Ask her for a date
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I want to know how long do you know a girl b4 asking her for a date? What do u do on the first date?
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know her long enough to be able to know her well enough to be able to be accepted when asked to go on a date.
make her feel secure and comfortable with me, and not over impressing her in one day.. so she will want more chances to go out with me to find out more about me. -
VERY SUBJECTIVE.Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I want to know how long do you know a girl b4 asking her for a date? What do u do on the first date? -
long enough so that she will not feel wierd to have you asking for a date...
first date... lunch is cool. if she likes to read, a visit together to the bookstore will be a bonus.
or else, a coffee after lunch or dinner's great too... -
I work with her in the same company. I sometimes go work with her. I know much herand vice versa . I think she is quite comforable with me. But i'm afraid that she might reject me.Originally posted by coffeeortea:know her long enough to be able to know her well enough to be able to be accepted when asked to go on a date.
make her feel secure and comfortable with me, and not over impressing her in one day.. so she will want more chances to go out with me to find out more about me. -
if u nvr ask, how will do u know?
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correct!Originally posted by RaTtY81:if u nvr ask, how will do u know?
forever stand there wondering, "Should i , or should i not?", why not
just go ask her out first..then only decide what to do next. At least
get something started...else you will be standing there thinking of the
same thing.........
p/s: maybe she wont go out with u ler? then why waste time think/plan
so much? ( MAYBE ONLY....maybe...) -
I am no love guru ah..but my advice would be that perhaps you could just ask her out for lunch or dinner in an impromptu manner.Let's say just jio her out for dinner as you two are leaving the workplace, considering you know her liao, this shouldn' seem too awkward. Don't think of it as a date lah, just like going out with friends first. Then from there , see how things work out. It would prevent the awkward feeling of asking her out on a "DATE"
Good Luck! -
Just Do It!!
hehehe no risk no gain!!! -
Length of time ---> Subjective...Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I want to know how long do you know a girl b4 asking her for a date? What do u do on the first date?
Things to do on a first date ---> Be a gentleman... -
ask her out for a date to get to know her more. first date is just a dinner out or movie bah, it just casual chit chating, talk about your past funny things, childhood mischievous happenings etc etc bah. just simple and pleasant~Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I want to know how long do you know a girl b4 asking her for a date? What do u do on the first date? -
Normally... I guess a group outing... then after a few times... ask her out well she's more comfortable with you...
And don't do anything that will scare her away for the first date though...
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When u feel u know about her or when u feel that its right.
Go on don't be a wussy and go for her.. -
1. Make it something simple.Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I work with her in the same company. I sometimes go work with her. I know much herand vice versa . I think she is quite comforable with me. But i'm afraid that she might reject me.
2. Ask her out on a special occasion to celebrate with you.
3. Group outing. -
U can go for anything on the first date but nvr a movie cos,it will show u r unimaginative and bored.Pls,pls,pls plan something special for yr first date.Put in some effort, No pain,no gain....
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yalor ....... not much chance to communicate during a movie ......Originally posted by CannyOng:U can go for anything on the first date but nvr a movie cos,it will show u r unimaginative and bored.Pls,pls,pls plan something special for yr first date.Put in some effort, No pain,no gain....
can only steal glances
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If she reject me. How am i going to face her. I have face her everyday because work. I will feel malu.
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no risk no gainOriginally posted by joelwinston2005:If she reject me. How am i going to face her. I have face her everyday because work. I will feel malu.
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.Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I want to know how long do you know a girl b4 asking her for a date? What do u do on the first date?
if the gal has a good impression of u and is ready for dating.... no matter when you ask or where u want to go, she will go with you...
but if she doesn' tlike u..... doesn't matter how long u know her.... -
I disagree.. first date should be simple and "low risk". you don't want to scare her off.. also she could just treat u as a "frend"... why put in so much effort....Originally posted by CannyOng:U can go for anything on the first date but nvr a movie cos,it will show u r unimaginative and bored.Pls,pls,pls plan something special for yr first date.Put in some effort, No pain,no gain....
it might sound unromantic but it is true.... -
2days? 2weeks..
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It's really subjective.Originally posted by joelwinston2005:I want to know how long do you know a girl b4 asking her for a date? What do u do on the first date?
It's not the duration. It's how you start of knowing her and her initial impression of you.
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l can't agree more with fenixfire. For example, both of u went out to meet clients. After that, you can treat her a meal. IMO, relationships which start out as friends are more stable.Originally posted by fenixfire:I am no love guru ah..but my advice would be that perhaps you could just ask her out for lunch or dinner in an impromptu manner.Let's say just jio her out for dinner as you two are leaving the workplace, considering you know her liao, this shouldn' seem too awkward. Don't think of it as a date lah, just like going out with friends first. Then from there , see how things work out. It would prevent the awkward feeling of asking her out on a "DATE"
Good Luck!
Gd Luck ^^ -
How do i know whether she has a good impression of me?Originally posted by spencer99:.
if the gal has a good impression of u and is ready for dating.... no matter when you ask or where u want to go, she will go with you...
but if she doesn' tlike u..... doesn't matter how long u know her.... -
Do u feel her comfortable talking to u?Originally posted by joelwinston2005:How do i know whether she has a good impression of me?