,i m too lazy type.
  Not so speeding up n defintly decide(guo duan) in certain stuffs.
  Not brave enough,always like to stay at hm.
  
  I can be alone,not so keen to had marriage/attached.
  Used to be alone in long long period.
  
  Career...working pt in kfc going to 3yrs.If quit,not sure what can i do.
  Go take some courses to upgrade myself,but nv touch books for
  long period,not so keen in studying.
  
  Want to set up my own biz.If i open a fastfood store/rent a place in
  nightmarket sell foods/open a video shop/set up pets hm biz.
  New n no experience in doing every biz.
  
  Which 1 is best biz??
  
  

  Hmm... how about some things in counselling ?
  There's a Diploma clourse I would like to recommand, its Diploma in COuselling.
  U need more info ?
  The Course, is availble at the PArk Mall. The MAll Across Plaza Singapura
  IN the course u will learn more about others an yourself, maybe you will find your aim in life. ^^, Good luck. It located on the 5th floor. Not sure. I had the brochure once. My GOd sis wanted to attend. So need help in guilding i can help u.
  
  Maybe Start Working or you really need someone who cares. Like good friends. ^^, I'm sure ppl can give it to you.
  
  Regards
  
  Sekundes
• caleb_chiang

  10 Sep 05, 23:32

  Like that sick or got problem meh??? You kidding me? Then what makes those people are worse than you???
  
  Indeed, you are sick for having this mentality.
• Yan_BMT

  11 Sep 05, 11:57

  thanks for all the advice....i hope try my best to change the situation now.
  Confirm can't work anymore KFC,hate n boring inside.
  
  I had send some of my resume to some company,hope can get some
  responese.
  
  Some of friends here given me some ideas,new way of my road.
  Tks....i will consider your ideas...
  
• Yan_BMT

  11 Sep 05, 11:59

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  you can try pets seems got a lot of pple are crazy about pets for some unknown reasons to me.........
  
  bwt you nto so bad lah i 24 le haven't even got a job

  oh maybe u still studing,i m not.I left sch n nv touch books abt 5yrs plus.
  
  i had 1 hm biz of pet biz,but not doing v well.Bad.
• silv3rgal

  11 Sep 05, 12:16

  Originally posted by Yan_BMT:

  thanks for all the advice....i hope try my best to change the situation now.
  Confirm can't work anymore KFC,hate n boring inside.
  
  I had send some of my resume to some company,hope can get some
  responese.
  
  Some of friends here given me some ideas,new way of my road.
  Tks....i will consider your ideas...
  

  Get a retail job or something? Retail jobs are more interesting in a way...
• Yan_BMT

  12 Sep 05, 09:54

  Originally posted by silv3rgal:

  Get a retail job or something? Retail jobs are more interesting in a way...

  ya...asking any video shop/ntuc looking for any vancanies alreadly.
  Hope got responese
• coffeeortea

  12 Sep 05, 09:57

  Originally posted by drx:

  yo sis
  everything not keen then why borther to say at all?
  
  If you know u are lazy then try to be a bit more hardworking.. or else just stay in KFC lar.. Once u go out to open shop everthing u must do leh..
  
  Think opening a shop so easy is it ... want to be boss?
  
  If you are really serious about it then get your butt off the bed and learn more about business..
  
  I think you know your own problem liao not need for me to say so much.

  i agree totally, i despise people who keep saying life Sucks, everythings so hard, they ask people for advice just to make themselves feel better, and then complain about everything under the sun, and they refuse to realise that the problem lies with themselves being lazy
• drx

  12 Sep 05, 11:17

  I believe Yan_BMT knows her problem and I can see that she is willing to change and trying her best to correct it.
  
  Lets help her with her problem.
  
  Yan_BMT i need to know what is your education level and working experience in order to help you.
• Tier

  12 Sep 05, 12:25

  Originally posted by Yan_BMT:

  thanks for all the advice....i hope try my best to change the situation now.
  Confirm can't work anymore KFC,hate n boring inside.
  
  I had send some of my resume to some company,hope can get some
  responese.
  
  Some of friends here given me some ideas,new way of my road.
  Tks....i will consider your ideas...
  

  yeah!! JIA YOU JIA YOU! in future I would wanna start own business too but
  
  now I am still working full time to gain experience and become more familar
  
  with the line and understand how the business goes about first. look up
  
  jobdb.com or jobstreet.com. so many jobs around there to take alook on.
  
  everytime I look at it, I feel like trying different kinda jobs there. still young
  
  can try different kinda things to decide what you want in a Long Term job
  
  when you gets older. If its owning a business, needs lots of research and
  
  willing to take risk.
• mistyblue

  12 Sep 05, 12:36

  
  using external judgements/yardstick on one's life is the best and easiest way to get depressed
  
  Are you happy with your lot ..
• hamster_milo

  12 Sep 05, 20:31

  Hi yan
  
  I am glad you realise that there is a problem and your identifying it is the first step to improving the situation now.. Actually there is nothing wrong with not married, or no children as this is not a factor within your control.. What is your highest qualification? Maybe you can use it to aid finding a job that pays better and more prospects..
  
  Don't think doing a biz so easy.. unless you are very rich got family to give you the capital and enough patience to wait for it to rise.. Maybe take some courses in the evening..though you didn't touch books a long time but if you try harder, it shouldn't be a problem..
  
  Try to get a job u like what you are doing as it will give you more motivation in life, rather than to get just simply a job and an income or something to spend your time.
• nightzip

  12 Sep 05, 23:11

  go sell food lor...confirm good business...
  
  but a good place in any new towns, preferably town central, set up either hawker store or coffee stall, sell noodles, or rice etc...good money...
• Devil1976

  13 Sep 05, 12:30

  Originally posted by nightzip:

  go sell food lor...confirm good business...
  
  but a good place in any new towns, preferably town central, set up either hawker store or coffee stall, sell noodles, or rice etc...good money...

  VERY COMPETITIVE business...