Poping the question

• love_noob

  11 Sep 05, 21:24

  I known this special lady for a couple of weeks now. So far, we have gone for two dates over two weekends.
  
  I suppose she likes me because she asked me out first and also do things like getting me cough drops when I casually mention to her that the room is cold and throat gets dry easily, which lead to coughing.
  
  I have also developed feelings for her.
  
  My only concern is whether it is too early to ask her to give each other a chance and to go steady. Also, I am not very good with expressing myself.
  
  What I would like to know, from both the ladies and the guys here, how did you got together?
• maggiemee

  11 Sep 05, 21:41

  For me, i rem when i first started my first job in the company my ex bf gt hold of my hp num which i do not realize it loh then after tat frm there he sms me ask me can b friends ant so i thinking since we are already colleagues so dun make both of us embrassed so agreed and after tat we juz chat every nite some more i work first shift and he work 3rd shift..........
  
  then after tat he juz tell my colleague abt his feelings towards me bt he treat me very gd like often buy takeaways food for me whenever i am busy with work or he will often cum to my dept to chat with me..........hmm juz like tat he ask me over the phone loh and it happens naturally le..........
  
  bt nw all these are in the past liao and i have let it go le.........i am moving on..........
• drx

  12 Sep 05, 01:37

  friends first
  never ever go steady asap.
  She may treat u well but you will never know how people think.
  
  Go slow
• Camellias4me

  12 Sep 05, 02:04

  R u in a hurry to get hitched?
  Y not take more time to understand each other better? But if the moment is right.. everything will progress naturally.
• stellazio

  12 Sep 05, 02:07

  She is treating you as a brother..So you can ask her "siao eh ai zho wa eh tua ji mai?"..
• Camellias4me

  12 Sep 05, 02:13

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  She is treating you as a brother..So you can ask her "siao eh ai zho wa eh tua ji mai?"..

  Piangz.. u don't anyhow lah.
• stellazio

  12 Sep 05, 02:15

  Originally posted by Camellias4me:

  Piangz.. u don't anyhow lah.

  Cammy ai zho wa eh tua ji mai??
• Camellias4me

  12 Sep 05, 02:18

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  Cammy ai zho wa eh tua ji mai??

  Mai. wa ai zho li eh sio ber..
  
  Ooi.. go back to owls.. don't hijack the thread!
• stellazio

  12 Sep 05, 02:22

  Originally posted by Camellias4me:

  Mai. wa ai zho li eh sio ber..
  
  Ooi.. go back to owls.. don't hijack the thread!

  Kiam ki lai..Ah ni buay paiseh zho wa eh sio ber..Zho wa eh ah ma ai mai??
• Delta 5

  12 Sep 05, 02:23

  Ni3 lai2 dan1 wo3 de4 ma3 zi3 hao3 ma1
• Delta 5

  12 Sep 05, 02:27

  Ok la jus kidding...
  
  Only you urself will noe whether the time is ripe...
  Follow ur heart...
• Delta 5

  12 Sep 05, 02:30

  Ok la jus kidding...
  
  Only you urself will noe whether the time is ripe...
  Follow ur heart...
• dibilo

  12 Sep 05, 02:38

  its evident that in her eyes u are on the + side haha so i say just try .. even if she nv agree immediately, keep the passion going and u'll be fine.. good luck
• love_noob

  12 Sep 05, 22:02

  Yeah, I think go slow and build up slowly. I heard the best part is during courtship, so probably will sustain this period for a while.
  
  But it is also very torturous
• Devil1976

  13 Sep 05, 12:15

  Originally posted by love_noob:

  Yeah, I think go slow and build up slowly. I heard the best part is during courtship, so probably will sustain this period for a while.
  
  But it is also very torturous

  Return some little 'expressions' of your own...?
• choco B

  13 Sep 05, 12:20

  Find the chance to grab her hand!
• BrUtUs

  14 Sep 05, 14:51

  since dating now, jz do as wat others said, take it slow n continue hv sweet dates... pop the question when u feel like moving up to the next stage... happy dating...