Sigh~, girls' treated me badly!
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This is my personal stories of i wooing a girl...
1 year ago, i met this girl "F" in a church near outram park MRT station, she was gorgeous with a reborn hair and a complexion on her face, big round eyes and a sharp nose. I must say she's the gorgeous girl among all the girls in my youth group, so during valentine's day last year 2004, i bought a Orchid flower which cost me nearly 50 bucks for her and i bring it to church itself and in the meantime i confess my feelings for her right in front of so many ppl while await for the service to commence. She did say i got chance with her in sms in the evening on the same day i give her the flower, den asusual chat and sms wif her every day and night and see her every sun for service. Then this route goes on for about a mth and i ask her again, do i stand a chance and she replies, "we do not understand each other yet, even if we are 2gether now, both of us will not last." and i somehow agrees, talk 2 her often on phone and sms as i mention above. den again, 1 mth later, i ask her again, do i still stand a chance? she say the same thing again. I feel sth strange, so i ask her friend who is also my churchmate, and she say that she only treated me as a common friend, i got quite piss off so i directly confront her in sms saying that "If you dont like a person, you can say it loud in front of that person face!". She did not reply and so do i, i stopped attend that church not long after i feel that she dont likes me...we both kept silent for quite some time, she did not sms me anymore and as well as i. Then a few weeks later, i browse through my friendster and i see her display pic with a guy kissing him in his face and status "In a Relationship." That really pains me a lot, seeing her with someone else than me....what i can do on that time is, give her my blessing...and i also heard from her frienz saying that she has back slain Jesus because of her bf influence! -
her display pic with a guy kissing him in his face
dat confused me a lil..
anyways.. well.. both of you left church out of "love" so too bad. -
and besides, she didn't treat u badly.
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and who gives a damm about the mole sum of money u bought the flower with.
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i mean, her friendster display pic was her kissing her bf on his face. Sorry, if that confuse u...well u can say that. By buying a expensive flower, i tot i can win her heart easier and i was wrong....Originally posted by Ito_^:dat confused me a lil.. anyways.. well.. both of you left church out of "love" so too bad. -
The earthly pleasures will be her ticket to hell. So dun worry =) Besides..she is not the only Chio Bus in church ya
Its all about giving back the the female species that hurt u so..so much.. n DOUBLE the pain back to them ya. Must see things the bright side...but if u sidetrack from God... u will get...severe n painful punishment. It can be physdical like the loss of your limb.. or something emotional like played out by girls n not having the wisdom to see it. Repent 
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nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai. ok not really, but this proves its not the money that counts, its whether she like it anot. she probably thinks u are boring and doesn't have that "magical" feeling and obviously that guy has it. what to do? move on lor..Originally posted by James1:i mean, her friendster display pic was her kissing her bf on his face. Sorry, if that confuse u...well u can say that. By buying a expensive flower, i tot i can win her heart easier and i was wrong.... -
you loved you lost... move on...
she didn't treat you badly, she couldn't make up her mind about you....
and you listened to her friends. who knows maybe if u had persevered you might have won her over... -
lol...makes me wonder, do people nowadays go to church to socialize?
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not a bad idea!Originally posted by sgFish:lol...makes me wonder, do people nowadays go to church to socialize? -
James1
u want the best of the girls u got to work hard for it.
Come on/
Give a $50 flower and hope to get her?
wahhh if thats so easy i give her a gold bar and she will be mine asap.
To any guys out there who is chasing any girl
Please remember one important rule in chasing a girl:
If she chats or sms alot does not really mean that she is interested in you at all.
Please do not get the wrong idea.
If the girl is really interested in you, she will try to do alot of things for you without you asking. She will try her best to ask you out and get close to you in any way possible way. -
I know some of the christians will hate me for saying this but..
There are guys AND girls who go to church not because they really believe but because they can meet friends of the opposite sex -
pfff...of cos not. We just want to experience God's love and gift of humanityOriginally posted by DriftingGuy:I know some of the christians will hate me for saying this but..
There are guys AND girls who go to church not because they really believe but because they can meet friends of the opposite sex
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I am saying some, not all...Originally posted by alexkusu:pfff...of cos not. We just want to experience God's love and gift of humanity -
hey does gals actually mean that 'u dun stand a chance' when they say let's get to know each other first?? Oh my, im getting worried..
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she is trying to say lets be friends first. later then see how.
so try to be friends first, do not push for gf so fast. -
and mlmers trying to sell their wares.Originally posted by DriftingGuy:I know some of the christians will hate me for saying this but..
There are guys AND girls who go to church not because they really believe but because they can meet friends of the opposite sex -
sometimes, its really better be friends. forever.Originally posted by drx:she is trying to say lets be friends first. later then see how.
so try to be friends first, do not push for gf so fast. -
I think as a gal, when I say may have a chance it means.... I do not dislike you, and if we get to know each other better we MAY hit it off and MAY be able to get together....Originally posted by Ray87:hey does gals actually mean that 'u dun stand a chance' when they say let's get to know each other first?? Oh my, im getting worried..
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I agree esp the highlighted word....Originally posted by drx:she is trying to say lets be friends first. later then see how.
so try to be friends first, do not push for gf so fast. -
aiyoh relak lah.......Originally posted by James1:i mean, her friendster display pic was her kissing her bf on his face. Sorry, if that confuse u...well u can say that. By buying a expensive flower, i tot i can win her heart easier and i was wrong....
i thought she tore your hymen or something.
you can always go back to pester her what.
nope, you won't get her back.
but you can still enjoy messing up their relationship just for sport -
Nothing is more wrong than this...Originally posted by James1:By buying a expensive flower, i tot i can win her heart easier and i was wrong....
if U want to sian ah-lian...U buy her expensive bags and not expensive flowers...at least the bag still can use...
if U want to sian good girl...dun equate money with love. -
from what I observe from CHC,yes.Originally posted by sgFish:lol...makes me wonder, do people nowadays go to church to socialize?
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lmao.. she's not some kid you buy candy overOriginally posted by James1:i mean, her friendster display pic was her kissing her bf on his face. Sorry, if that confuse u...well u can say that. By buying a expensive flower, i tot i can win her heart easier and i was wrong.... -
Wow, born again hair.Originally posted by James1:she was gorgeous with a reborn hair