should i go after her?
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hmm, i know this girl for around 9months. feel quite comfortable with her, and she fits in my 'criteria' as well, so called.
been msging her for some time, and i guess my feelings for her have developed. problem is, im not sure whether to go after her, or whether i really love her. advice, anyone? -
yeah.. why not? theres only experience to gain, and nothing to lose.
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She got BF?? If no,what r u waiting for???
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go go go.
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forgot to add something.
she has no bf, btw
but her parents are very strict with her over relationships, and if she's in a relationship and her parents find out, her life is gonna be controlled strictly.
furthermore, she has sorta been hurt alot by her previous experience..
thats why im hesitating. im afraid of hurting her even more.. -
Strike while the iron is hot!!
You want to wait till it rusts?
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Hey dude how old are u? I think we are in sort of a similar situation..
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"she has sorta been hurt alot by her previous experience.. "
What happen? -
You know it's not gonna be easy... With your own hesitations coming in...? GOOD LUCK to whatever you've got on mind...Originally posted by mystiv:forgot to add something.
she has no bf, btw
but her parents are very strict with her over relationships, and if she's in a relationship and her parents find out, her life is gonna be controlled strictly.
furthermore, she has sorta been hurt alot by her previous experience..
thats why im hesitating. im afraid of hurting her even more..
Should never really try unless you're certain that you TRULY LOVE someone... You're afraid to hurt her now.. Ain't you? And MOSTLY IMPORTANTLY RATHER... Do you know of how she might be feeling towards you? -
u no go, others will make a go at her...so why wait
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friend.. thinking wun make things happen... go n try...Originally posted by mystiv:hmm, i know this girl for around 9months. feel quite comfortable with her, and she fits in my 'criteria' as well, so called.
been msging her for some time, and i guess my feelings for her have developed. problem is, im not sure whether to go after her, or whether i really love her. advice, anyone?
is only thru trying then we know hw 1 another feel.. maybe nw u think u like her.. but after u treid.. feeling might change.. n also to noe hw the other party feels...
nothing to scared 1.. can.. can loh.. cannot give up loh...
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Well.... nothing ventured, nothing gained, that's what I say.
If you truly feel that this girl really is 'the one', then I suggest going for her. She may say yes, she may say no, but you'll never know until you try.
Even if she says no, then at least that's still an answer. It's a whole lot better than carrying the secret of your love for her around for years until it weighs you down and becomes a burden. I've been there, pal. If you don't know what the burden feels like.... you really don't want to know.
I guess it is a cause for concern that she has been hurt by other guys in the past... but I'm sure if you can convince her that you won't hurt her and cherish her instead, then I'ld say you have a chance.
Good luck.
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Well...frankly speaking, i think you should NOT go after her.....becoz you dun even have your own stand n you're so indecisive...such things you can't even decide for yourself and you need ppl to advise you on this???Originally posted by mystiv:hmm, i know this girl for around 9months. feel quite comfortable with her, and she fits in my 'criteria' as well, so called.
been msging her for some time, and i guess my feelings for her have developed. problem is, im not sure whether to go after her, or whether i really love her. advice, anyone?
Only you know yourself well enough whether you shld go after her or not.....Dun expect ppl here to give you the answers which you're hoping to hear or nice to be heard of...
So, are you going to ask ppl whether you shld fcuk her if the two of you will to develop a relationship??? Need ppl to advise on that or not??? -
life is a gamble ..
u nv koe when u will win ..
but u wont win if u did not even try
thus
dump all ur stakes ...
jio her with sincerity ...
may u be rewarded with the gal's heart