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u can make it the truth...mi ready for u lehOriginally posted by papercut87:so... i must tell him a white lie ah?![]()
erm the first 2 methods wait he think you are testing him how?Originally posted by smudgey:tease him about another gal?... a mutual friend... just keep saying things like "why don't you give her a chance?"
or makes comments like you saw a cute guy.... or are interested in someone else...
or when he sms you something... reply 1-2 hrs later.... tell him you were busy.. or reply the day after saying you were busy and then forgot to call him back....
then u make a pt of mentioning your crushes in front of him la....Originally posted by hisoka:erm the first 2 methods wait he think you are testing him how?
i can be ur bf for a week. just to make him believe u. i same age as u some more. okay, hope to get a pm frm u soon.Originally posted by papercut87:so... i must tell him a white lie ah?![]()
it is his fault, he assumes you like him just because you reply to his messages. he has been living a fantasy. shut him off if he tries to get too close.Originally posted by papercut87:problem sounds pretty typical here.. don't quite know how to handle it though... so i might need some of ur help here ppl.. thanks a mil!
there's this particular guy who takes the initiative to message me quite a number of times everyday.. asking about my well-being... eg. have i eaten, how's my day.. stuff like that... and as a friend, i should be replying his messages right..? (cauz usually i reply others who msg me) so i always reply each time he sms-es... chat with him like normal loh.. i think now he thinks i'm interested in him too (through his messages) because i always reply his messages... fact is, im not.. (as in i do not have any romantic feeling towards him..)
so how am i supposed "hint" a little bit to him that i only want to be friends before he starts to assume even more? i feel tht its kinda rude to not reply the other party when he / she messages you... so yah.. what m i supposed to do?![]()
Nope, actually i dont send such stuff to anyone.. :p abit waste sms. haha..Originally posted by kuckuc:BTW, did you initiate to send some SMSes like ready-typed good night, good morning, etc kind of messages?
Haha.. no he aint a forumite..Originally posted by browniebaobao:juz make it clear to him, dun beat ard the bush.
some pple toopid toopid, hint also cant catch it.
some pple thick skinned, hint also dun care.
btw, is he a forumite?
x 2Originally posted by huiz:last time a guy did the same thing & i felt quite irritated...at first i replied out of friendliness but gradually i delayed the replying time, & in the end din reply at all...he got the hint & stopped smsing me.
x3Originally posted by Tier:Actually I think ignore the sms would be the most easiest way. but if you think its very rude then maybe can try, e.g.he asking have you eaten? then you reply yes. then he ask hows your day? you can say not bad. just give short and sweet answer that give an impression that you are not interested, think he will get the hint already bah.