my father is making everyone hates him
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today when the LPG gas delivery guy come to our house, my mum suggested to him to change the gas tubing and some other accessories - they're rather old.we all know that it's good to change these thing once every few years rather than to wait for a gas leak or something to happen right?
then my father went to the kitchen and kick up a fuss saying that the guy is a cheat. Then he goes on to blame my mother for not informing him anything at all.....I got really mad and shouted at him...and he said "what you want to fight me issit?"
He's hopeless, never really taken care of the family for as long as i know. Always gotten into some debts. He never held proper jobs. We had the electricity cut off once when i was still schooling cuz he never pay the bills.
I really pity my mother for putting up with him close to 30yrs liao...
In 2 yrs time when my youngest bro finish poly, i am hoping to move out with my mother and 2 bro. Haiz....no one can stand him man......
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Originally posted by thoreldan:
i think it's LPG(liquid petroleum gas) not PVC(poly-vinyl chloride). PVC is plastic. ...........
today when the pvc gas delivery guy come to our house, my mum suggested to him to change the gas tubing and some other accessories - they're rather old.we all know that it's good to change these thing once every few years rather than to wait for a gas leak or something to happen right?
then my father went to the kitchen and kick up a fuss saying that the guy is a cheat. Then he goes on to blame my mother for not informing him anything at all.....I got really mad and shouted at him...and he said "what you want to fight me issit?"
He's hopeless, never really taken care of the family for as long as i know. Always gotten into some debts. He never held proper jobs. We had the electricity cut off once when i was still schooling cuz he never pay the bills.
I really pity my mother for putting up with him close to 30yrs liao...
In 2 yrs time when my youngest bro finish poly, i am hoping to move out with my mother and 2 bro. Haiz....no one can stand him man...... -
new brand?
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new compound?Originally posted by drx:new brand? -
make me paiseh
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why do your father feel that the guy is a cheat?
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damned. your father sounds like my father... and i can absolutely identify with you.. are you a guy or girl??
anyway, personally, i just let my dad do wadever he wants with his life, as long as he doesnt jeopardise the family's welfare. recently he was about to do that and i told him if he really did it, he cant expect me to call him father anymore. and that means i wun be feeding him when he retires. other than that, i dun bother too much about him. i concentrate on upholding my mum and brothers. save up for the future, in case that smart *#& does something funny...
if you're a guy, try to get financially independent. that always helps, when you need to keep your dad in check. but if he's not doing anything too bad, respect him as best as you can. he is still your father. *though you may resent it as much as i do. lolz.* -
my father is also a jerk
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because he considers anything that requires money = cheat caseOriginally posted by drx:why do your father feel that the guy is a cheat? -
Seems that sg father is doing a terrible job!Originally posted by martin_lim85:my father is also a jerk -
don't generalise. i know there are plenty of decent, family loving fathers around.Originally posted by CannyOng:Seems that sg father is doing a terrible job! -
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he is your father. that is a fact that you can't change... i find a lot of guys "hate" their fathers... but sometimes it takes two hands to clap...
we tend to get irritated at our mum's nagging, but we know it's because they love us.... well most dads do not really know how to express their love, ther dad didn't know how to either... but that doesn't mean they don't love us...
fathers tend to act like they know what's best, they should be informed abut everything, they should be incharged
that's what they are brought up to believe what fathers should be like.
mothers tend to be naggy, over proctective, full of qns, etc
that's what they are brought up to believe what mothers should be like.
but does that gives us the right to judge them? to hate them despite all the things they have done for us but we are not aware of?
we only have one set of parents, despite their faults, they love us. and when they are gone we'll miss them and regret all the times we shouted at them.
Please learn to treasure you dad, if what he's doing is irritating you, take a deep breath, calm down. but never do anything to break that bond, it is precious. -
not if they do things without thinking of their families, or dun listen to their wives just because their friends outside are talking bad about her, or insist on their own ways even though their children and siblings and wives are advicing against it... there is a difference between not showing their love, and not loving.Originally posted by smudgey:he is your father. that is a fact that you can't change... i find a lot of guys "hate" their fathers... but sometimes it takes two hands to clap...
we tend to get irritated at our mum's nagging, but we know it's because they love us.... well most dads do not really know how to express their love, ther dad didn't know how to either... but that doesn't mean they don't love us...
fathers tend to act like they know what's best, they should be informed abut everything, they should be incharged
that's what they are brought up to believe what fathers should be like.
mothers tend to be naggy, over proctective, full of qns, etc
that's what they are brought up to believe what mothers should be like.
but does that gives us the right to judge them? to hate them despite all the things they have done for us but we are not aware of?
we only have one set of parents, despite their faults, they love us. and when they are gone we'll miss them and regret all the times we shouted at them.
Please learn to treasure you dad, if what he's doing is irritating you, take a deep breath, calm down. but never do anything to break that bond, it is precious. -
wen it comes to money... yeah were the same
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x2Originally posted by starblue:not if they do things without thinking of their families, or dun listen to their wives just because their friends outside are talking bad about her, or insist on their own ways even though their children and siblings and wives are advicing against it... there is a difference between not showing their love, and not loving.
and you certainly dont consider someone with lotsa gambling debts and letting the wife suffer a good husband/father -
Originally posted by mistyblue:
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personally, i will disown a gambler father.Originally posted by thoreldan:x2
and you certainly dont consider someone with lotsa gambling debts and letting the wife suffer a good husband/father -
everytime got arguement, i will side my mother.Originally posted by starblue:personally, i will disown a gambler father.
but she always ask me keep quiet and go to my room.
She always let herself to be bullied...haiz.... -
you should just go to your room, and watch if your dad's turning violent... thats where you should come in. not in the verbal part...Originally posted by thoreldan:everytime got arguement, i will side my mother.
but she always ask me keep quiet and go to my room.
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one of the way to solve it is to bj him
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hahaha u live in private housing ah?
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holy crap, how does he get into all those debts then.. i dont wish to say this but, is it due to gambling/drinking/smoking... etcOriginally posted by thoreldan:because he considers anything that requires money = cheat case -
-_-" short term solution. Must think of long term solution ma.. Like.. send him for anger management? or marriage counselling?Originally posted by 585986:one of the way to solve it is to bj him -
Is your father suffering from some psychological disorder?Originally posted by thoreldan:because he considers anything that requires money = cheat case 