Is it possible?
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Is it possible to be someone again whose heart you once broke? It's gonna be 2 years and although she is with someone now, I don't think they are compatible and having small problems.
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compatible anot onli time will tell... forgetaboutit la...Originally posted by What if:Is it possible to be someone again whose heart you once broke? It's gonna be 2 years and although she is with someone now, I don't think they are compatible and having small problems. -
Y break her heart in the first place.. Wats done cannot be undone.. I'm sure she must be really sad when u broke her heart..
Be normal frens with her again and try to help her on her relationship problem.. dont put too much hope thou..
Watever ur decision, good luck. -
Sigh I dunno also. been troubled by it. I mean I know I should just be a friend right now since I broke her heart. Was so blind in the past. There stood someone who loved me yet I broke off with her. Right now I am just not sure about my future anymore. seems like she's the last person I'll ever find. Dun even know if I will get married. dunno if I ever find someone like her again or better...wasted so much time looking for something which i actually have found but threw away. Regrets. Now I have to waste even more time...
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What to do~ since you never treasured her before. Are you sure you will treasure her in future? Temptation all around these days, everything around seems prettier and nicer than what you already had beside you, things are easily taken for granted when they are too good and nice. Difficult to find someone to truely love you for what you are. Since she is attached now you can only be a very normal friend to her now.. All the best~Originally posted by What if:Sigh I dunno also. been troubled by it. I mean I know I should just be a friend right now since I broke her heart. Was so blind in the past. There stood someone who loved me yet I broke off with her. Right now I am just not sure about my future anymore. seems like she's the last person I'll ever find. Dun even know if I will get married. dunno if I ever find someone like her again or better...wasted so much time looking for something which i actually have found but threw away. Regrets. Now I have to waste even more time... -
dun go and disturb her life again, for christ's sake... you've lost what you could have treasured more.. now leave her be. even if her new guy isnt making her happy, thats her choice, something you shouldnt be meddling with...
as for your sorrow, all i can say is, you may or may not have deserved it. but you gotta pull yaself together. a life time is too long to say you cant meet someone else. good luck. -
Don't just talk about it. Learn from your mistake and treat your future gf better if you happens to come across one?Originally posted by What if:Sigh I dunno also. been troubled by it. I mean I know I should just be a friend right now since I broke her heart. Was so blind in the past. There stood someone who loved me yet I broke off with her. Right now I am just not sure about my future anymore. seems like she's the last person I'll ever find. Dun even know if I will get married. dunno if I ever find someone like her again or better...wasted so much time looking for something which i actually have found but threw away. Regrets. Now I have to waste even more time... -
question here. Do u worry more abt getting back together with her or what she's going through rite nw?Originally posted by What if:Is it possible to be someone again whose heart you once broke? It's gonna be 2 years and although she is with someone now, I don't think they are compatible and having small problems. -
What if: do you know how she feels about you now?
Cheers -
U broke her heart once, ow.
I woudln't stand much chance on it.
You knwo once bitten twic shy. -
Originally posted by What if:Sigh I dunno also. been troubled by it. I mean I know I should just be a friend right now since I broke her heart. Was so blind in the past. There stood someone who loved me yet I broke off with her. Right now I am just not sure about my future anymore. seems like she's the last person I'll ever find. Dun even know if I will get married. dunno if I ever find someone like her again or better...wasted so much time looking for something which i actually have found but threw away. Regrets. Now I have to waste even more time...
Seemed like if she could make you have ALL these enlightenments only when she has left you, it's likely that her presence in your life is probably just that - all that wisdom you gain from losing her.
You actually gain alot without you knowing and perhaps grown up a little in areas of Love.
By looking back, you are rejecting former lessons in hoping to repair the irrevocable.
Futile.
Keep what she has taught you and widen your perspective. Only then, you could use this to find your eventual one.
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Dear What If,
Your ex gf & her new bf are Not compatible, but that's only YOUR view. For all you know, they may be very happy! Which couple doesn't have the odd tiff now & then? As wonderful as my own relationship might be, we still have the odd argument. Does that mean that my guy & I are incompatible?
Lastly, even if my guy & I may APPEAR incompatible in others' eyes, the only thing that's important is that we're VERY happy together.
In short: Simply because you wish to have your ex back may have made you biased towards her new relationship with another guy. You may Not have been fair towards them.
Leave them alone. If they're Not meant to be, they'll eventually split up. Don't go trying to get her back, at the moment, she belongs to the other guy.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by What if:Is it possible to be someone again whose heart you once broke? It's gonna be 2 years and although she is with someone now, I don't think they are compatible and having small problems. -
They always say that I will not forget her, I will love her till the end, and I miss her so much all these mushy stuff but in 5 yrs time most of them would be seen hugging a new gf.
Come on time will change a lot of things, people change. She changed so can you. -
My ex lagi best, "I'll love you forever, you'll always be tops in my heart, blah blah blah". 2 months later, he was married to a Vietnamese
He regretted that marriage, & when his elder sister (whom I was close to) asked why, he said, "She (meaning me) forced me into it by breaking up with me". Jialat, right?! 
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:They always say that I will not forget her, I will love her till the end, and I miss her so much all these mushy stuff but in 5 yrs time most of them would be seen hugging a new gf.
Come on time will change a lot of things, people change. She changed so can you. -
very Jialat
as you can see Feow shows that is possible for people to change. -
Yah, change until worse & worse
FeowFeowOriginally posted by drx:very Jialat
as you can see Feow shows that is possible for people to change. -
I agree with drx and feow!!!
the only reason why you want her back is because you are single, and lonely.
when you have her back... who knows you may start picking on her flaws and break her heart again.
you had your chance, you messed up. If I knew your ex I'll tell her hao ma bu chi hui tou chao!!!!