Hi Big Bot,
If Not for your last sentence, I would've asked you to give up. However, I'm kinda disturbed by your claims of Not being able to live without her. How much do you know about her as a person, & as a gf? Chances are, whilst you may THINK you do, you don't. I might be wrong, but until you've been in a relationship with a person, it's unlikely you'll know exactly what kinda gf she's gonna be.
Still, if you're determined to be persistent, perhaps you should take note of timing when it comes to asking her for a date. As you've noted, it's close to her A's, she's Not likely to go on a date with you if she has her priorities straight. Afterall, she's still young, & there's plenty of time for her to go dating after she's made it to the uni/faculty of her choice.
You may wanna wait till after the A's, particularly if she's confident that she's done well. Try & ask her out then? You may wanna tell her you've bought tickets to a movie, but your friend couldn't make it at the last min. & you thought perhaps she'd be nice enough to help you out so your $ wouldn't be wasted.
If she still rejects your advances, then perhaps you might want to take the hint. You would still wanna preserve some form of friendship, rather than have her spell it out clearly to you what she thinks.
FeowFeow
Originally posted by Big Bot:
background: We used to be in the same sch and claz... but sadly we separated into different sch after graduating. I seldom tok to her, I seldom tok to anyone. Its only last year that I got her number I started SMSing her by sending forward msgs... and gd nights... she does reply frequently...
How do I ask her out? I already asked her out several times but...
1st time was during New Year, she didn't reply.
2nd time was during the 1st Monday of June holidays, she didn't reply, I did some investigations and found out she was camping the day before.
3rd time was during the 1st Sunday of June holidays, I shouldn't have asked on that day, she had her usual extra lessons on that day as usual and its not like I dunno it... she replied "She had lessons"
4th time was after Mid Year, she didn't reply again, but she forwarded me "cheer up" message on the following Monday.
5th time was right after her prelims, She said she was not free.
And i dun even get to see her at all... cos we are in different sch and hav no chance to meet...
Maybe now is not the time for her since A Levels starts in 6 weeks time... I wished I knew her schedule... but I noe from the looks of thing... she may be just lying to me that she is busy.... But I realli can't do without her... I need help, teach me how to woo her... get close to her... just dun tell me to giv up okay?