Should I compete wif friend over this gal?

• starblue

  20 Sep 05, 13:34

  if you have no confidence in your own character, how can you expect her to have confidence in you?? anyway, by the looks of it, it seems like that friend of yours not really close to you right?? so he shouldnt really be in your considerations lah...
• revvieeee

  20 Sep 05, 14:12

  Originally posted by drx:

  haha yeah revvieeee if is in the past i agreed.
  but for the new age people sex is like eating.
  no longer holds any meaning..

  virgin girls are very rare nowadays.. last time it used to be the most important criteria for marriage.. people kick up a big fuss over it.
  
  but now, nobody cares everything's changing.
• alexkusu

  20 Sep 05, 14:48

  man..so finding a virgin girl is like diamonds... sigh~
• Cinderella.

  20 Sep 05, 14:51

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  man..so finding a virgin girl is like diamonds... sigh~

  oh please. my girl friends are mostly virgins. and they are proud of it. i too, am proud of it.
• alexkusu

  20 Sep 05, 14:54

  Originally posted by Cinderella.:

  oh please. my girl friends are mostly virgins. and they are proud of it. i too, am proud of it.

  let me rephrase..
  
  finding a virgin hot, pretty, beautiful, charming, great personality and available girl is quite rare.
• revvieeee

  20 Sep 05, 15:18

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  let me rephrase..
  
  finding a virgin hot, pretty, beautiful, charming, great personality and available girl is quite rare.

  CORRECT! i agree.
• alexkusu

  20 Sep 05, 15:22

  Originally posted by revvieeee:

  CORRECT! i agree.

  HEI!
  
  lets not be superficial now...
• revvieeee

  20 Sep 05, 15:32

  the world will forever be superficial. it aint just me
• smudgey

  20 Sep 05, 16:46

  Originally posted by Delta 5:

  Ok here goes...
  
  Now there is this gal in Uni which I met in a particular class and shes not from my course... Started to have feelings for her recently... However, my friend from secondary school, who also ended up in the same course as me after not seeing him for over 4 years, also hinted that he liked her...
  
  So I was thinking if I should step aside... After all I dun wanna hav any hard feelings and I feel that actually they would be more compatible... My character is not really good On the other hand he is humorous and sincere... Recently I asked her to study wif me and ahe said ok... Now I feel messed up...
  
  Advice pls?

  Just tell your friend. May the best man win...
  
  Go for it Delta!!! Jia You!!!
• Delta 5

  20 Sep 05, 17:12

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  Just tell your friend. May the best man win...
  
  Go for it Delta!!! Jia You!!!

  Thanks Smudgey
  
  *To Bear: See Smudgey so nice you must jia you too k?
• Delta 5

  21 Sep 05, 11:07

  Ok jus to update u guys...
  
  Somehow she figured out that I liked her and now tries her best to avoid me...
  So I had better retreat cos such things cannot be forced...
  Going running at East Coast later and then hitting the books...
  Well life has to go on. We dun always get wat we want do we?
  
  Ciao
• alexkusu

  21 Sep 05, 11:08

  next step support your fren whole heartedly
  
  
• Delta 5

  21 Sep 05, 11:09

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  next step support your fren whole heartedly
  
  

  I'll try my best
• SoonKeong

  21 Sep 05, 11:16

  Originally posted by drx:

  haha yeah revvieeee if is in the past i agreed.
  but for the new age people sex is like eating.
  no longer holds any meaning..

  Blame on the western influenced brudder!
  
  Btw to Delta5,
  
  To chase a girl, u need confidence. If not, no gal will be impressed by you.
• CannyOng

  21 Sep 05, 11:24

  Just be yrself! Don try any attempt to change yrself for a gal. Find a gal that will appreciate u and everything...
• coffeeortea

  21 Sep 05, 11:27

  Originally posted by Delta 5:

  Ok here goes...
  
  Now there is this gal in Uni which I met in a particular class and shes not from my course... Started to have feelings for her recently... However, my friend from secondary school, who also ended up in the same course as me after not seeing him for over 4 years, also hinted that he liked her...
  
  So I was thinking if I should step aside... After all I dun wanna hav any hard feelings and I feel that actually they would be more compatible... My character is not really good On the other hand he is humorous and sincere... Recently I asked her to study wif me and ahe said ok... Now I feel messed up...
  
  Advice pls?

  ok, first off, you must consider these.
  
  are you going after the girl for the sake of just competition? or do you actually feel for her?
  
  i believe you should pursue her, but yet, be prepared to accept the outcome if it is not in your favour. all in all, i believe a little healthy competition is fine.
• alexkusu

  21 Sep 05, 11:28

  actually wen guys compete for a girl...n eventually wins her.. they may fall in love with each other..
  
  not like i did it b4 or anything
• Delta 5

  21 Sep 05, 11:41

  Originally posted by coffeeortea:

  ok, first off, you must consider these.
  
  are you going after the girl for the sake of just competition? or do you actually feel for her?
  
  i believe you should pursue her, but yet, be prepared to accept the outcome if it is not in your favour. all in all, i believe a little healthy competition is fine.

  Thanks for ur kind advice!
  
  So there is a gentle side to ya after all!
  
  But seriously no point carrying on if the gal does not lyk ya rite?
• Delta 5

  21 Sep 05, 11:42

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  Just be yrself! Don try any attempt to change yrself for a gal. Find a gal that will appreciate u and everything...

  I always try to change myself...
  End up bruised and dejected...
  Time to stop all this...
  
• Devil1976

  21 Sep 05, 12:16

  Originally posted by Delta 5:

  Ok jus to update u guys...
  
  Somehow she figured out that I liked her and now tries her best to avoid me...
  So I had better retreat cos such things cannot be forced...
  Going running at East Coast later and then hitting the books...
  Well life has to go on. We dun always get wat we want do we?
  Ciao

  RIGHT ON...
• notforme

  22 Sep 05, 18:27

  the girl so attractive meh ? two guys over her..you must be blind..so bad taste , go after a short,and toad like girls when there are trucks of better girls...lame!!!!!!!!
  
  
• Delta 5

  22 Sep 05, 18:53

  Originally posted by notforme:

  the girl so attractive meh ? two guys over her..you must be blind..so bad taste , go after a short,and toad like girls when there are trucks of better girls...lame!!!!!!!!
  
  

  She is not short and toad-like...
  
  Rather she is plain looking but sweet, simple and gentle...
  There is a very warm feel when she is around me...
  
  That good enough reason for ya?
  Sick and tired of gals who look like movie stars on the outside but are so rotten inside...
  
  
• Eiizumi

  22 Sep 05, 18:53

  Originally posted by notforme:

  the girl so attractive meh ? two guys over her..you must be blind..so bad taste , go after a short,and toad like girls when there are trucks of better girls...lame!!!!!!!!
  
  

  The real blind guy is you.
  
  Not all beauty is superficial.
  
  If 2 guys can like one girl, that girl must be special.
  
  Or are you eating sour grapes my friend?
• notforme

  23 Sep 05, 08:55

  why should I be?
  
  its the world of plain Jane..i wouldnt dare to argue .........
  
  You are in my university,yet you didnt notice me
• notforme

  23 Sep 05, 08:57

  sometimes,you guys dont give other girls a chance to know you in school but hanging out with the same group of girls and boys.
  
  How are you supposed to discover the virtues of other girls?