I wonder...
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hmm... maybe i shld put things straight... i am not interested in that twisted soul... but he is like the third old man that shown interest in me! and *uck, i am most of the time young enough to be their daughters! so right now, i am just trying to find out what makes an old man attract to a young girl?Originally posted by mistyblue:men generally want to feel good about themselves and feel flattered that a woman half his age is interested in him...
younger girls easier to con. buy some material things and she's happy like an idiot and will follow him around.... most older women are not so easily swayed since she could afford the things herself.
1) sex
2) ego trip
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Why bother when you're completely uninterested...?Originally posted by harrow:hmm... maybe i shld put things straight... i am not interested in that twisted soul... but he is like the third old man that shown interest in me! and *uck, i am most of the time young enough to be their daughters! so right now, i am just trying to find out what makes an old man attract to a young girl?
1) sex
2) ego trip
3) .... -
Well .. sometimes you just appeal to their group ..Originally posted by harrow:hmm... maybe i shld put things straight... i am not interested in that twisted soul... but he is like the third old man that shown interest in me! and *uck, i am most of the time young enough to be their daughters! so right now, i am just trying to find out what makes an old man attract to a young girl?
1) sex
2) ego trip
3) ....
I have a number of 40+ yr old married men asking for affairs ... its a validation of their desirability and you would be the one who is I am not saying its common in all offices but the ones I know... well ... rumour do get around and careers are paused..
Neither can I explain why they pick on me. I asked around and realised they pick on those who are more innocent. Perhaps yes, perhaps no.. I really also don't know...
But for me, I see its just a power trip for them. Some of these people are quite empty in their lives that they seek such thrills... and for some, its just physical - they happen to like your body and want you for just sex. after that.. forget about you loh... -
I would like to know what the men see and think... so that I can do something to avoid having to be in that situation...Originally posted by Devil1976:Why bother when you're completely uninterested...?
To feel like I am seen as a tramp in office when I try to work professionally and keep to myself and my work... And the fact is that I am not the best dressed and prettiest but I do attest I am hardworking and do not go mix with them. I still don't see why men think every women in the office can be bought like a prostitude. -
curious... see if there's a certain type/looks/dressing/whatever.... then I AVOID!! hahah!!Originally posted by Devil1976:Why bother when you're completely uninterested...? -
Hahaha... yup, innocent ones easier to con! but fat hope! bleah!Originally posted by mistyblue:Well .. sometimes you just appeal to their group ..
I have a number of 40+ yr old married men asking for affairs ... its a validation of their desirability and you would be the one who is I am not saying its common in all offices but the ones I know... well ... rumour do get around and careers are paused..
Neither can I explain why they pick on me. I asked around and realised they pick on those who are more innocent. Perhaps yes, perhaps no.. I really also don't know...
But for me, I see its just a power trip for them. Some of these people are quite empty in their lives that they seek such thrills... and for some, its just physical - they happen to like your body and want you for just sex. after that.. forget about you loh... -
EXACTLY!!Originally posted by mistyblue:I would like to know what the men see and think... so that I can do something to avoid having to be in that situation...
To feel like I am seen as a tramp in office when I try to work professionally and keep to myself and my work... And the fact is that I am not the best dressed and prettiest but I do attest I am hardworking and do not go mix with them. I still don't see why men think every women in the office can be bought like a prostitude. -
hmm... maybe i shld put things straight... i am not interested in that twisted soul... but he is like the third old man that shown interest in me! and *uck, i am most of the time young enough to be their daughters! so right now, i am just trying to find out what makes an old man attract to a young girl?
1) sex
2) ego trip
3) easier to con/satisfy -
The fact is some guys are just like that.. You certainly can't always control the mind of others...?Originally posted by mistyblue:I would like to know what the men see and think... so that I can do something to avoid having to be in that situation...
To feel like I am seen as a tramp in office when I try to work professionally and keep to myself and my work... And the fact is that I am not the best dressed and prettiest but I do attest I am hardworking and do not go mix with them. I still don't see why men think every women in the office can be bought like a prostitude. -
Not much of a chance. Refer to the post right above this post of yours..Originally posted by harrow:curious... see if there's a certain type/looks/dressing/whatever.... then I AVOID!! hahah!! -
Various. No point trying to 'avoid' such through delibrate moves.. You can simply show various ways of direct or indirect rejections.. Unless you're a guy..?Originally posted by harrow:hmm... maybe i shld put things straight... i am not interested in that twisted soul... but he is like the third old man that shown interest in me! and *uck, i am most of the time young enough to be their daughters! so right now, i am just trying to find out what makes an old man attract to a young girl?
1) sex
2) ego trip
3) easier to con/satisfy
Hmm... Even when you're a guy, there'll still be some pervert uncles out there who could be interested in you...
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actually i have always wondered the opposite. what kind of 20s girl will like a 40s guy?? lolz... nobody thinks the same way meh?? ok, prob cos i know a school mate (my age) last time and she is with our sec school history teacher. who is like 45 years old??!!
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well... actually i have been attracted to a man in his 40s before...
guess they are just more charming? gentlemanly? but they are rare...