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Where will be a good place for a 40 years old guy to find a lifetime partner ?
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china, geylang, oldies bar, chat rooms for 40+, CC...
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hun yin jie shao shuo?
the wat marriage agency?
very expensive but your vietnamese wife will less likely to run away provided that you are kinda rich and not too poor. -
vietnam..
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cooking class..
sewing class... -
Japan!
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Join more interest groups or classes... Hang around more often at places where there are activities or things you enjoy doing... From those ways, try to know more people... Alternatively, you might like to try a reliable agency..? Some works pretty well...?Originally posted by maxcp:Where will be a good place for a 40 years old guy to find a lifetime partner ?
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I think Neighbour Community Centre always have singing class, or dancing class, can join see can make friends there or not. and at the same time also will make life more activities, wouldnt be so bored.Originally posted by maxcp:Where will be a good place for a 40 years old guy to find a lifetime partner ? -
find me if u dun mind.. -
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Originally posted by maxcp:Where will be a good place for a 40 years old guy to find a lifetime partner ?
One can never seek love, looking for lifetime partners. For love, at times, doesn't provide lifetime partners.
I don't blame you for looking what you seek, as our biological age and cosmic lesson are vastly different. Even if I am 40 and unmarried, I will tell myself so be it. Probably throw myself into spiritual learning in substitute for relationship deficiency.
At that age, you will probably be desperate. Age is catching up and it seemed that any relationship you land on would immediately view as a potential for marriage, regardless of how it seemed like. This poise a dangerous thought indeed, as relationship at 40 is the same as relationship at 20. Those constant never changes.
I remembered an old case where this man remarried thrice. Checking him out, it was discovered that his mindsets plays a huge reason why those marriages never last (apart from serious astrological affliction in Love and Marriage). I donÂ’t know you, but marriage should only come during the apex of your Love. Any marriage due to biological/other reasons place a cap on fulfilment and contentment gain from the Love. This man became so desperate that any girl he hook up, he thought of marriage, even if they are unsuitable.
He thought he was running out of time, only to realise that he has delayed himself longer through his failing marriage.
What is running out of time? What was he trying to run away from? Age?
A state of mind.
He created the sense of urgency... he got killed in his sense of urgency.
Can love be rushed and artificially made?
I suggest the same thing as I would to a 20+ young lad - to expand social circle, adopt new interest and do alot of reflection. I may not understand you as much as yourself, so WHY have you landed in this state, this enlightenment may save you alot of time on repeated lessons that ought to learnt ages ago.
There are no short-cuts to Love and when you seek for easier route, you get compromised quality of your own relationship.
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SDU - don't know if they still around, some of my mom's colleagues who are her age found happiness .. except that while I'm at uni, their kids are in little tots.. but can see they're really happy, life has so much meaning now .. full circle.
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find you ? u female ?? how old r u ???Originally posted by kiekie: find me if u dun mind.. 
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Participate in all sgForums outings and be who you are, cos you want everyone and anyone to love you for who you are. If I'm not wrong, there's an AA Outing coming up.Originally posted by maxcp:Where will be a good place for a 40 years old guy to find a lifetime partner ?
By the way, Thai-Chinese gals are the best...if they love you. -
huh AA outing ???? y thai-chinese the best leh ?Originally posted by parn:Participate in all sgForums outings and be who you are, cos you want everyone and anyone to love you for who you are. If I'm not wrong, there's an AA Outing coming up.
By the way, Thai-Chinese gals are the best...if they love you. -
No lah... Seriously... I doubt joining any of the forum outings would pretty much give you a good chance of knowing your life partner.... Better to go for interest group instead...Originally posted by maxcp:huh AA outing ???? y thai-chinese the best leh ?
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this kind of question also can post??
er.. i guess you can start by opening your eyes when you walk around the street.. join cooking classes, maybe can find. -
try SDU type of activities, my fren who was in her 30s got to know her hubby thru attending a tennis course.. Good luck!