talking to her face to face is recommanded, at least a phone call. Don't ever sms...Originally posted by wd1:i recently recovered from a relationship, that went sour because of some terrible politics among ppl who are not my frens anymore.
now last month an ex-classmate of mine (she retained and is redoing J1 this yr while im in J2) was dumped by her ex, and she has got it over n stuff too. i'm thinking of making a move. but the thing is, we've hardly spoken to each other since we were classmates last yr. and we dont see each other often in school, we are in different levels and all.
there's an opportunity now - my class prom table has an extra seat and we cant seem to find anyone to join us. the classmates have suggested asking her to join us at the prom (it's ok for J1s to go too) - they dont know about my intentions. i am thinking of asking her, and am prepared to pay for her ticket as well.
i've been in several relationships before, but most of them were initiated by the girl, and in all of them we were good frens before getting together. im honestly not sure how to "start from zero"...
her promos are coming next week. my plan is to ask her about the prom thing in the coming days, offering to pay for her ticket. then i'll show concern to her throughout her exam period, and date after that.
what should i do? all sincere advice needed and appreciated!!![]()
Don't ya think you should at least know her a little or let her know you a little before you just suddenly pop that question?Originally posted by wd1:i recently recovered from a relationship, that went sour because of some terrible politics among ppl who are not my frens anymore.
now last month an ex-classmate of mine (she retained and is redoing J1 this yr while im in J2) was dumped by her ex, and she has got it over n stuff too. i'm thinking of making a move. but the thing is, we've hardly spoken to each other since we were classmates last yr. and we dont see each other often in school, we are in different levels and all.
there's an opportunity now - my class prom table has an extra seat and we cant seem to find anyone to join us. the classmates have suggested asking her to join us at the prom (it's ok for J1s to go too) - they dont know about my intentions. i am thinking of asking her, and am prepared to pay for her ticket as well.
i've been in several relationships before, but most of them were initiated by the girl, and in all of them we were good frens before getting together. im honestly not sure how to "start from zero"...
her promos are coming next week. my plan is to ask her about the prom thing in the coming days, offering to pay for her ticket. then i'll show concern to her throughout her exam period, and date after that.
what should i do? all sincere advice needed and appreciated!!![]()