What is love?

• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 05, 17:46

  What is your definition of love?
  
  Do you think there is such thing as eternal love?
  
  What do you look out for when looking in a partner?
  
  I just want to see how people's view of love,please reply..thanks
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~
• stellazio

  11 Sep 05, 17:48

  A 4 letter word that can't be express in words but rather its felt..
• Sekundes

  11 Sep 05, 18:23

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  What is your definition of love?
  
  Do you think there is such thing as eternal love?
  
  What do you look out for when looking in a partner?
  
  I just want to see how people's view of love,please reply..thanks
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~

  Defination of love :
  Liking her no matter,
  who she is,
  Where she is,
  What she's done,
  
  The feelings That I have with her.
  Not just able to love but to help and care.
  Like my siggy. Putting More then 100% into the love.
  
  (p.s. I sound like looking for a Date)
  
  Eternal Love
  
  I do believe, this. Yet some say its a stupid thing.
  But still i stick to it.
  Eternal Love is liek something Which makes every other girl ugly
  (no offense to the ladies, LOL)
  
  Qaulitites in a PArtner
  
  Found mine at least
  
  What I look out for is :
  She must enjoy being with me.
  She has got to beFun.
  A good smile
  She looks beautiful to me.
  
  

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  A 4 letter word that can't be express in words but rather its felt..

  stellazio is right. Its hard to define. haha...
• M©+square

  11 Sep 05, 18:26

  Do you know your definition of Love will change as you age?
  
• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 05, 18:28

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Do you know your definition of Love will change as you age?
  

  intresting...explain a little more
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~
• M©+square

  11 Sep 05, 18:30

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  intresting...explain a little more
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~

  SP, i know you like Ah yun la.
  But hor, try search thru my archives.
  
  Cheers
• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 05, 18:32

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  SP, i know you like Ah yun la.
  But hor, try search thru my archives.
  
  Cheers

  eh eh...what has it got to do with ArchAngel Yun?
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~
• M©+square

  11 Sep 05, 18:33

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  eh eh...what has it got to do with ArchAngel Yun?
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~

  nothing lo.
  
  But why the interest in knowing other people's view?
• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 05, 18:35

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  nothing lo.
  
  But why the interest in knowing other people's view?

  just that i see some people hor...like my friends..everyday argue and den break and patch and break until milk turn sour
  and few days ago say both want to marry and both love each other
  and i heard they arging yesterday
  
  geez
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~
• M©+square

  11 Sep 05, 18:39

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  just that i see some people hor...like my friends..everyday argue and den break and patch and break until milk turn sour
  and few days ago say both want to marry and both love each other
  and i heard they arging yesterday
  
  geez
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~

  So do you see those kind of vicious cycle as a type of love people handles?
  
  Cheers
• luvjasmine

  11 Sep 05, 20:29

  Love is the feeling of wanting to protect her from any harm, etc. wahaha! this is what i think.
• alexkusu

  11 Sep 05, 20:32

  something smappy dun have
• Pitot

  11 Sep 05, 20:43

  LOVE
  
  1st yr Dating: This is my girl, I love her so much.. She is like heaven to me..My angel..
  
  6 yrs and Married: This is my wife. We love each other.
  
  15 yrs and Married with children: Ah Boy arh.. u see.. this wan your MOTHER, can you believe it?
  
  
• StarPuppy

  11 Sep 05, 20:46

  Originally posted by Pitot:
  [b]LOVE
  
  1st yr Dating: This is my girl, I love her so much.. She is like heaven to me..My angel..
  
  6 yrs and Married: This is my wife. We love each other.
  
  15 yrs and Married with children: Ah Boy arh.. u see.. this wan your MOTHER, can you believe it?
  
