Gals, would u?
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we met less than 10 times (since feb till now), but all the while, even in phone calls, he was very nice and polite to me loh.... But his sms r getting more n more unreadableOriginally posted by browniebaobao:My feeling tells me not to trust him. :X
He ask u to kiss him and whether u love him. Then what about him? Do u think he treat u more than a fren? Can u feel his love?
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mi oso confused about how serious he is.
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Originally posted by missingJ:we met less than 10 times (since feb till now), but all the while, even in phone calls, he was very nice and polite to me loh.... But his sms r getting more n more unreadable ???????
mi oso confused about how serious he is.
Then perhaps u will want to confront him lor.
When things get confusing, I will ask.
But then be careful lor. Always know how to protect yourself.
I ever received smses from male frens with 'dear', 'muackz' etc but still like that. Perhaps he's testing whether u are an easy prey leh? -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
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you know I know can already ....Originally posted by alexkusu:no worries, u have left n right hand -
Originally posted by missingJ:
then don't read ... reply without reading.
we met less than 10 times (since feb till now), but all the while, even in phone calls, he was very nice and polite to me loh.... But his sms r getting more n more unreadable ???????
mi oso confused about how serious he is.
love's blind. -
i find it hard to have muackz out of my SMS ... yikes.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Then perhaps u will want to confront him lor.
When things get confusing, I will ask.
But then be careful lor. Always know how to protect yourself.
I ever received smses from male frens with 'dear', 'muackz' etc but still like that. Perhaps he's testing whether u are an easy prey leh? -
Making the first kiss gives him opportunity. This also shows that you have feelings for him. haha.
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Why are you confused?Originally posted by missingJ:we met less than 10 times (since feb till now), but all the while, even in phone calls, he was very nice and polite to me loh.... But his sms r getting more n more unreadable ???????
mi oso confused about how serious he is. -
sometimes i can feel that he is very sincer, sometimes i feel like i am a toy to him... communicate thru sms is hard to know how tat person feel loh......Originally posted by M©+square:Why are you confused? -
make a call then.
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what would u do if i say he is a wolf and u r his prey?
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Originally posted by missingJ:sometimes i can feel that he is very sincer, sometimes i feel like i am a toy to him... communicate thru sms is hard to know how tat person feel loh......
He's either quite good or you're too weak.
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guys are always nice at first until they con girls into bed. don't be easy. establish within him that you will never get physical until he marries you. if he's really a con-guy, he'd lose patience and back off instead of wasting time and resources, which he'd rather spend on his next targetOriginally posted by missingJ:sometimes i can feel that he is very sincer, sometimes i feel like i am a toy to him... communicate thru sms is hard to know how tat person feel loh...... -
Define 'unreadable'?Originally posted by missingJ:we met less than 10 times (since feb till now), but all the while, even in phone calls, he was very nice and polite to me loh.... But his sms r getting more n more unreadable ???????
mi oso confused about how serious he is. -
Originally posted by Missing:
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Then have some simple phone chats and meet ups as well..?Originally posted by missingJ:sometimes i can feel that he is very sincer, sometimes i feel like i am a toy to him... communicate thru sms is hard to know how tat person feel loh...... -
personally i feel tat u dun trust him so much first, have a more understandings of him and knowing him well like his friends and family background b4 u proceed on to further stages bah..........u muz learn to protect urself first if nt he will think u are an easy prey to him then after tat making use of u liao then dump u will b even worse for u loh..............take 1 step at a time dun rush and dun give in to his requests first in order to protect urself..............
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wats "good"?Originally posted by M©+square: He's either quite good or you're too weak.
I think you're quite weak.
wats "weak"?
i kno tat i m lack of confidence, and i did tell him, but instead of building up my confidence, he is like giving mi more stress.... -
This area, i'll let yunnie or Feow to eleborate.Originally posted by missingJ:wats "good"?
wats "weak"?
i kno tat i m lack of confidence, and i did tell him, but instead of building up my confidence, he is like giving mi more stress....
I'm not good it puting it across.
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cannot copy n paste his sms here lah, juz in case he "pass by" here how?Originally posted by Devil1976:Define 'unreadable'?
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Let him read lor. So next time round he'll remember to send 'readable' sms le.Originally posted by missingJ:cannot copy n paste his sms here lah, juz in case he "pass by" here how?
Kiddin.
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Hmm.. Okie..Originally posted by missingJ:cannot copy n paste his sms here lah, juz in case he "pass by" here how? -
Originally posted by missingJ:bcoz of work, we met in feb tis year, we din communicate much.... till late july he started sms mi... (juz chit chat) after first few sms, he msg mi " I Like U" , then my reply is " i have feelings for u too, but i wan to kno more abt u 1st"
august, after e 1st date, his sms bcum "can u kiss me?", "do u love me?"
is he too fast or am i too slow?
actually, really wanted to build up nice friendship wif him 1st, sigh,
mi now scared by him leh...
talking to him, face to face n thru sms, r like communicating wif 2 different person...
Seriously, that's so anti-seductive; if I was you, I will definitely get turn off man. On a full hundred scale, that would probably cost him about 15-20 points.
*** When you have feelings for someone, usually this feeling is innate, breed and grown out of proportion until you cannot control your emotions. Because it is innate, how it grow, depends on what is 'fed' to it. Most of the time, it is our imagination and fantasy (or AOS technical term: 'Insinuation'), which fuel this little infatuation.
You probably want a friendship (at least initially), while he probably see you as a girlfriend material and looking at you in view of a potential.
Your natural womanly instincts trigger off and signal a warning. This clashes with your little liking, which is far too green to stand firm. It activated your security alarm and you subconsciously see yourself retrograding.
This is natural.
P.S: Take one step at a time. You got all the time to check him out. If he cannot prove himself to make you feel comfortable and at ease with, he only have himself to blame for hastening the chase and spoilt the banquet.
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last friday(9th) i ask him to go for a movie n his reply was " unless u agree to kiss"
i disagree and he din sms mi nor reply my sms till now...
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Hmmmm well this really sounds like a guy who is only after one thing. First a kiss, than some touching and next finally want some action.
I think you better be careful la. You sound like a nice and innocent girl. Watch out for these wolves. Alot of them around nowadays. Use women than discard them like garbage. Knn. Someone should whoop those buggers arses.
P.S Oh please be careful with kissing. Possible to get herpes from it. Herpes very prevalen. not alot of people aware.
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