Originally posted by gambatak:
ok its been almost a month since i broke up with my girl. the thing is, he previously had unprotected sex almost weekly. i would take my didi out as soon as i felt i was going to cum. not even when i was almost going to, about moments before it was time. i know that is not safe. and i am never going to do it alone. then after we broke up, she keep telling me shes scared of being pregnant. im like, i din cum inside, so dont worry. we are still friends lar. but she was kinda sad after we break. seems things have cooled down alr. but i have jus came back form a sch camp. and the comes and tells me she went to c the doc again. she says shes 1 mth pregnant. the doc said got some pill can stop the growth of the fetus. but can only start taking after the 2nd month onwards.i seriousl wonder if such a thing is possible.
what i want to ask is,
1st, 1 mth pregnancy can be detected meh?i dunno if she is lieing anot mah.
2nd,is there really such a pill? im afraid sia.
Irresponsible is the word for You....Abortion....can u handle the guilt and can she handle it well?? nobody knows....side effect of abortion....does she knows about it....?
Go have a checkup and cfm the status first....how old are you?? i reckon u are in no position to have a child at this age...i don't really approve of abortion but i can't decide for you....but if she is really pregnant...i tink that the best way to go about it....coz both of u are not ready to handle the kid....
But then...there is a possibility that she is lying to u....how come she nv got pregnant b4 after u have done it so many times and straight after u guys broke up....she got pregnant....so there a possibility she is lying to u to get u back or smthg....i tink u guys really need to have a good talk....