Life is uninteresting and meaningless
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yeah.. cos got one forumite calls me bluey -_-" and then he says "ese blues". makes it sound like i'm making the trouble.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Coz U r blue?...
ok, no more hijacking... dude.. just cheer up. whenever you're blue (damn, i resent that... why am i not starpurple for one?) just give your friends a call, i'm sure they'll be happy to make you happy.
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Hi Starblue,Originally posted by starblue:yeah.. cos got one forumite calls me bluey -_-" and then he says "ese blues". makes it sound like i'm making the trouble.
ok, no more hijacking... dude.. just cheer up. whenever you're blue (damn, i resent that... why am i not starpurple for one?) just give your friends a call, i'm sure they'll be happy to make you happy.
no offence for "ese blues"...
I personaly like ur nick
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Bluey sounds so cute...Originally posted by starblue:yeah.. cos got one forumite calls me bluey -_-" and then he says "ese blues". makes it sound like i'm making the trouble.
ok, no more hijacking... dude.. just cheer up. whenever you're blue (damn, i resent that... why am i not starpurple for one?) just give your friends a call, i'm sure they'll be happy to make you happy.
Okok...next time...I dun call U Starblue...I call U blueblue ok...blueblue...
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nah.. i was just kiddin around... and hey, we have somethings in common already.. i like my nick too.Originally posted by CP25:Hi Starblue,
no offence for "ese blues"...
I personaly like ur nick
Cheers!
and bear... no. dun call me blueblue.. hell no... -
hehe..yes we doOriginally posted by starblue:nah.. i was just kiddin around... and hey, we have somethings in common already.. i like my nick too.
Great forum u did here..a place wer pple can xchange thoughts n giv encouragement.
keep it up, my dear fren
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huh?? but this isnt my forum. lolz...Originally posted by CP25:hehe..yes we do
Great forum u did here..a place wer pple can xchange thoughts n giv encouragement.
keep it up, my dear fren -
Life is as meaningful and as interesting as you make it.
It has nothing to do with outside influences. Its just a matter of how you wish to live. Simple as that.
Change your perception of things and the world will open its wonders to you.
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aiyo really meh. erhmm thats really jialat man. then ns is really a great help man. learn to be happy of little things loh, buy little thing for yourself then yeah! yippee! feel happy about it!Originally posted by _Aaron_:Before NS it was worse. Life was totally boring. I was broke too. Ns gave me some meaning at least.
No i'm not on anti-depressants, but sometimes i feel that i am..
probably you are just aimless about your future and you start to think so far and felt so sad that you dun know what to do in future. its so common one lah the feeling~no matter what, if you dun make yourself happy first, nobody can make you happy also~ smile smile every now and then, you will feel being happy is not a tough task. -
Erm guys.
I'm not depressed.
I'm not really sad.
Just that i just feel that my life is meaningful.
Yea, i can call my friends out and chat. But what about after that?
I do the stuff i like, but then i don't enjoy it as much as i used to..
Maybe its like life is getting a bit monotone..
Yea, maybe that's it. -
maybe you need something more to chatting,
a good hobby knowing new people.
or... Get married. haha -
Heh Sekundes..
If i could get attached now at this stage i definately will.
But getting married is out of the question lar. no gf marry what?
Besides. I'll be crazy to get married now. Crazy! -
i agree wif u......it really sets in at times.....but not all the while...... when she left mi last yr.......the jigsaw puzzle juz came apart....... tell urself...hw u wanna rebuild n piece back ur jigsaw....make it better? make it more beautiful?....have a plan.....focus on a goal.....at least......life's worth living this way......
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Break routines? You do have a CHOICE?Originally posted by _Aaron_:Erm guys.
I'm not depressed.
I'm not really sad.
Just that i just feel that my life is meaningful.
Yea, i can call my friends out and chat. But what about after that?
I do the stuff i like, but then i don't enjoy it as much as i used to..
Maybe its like life is getting a bit monotone..
Yea, maybe that's it. -
Hi Aaron,
*Pats pats* Hey, once in awhile, most of us get bad days. I do get them, although I don't suffer from disillusion or angst that much. But on some days, I do get frustrated at work, or feel jaded. Nothing a good weekend can't fix, though
If you feel life is boring, you could join some of the outings scheduled by the forumites, or you could join activities at your local community centre? Or perhaps just ask your friends out for dinner & a round of drinks. Some relaxed chitchat helps to loosen you up : )
If you feel that your relationships have broken down, you're Not alone. Those of us in AA have gone through the same thing. It doesn't mean that you won't find somebody special, you just learn the lessons & move on. Enjoy your single days, it can be fun.
Most of the time, when we're caught up in work, activities, etc, we may overlook the less fortunate. What I personally do isn't much, but I set aside a budget of S$10/- each month from my pay (or more if I can afford it) & donate it to a worthy cause. It's miniscule effort compared to what other volunteers do, & I'm ashamed of how little I do, but it's a start.
Try to cheer up after awhile. Moping around isn't healthy. It also invites a scolding from FeowFeow after you mope around too long Be happy, Aaron.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by _Aaron_:I believe its happening again. I'm simply unfocused on everything, and i feel that life is boring..
Perhaps its because of the few relationships that has broken down in front of my eyes, perhaps its because of the little things in life that we often overlook, the poor, the sick, the dying.
Whatever the case, i can't remember the last time i was ever happy.
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Hi Aaron,
If you feel that your life has gotten monotonous, then perhaps you might want to do different things? Take a vacation to someplace scenic like Hokkaido, soak in the warm springs & have delicious & healthy food (sheesh, I've been watching too much Japan Hour)
If you don't have the time, try a short break to Malaysia or Bintan.
Actually, I quite like routine in my life, I know what I'm gonna do next But once in awhile, I'll take off & do something totally different. It helps
FeowFeowOriginally posted by _Aaron_:Erm guys.
I'm not depressed.
I'm not really sad.
Just that i just feel that my life is meaningful.
Yea, i can call my friends out and chat. But what about after that?
I do the stuff i like, but then i don't enjoy it as much as i used to..
Maybe its like life is getting a bit monotone..
Yea, maybe that's it.