  [/b]

  haha...so cute
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~
• Pitot

  11 Sep 05, 20:56

  LoL.. I came up with this after seeing the various age group of couples.. I think its quite true oso..
• maggiemee

  11 Sep 05, 21:47

  i feel tat love is juz the feelings tat we have for both parties.....need 2 hands to clap and to give and take aso loh nt juz 1 party giving alone will do.......
  and do not mind abt the other party past and accept his or her weak points..........juz accept everything of wat he or she is loh..........think "love" quite difficult to explain aso cos different ppl might have different thinking bt for me i think in this way loh.........no matter wat he or she becomes will stay beside throughout the life bah..........
• Devil1976

  12 Sep 05, 12:47

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Do you know your definition of Love will change as you age?
  

  Yeah... And it'll probably becomes a fading and almost regularly non-existence state as you keep forgetting about it when you're really OLD..?? <>
• Yunhaier

  12 Sep 05, 18:54

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  SP, i know you like Ah yun la.
  But hor, try search thru my archives.
  
  Cheers

  And you know I only have eyes for you...
  
  Cheers
• StarPuppy

  12 Sep 05, 18:56

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  And you know I only have eyes for you...
  
  Cheers

  And we have a confession
  
  Cheers
  ~+StarPuppy+~
• alexkusu

  12 Sep 05, 21:14

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  And you know I only have eyes for you...
  
  Cheers
  
  

  hmm... change ur style of postin huh?
  
  i knw why.....
  
  *looks at puppy *
• Zimmerman

  14 Sep 05, 10:24

  I do agree that definition of love can change as one ages. Perhaps it's has not really being change, but better define and in finer details
  
  What is your definition of love?
  
  In my 10-20's -
  
  Love is a feeling.
  
  Love is eternal, it's pure. Looking at a girls, doing silly things for her without her knowing. Like taking the same bus home with her even if it mean walking 15-30 mins more everyday, just to feel close to her and be with her just every minute you can.
  
  Does not matter whether she knows or not.
  
  Love should be eternal, and should last forever. Even if the person does not love you, you should still always be there for her.
  
  In my 20-30's
  
  Love is a feeling.
  
  Still doing silly things for her, and making her happy. Giving her surprises and let her know that you care about how she feels. Caring for her and always be there for her especially when she feels down.
  
  Does not matter if she does the same thing for me, as long as she is happy.
  
  Love should still be eternal, and people in love should get married and stay together forever. It will be great if they could still be holding hands when they get old and talking a stroll in the park never mind that they might not be able to hear each other very well.
  
  Now in my 30's
  
  Love is a feeling.
  
  Doing silly things that could surprise her and make her day, bring that little smile on her face, and brightens up her day. At times, even if could not cheer her up, always be there for her when she feels down, even if not physically, thru' voice, sms or whatever method, let her know that she is and will never be along.
  
  It does matter if she appreciates what I do for her, and would be happy if she can do certain things to show that she loves me. Not the same amount, at least she should understand how I feel and shows me the concern. Appreciate the synergy of a Love Bank. Each of us have one, and few can just carry on giving and giving without expectation of being appreciated and love. By just giving and giving, you will find yourself drain out and empty. There's a limit to every in the extend they can give, but to give forever without anything in return on a long run is not feasible. When one party in a marriage becomes too complacent or take things for granted, that's when the other will feel very drained out.
  
  Love should be eternal, but both should always be in constant communication with each other feelings and grow together. It's an effort that is required from both party to have both to grow as one, at least in certain area, and not just kids and house. If not it feelings will soon be degraded to responsibility rather then feelings. It takes a lot of communication, and at the same time, the frequency of the two person will have to be quite the same or at least open to views, as when both grow, there will be bound to be areas that they will view differently due to the different things they went thru'. The emotional and spiritual connection is very important for keeping the feeling and let it goes on.
  
  What do you look out for when looking in a partner?
  
  Openness to views and ways of looking at things.
  Think and talk in similiar frequencies.
  Have certain common areas of interest.
• FeowFeow

  14 Sep 05, 14:18

  Yes : )
  
  And sometimes, it can change to something more wonderful.
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Do you know your definition of Love will change as you age?
  

• leon_lai89

  14 Sep 05, 14:23

  fuck is also a four letter word that cannot be describe but can only felt..
• Kermadec

  14 Sep 05, 14:25

  Love is for my ah meltz gu gu and ah LinYu larling