advice needed on starting a new relationship
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i recently recovered from a relationship, that went sour because of some terrible politics among ppl who are not my frens anymore.
now last month an ex-classmate of mine (she retained and is redoing J1 this yr while im in J2) was dumped by her ex, and she has got it over n stuff too. i'm thinking of making a move. but the thing is, we've hardly spoken to each other since we were classmates last yr. and we dont see each other often in school, we are in different levels and all.
there's an opportunity now - my class prom table has an extra seat and we cant seem to find anyone to join us. the classmates have suggested asking her to join us at the prom (it's ok for J1s to go too) - they dont know about my intentions. i am thinking of asking her, and am prepared to pay for her ticket as well.
i've been in several relationships before, but most of them were initiated by the girl, and in all of them we were good frens before getting together. im honestly not sure how to "start from zero"...
her promos are coming next week. my plan is to ask her about the prom thing in the coming days, offering to pay for her ticket. then i'll show concern to her throughout her exam period, and date after that.
what should i do? all sincere advice needed and appreciated!!
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talking to her face to face is recommanded, at least a phone call. Don't ever sms...Originally posted by wd1:i recently recovered from a relationship, that went sour because of some terrible politics among ppl who are not my frens anymore.
now last month an ex-classmate of mine (she retained and is redoing J1 this yr while im in J2) was dumped by her ex, and she has got it over n stuff too. i'm thinking of making a move. but the thing is, we've hardly spoken to each other since we were classmates last yr. and we dont see each other often in school, we are in different levels and all.
there's an opportunity now - my class prom table has an extra seat and we cant seem to find anyone to join us. the classmates have suggested asking her to join us at the prom (it's ok for J1s to go too) - they dont know about my intentions. i am thinking of asking her, and am prepared to pay for her ticket as well.
i've been in several relationships before, but most of them were initiated by the girl, and in all of them we were good frens before getting together. im honestly not sure how to "start from zero"...
her promos are coming next week. my plan is to ask her about the prom thing in the coming days, offering to pay for her ticket. then i'll show concern to her throughout her exam period, and date after that.
what should i do? all sincere advice needed and appreciated!!
Don't you show concern on a regular basis ? -
why she kenna dump?
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Don't ya think you should at least know her a little or let her know you a little before you just suddenly pop that question?Originally posted by wd1:i recently recovered from a relationship, that went sour because of some terrible politics among ppl who are not my frens anymore.
now last month an ex-classmate of mine (she retained and is redoing J1 this yr while im in J2) was dumped by her ex, and she has got it over n stuff too. i'm thinking of making a move. but the thing is, we've hardly spoken to each other since we were classmates last yr. and we dont see each other often in school, we are in different levels and all.
there's an opportunity now - my class prom table has an extra seat and we cant seem to find anyone to join us. the classmates have suggested asking her to join us at the prom (it's ok for J1s to go too) - they dont know about my intentions. i am thinking of asking her, and am prepared to pay for her ticket as well.
i've been in several relationships before, but most of them were initiated by the girl, and in all of them we were good frens before getting together. im honestly not sure how to "start from zero"...
her promos are coming next week. my plan is to ask her about the prom thing in the coming days, offering to pay for her ticket. then i'll show concern to her throughout her exam period, and date after that.
what should i do? all sincere advice needed and appreciated!! 
'Show face', see how her response is towards you...? " -
concentrate on ur 'A' levels..
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just approach her as a friend until you see something +ve lor. what u want wor? instant noodle romance? or 1 - 9- stand? no right? slowly lah... 1st gear liaoz, 2nd gear.
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i agree.... relationships that start out slowly tend to last longer. do not rush in.
just be sincere. be her friend. -
hi,
good luck!
i had my first relationship during the last few months of my jc days... it was good, no regrets from both parties... we separated as i did my NS and she got her into a new environment - the university... just wanna let you understand the possible trials you'll be facing... that is if you start a relationship with her...
take care...
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thx for everything guys!