wrong idea..
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sms him:
"Hey friend, i am busy with my bf, so dun sms mi anymore"
so dear, where are we going for dinner tonite? -
Why dun u try asking him about why he sms you so many times a day and if he talks about r/s and asks for ur opinon...how about u say that u are still looking for one that suits your taste or you are busy with your future...got not such thoughts about r/s
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reply him w a .. mi outside w my bf.. sms u again another time
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so... i must tell him a white lie ah?
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u can make it the truth...mi ready for u lehOriginally posted by papercut87:so... i must tell him a white lie ah? 
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tease him about another gal?... a mutual friend... just keep saying things like "why don't you give her a chance?"
or makes comments like you saw a cute guy.... or are interested in someone else...
or when he sms you something... reply 1-2 hrs later.... tell him you were busy.. or reply the day after saying you were busy and then forgot to call him back.... -
last time a guy did the same thing & i felt quite irritated...at first i replied out of friendliness but gradually i delayed the replying time, & in the end din reply at all...he got the hint & stopped smsing me.
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Actually I think ignore the sms would be the most easiest way. but if you think its very rude then maybe can try, e.g.he asking have you eaten? then you reply yes. then he ask hows your day? you can say not bad. just give short and sweet answer that give an impression that you are not interested, think he will get the hint already bah.
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erm the first 2 methods wait he think you are testing him how?Originally posted by smudgey:tease him about another gal?... a mutual friend... just keep saying things like "why don't you give her a chance?"
or makes comments like you saw a cute guy.... or are interested in someone else...
or when he sms you something... reply 1-2 hrs later.... tell him you were busy.. or reply the day after saying you were busy and then forgot to call him back.... -
then u make a pt of mentioning your crushes in front of him la....Originally posted by hisoka:erm the first 2 methods wait he think you are testing him how?
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juz make it clear to him, dun beat ard the bush.
some pple toopid toopid, hint also cant catch it.
some pple thick skinned, hint also dun care.
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BTW, did you initiate to send some SMSes like ready-typed good night, good morning, etc kind of messages?
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best is to keep telling him about another guy you like lah. then he will get it. lolz...
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tell him straight...why lie if you dun like to do it?
and normally, guys can't see hints really that well...
tell him calmly and nicely that u just treat him as a friend..if he doesn't accept and stop being your friend, there's nothing you can do and it's not your fault nor his. It's just up to him whether he wants to be your friend. -
tell him that u appreciate his friendship but will not go steady
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How to tell him all that when he never even confess? Maybe some people just bored? Anyhow press, see who reply?
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i can be ur bf for a week. just to make him believe u. i same age as u some more. okay, hope to get a pm frm u soon.Originally posted by papercut87:so... i must tell him a white lie ah? -
change hp number without telling him,
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it is his fault, he assumes you like him just because you reply to his messages. he has been living a fantasy. shut him off if he tries to get too close.Originally posted by papercut87:problem sounds pretty typical here.. don't quite know how to handle it though... so i might need some of ur help here ppl.. thanks a mil!
there's this particular guy who takes the initiative to message me quite a number of times everyday.. asking about my well-being... eg. have i eaten, how's my day.. stuff like that... and as a friend, i should be replying his messages right..? (cauz usually i reply others who msg me) so i always reply each time he sms-es... chat with him like normal loh.. i think now he thinks i'm interested in him too (through his messages) because i always reply his messages... fact is, im not.. (as in i do not have any romantic feeling towards him..)
so how am i supposed "hint" a little bit to him that i only want to be friends before he starts to assume even more? i feel tht its kinda rude to not reply the other party when he / she messages you... so yah.. what m i supposed to do?
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Nope, actually i dont send such stuff to anyone.. :p abit waste sms. haha..Originally posted by kuckuc:BTW, did you initiate to send some SMSes like ready-typed good night, good morning, etc kind of messages? -
Haha.. no he aint a forumite..Originally posted by browniebaobao:juz make it clear to him, dun beat ard the bush.
some pple toopid toopid, hint also cant catch it.
some pple thick skinned, hint also dun care.
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thanks for ur advices guys.. some of them i dun really think can work leh... for eg some of u guys told me nt to beat abt the bush n juz tell him tht im not interested blah blah.. d reason why i cant do that is becoz he hasnt officially popped that question yet (though he did drop alot of hints).. plus... he's my friend too, i dont want him to hate me for saying such blunt stuff.. yapz.. so... what im tryin to do now is to delay the sms time like the others said.. thks again!
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x 2Originally posted by huiz:last time a guy did the same thing & i felt quite irritated...at first i replied out of friendliness but gradually i delayed the replying time, & in the end din reply at all...he got the hint & stopped smsing me.
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x3Originally posted by Tier:Actually I think ignore the sms would be the most easiest way. but if you think its very rude then maybe can try, e.g.he asking have you eaten? then you reply yes. then he ask hows your day? you can say not bad. just give short and sweet answer that give an impression that you are not interested, think he will get the hint already bah.