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juz a couple of qnS 4 sum discussion..
is it easier 4 a gal 2 go after a guy?
or easier 4 a guy 2 go aft a gal?
n guys, wad wuld u all tink abt gals who take e initiative 2 go aft u?
heh...
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u build up all these defences. u build up dis whole armor for years, so nuthin can hurt u. Then one stupid person, no different frm any other stupid person,
wanders in2 your life... -
nan zhui nu ge cheng shan..
nu zhui nan ge cheng sa..
tat's wat people say.. but some guys find gals too aggressive when gals go after them...
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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart.... -
Well ... I hold the perspective that the guy would not really treasure you if you are the one who "wooed" him.
"song4 shang4 men2" de ma .. maybe seeking companionship for the time being .. then ditch you once he found someone he really loves. Also, he might ask you to engage in intimacy .. and knowing you likes him, you will most probably succumb to his advances.
Maybe the guys who have such encounters would care to share their experiences???
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hmmm not really the case....my first gf..till my recent one... onli one i jio her to b my gf...its not tt i m yandao or wad...i oso donno y ...hmm.... anyway... i treasured every one of them....i did not take them for granted or anything...i guess we were not meant to b...hmm...
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well.. its much easier for gerls to go after the guys cos its easier to win guys heart than gerls...
cos its the gerls who usually play "hard to get" than guys and gerls usually gives "more expensive" price for a boy-gerl relationship
.. u can see how often a guy would kneel down in front of gerls for a relationship and i dun think i ever seen or heard a gerl kneel down in front of guys..
its not being brave or "gentleman" to make the first move but how much do u really want to share your life with him/her.
As Always
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Professional Critics -
it doesn't really matter who is jio-ing who. if the couple really like each other, i don't see why can't the gal make the 1st move.
however, for most guys, i'm a guy too, sad to say, if the gal makes the 1st move, then sometimes they dun value her as much as one they jio-ed by their own effort.
i had 2 gfs who made the 1st move before, i guess it really takes a lot of courage and so called 'info-gathering' on their part before they decided to make the 1st move.
from what i know, if the gal makes the 1st move, the guy will more readly accept. but not always lor... must see if the guy has a tinch of liking for the gal or not.
on the other hand, most gals will say, they rather let the guy make the 1st move. or else they might get labled as desperate. most gals are naturally shy to make the 1st move as they fear rejection greater then guys... so in this bo pian situation, guys must still have thicker skin and make the move.... -
WAh Like that,.,
Guessed my skin is much much much thicker than Dianosaur liao!! hehe
As Always
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Professional Critics -
although we r living in a modern society nw, gals still prefer guys to make the first move, very tradition, huh? But it's a fact loh from all the gals I knw, but of course they will drop enough hints for the guy to pick up which will giv him courage to make the first move. If all of u had read the problems I posed in "Aunt Agony", u would knw tt I'm the "chicken" type and it's really very difficult for me to make the first move unless I hav 100% confidence I will nt be rejected...Originally posted by Retrac:it doesn't really matter who is jio-ing who. if the couple really like each other, i don't see why can't the gal make the 1st move.
however, for most guys, i'm a guy too, sad to say, if the gal makes the 1st move, then sometimes they dun value her as much as one they jio-ed by their own effort.
i had 2 gfs who made the 1st move before, i guess it really takes a lot of courage and so called 'info-gathering' on their part before they decided to make the 1st move.
from what i know, if the gal makes the 1st move, the guy will more readly accept. but not always lor... must see if the guy has a tinch of liking for the gal or not.
on the other hand, most gals will say, they rather let the guy make the 1st move. or else they might get labled as desperate. most gals are naturally shy to make the 1st move as they fear rejection greater then guys... so in this bo pian situation, guys must still have thicker skin and make the move....
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
agree....
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frm wad i hear frm frens.. if its e gal who go aft e guy 1st.. e guy mt take her 4 granted.. so most pp tink tt its nt advisable 4 a gal 2 do tt...
hmmm.... but.. in dis case.. how 2 let e guy knoe tt she likes him... hmm..
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Never the time and the place
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sama sama... but the problem is...i donno hao to take a hint.... hao do one noe whether its a hint or not? i mean... if u think its a hint but actually its not thn chum liao ...esp. if u like the other party... wad type of hints should we look out for ? heehee :pOriginally posted by mikegk_76:If all of u had read the problems I posed in "Aunt Agony", u would knw tt I'm the "chicken" type and it's really very difficult for me to make the first move unless I hav 100% confidence I will nt be rejected... -
abt this i feel tt it depends on individuals...i admit some guy r bas3rds..but not all.........rite ruthie ? heehee :pOriginally posted by *|azy:frm wad i hear frm frens.. if its e gal who go aft e guy 1st.. e guy mt take her 4 granted.. so most pp tink tt its nt advisable 4 a gal 2 do tt...
hmmm.... but.. in dis case.. how 2 let e guy knoe tt she likes him... hmm..