In love with a rich girl.
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U might have already read my previous post in AA about my love. it's still a crush, ive yet to pluck up enough courage to face this girl.. but ive certainly found out a lot more about this gal.. not eazy man.
I think i might fail.. just a strong feeling thats all.. but that wont stop my love for this girl. its an uncertainty whether she is more well off than me but she sure is quite materialistic from what others' say. i witness some of it too.. she owns at least 3 different pairs of shoes, all of them doesnt look too cheap. she might have more that she doesnt wear to school... she has a bit of attitude and that is what attracts me the most.
i heard her dad brings her to school too.. she also owns things like mp3 players, bags and stuff.. that speaks for her richness. once i overheard she's a hardcore shopper.. I am not sure if i can take up this challenge to chase after her or not.. i myself am not too poor, i consider myself slight above the average singaporean but if ever succeed in chasing after her, will she add a lot of burden to me?
but my heart is already full of thoughts of this girl.. never gotten close enough to her so now, we are still considered as strangers.. or rather schoolmates. but i m very sure she is single.
So troubled now! facing my promo exams in a week, still undecided what i should do.. regarding this girl i like.
what can i do to catch her attention and know her for a start? -
act heck care.
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I think u will go broke for her...Think twice!
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high maintenance.
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ive fally deeply for her.. Whenever i talk to one of my better friends, i always mention about her until he gets rather pissed... the only other person who knows about it, my live-till-death buddy who's not in the same sch encourages me but he told me not to take things too fast...Originally posted by CannyOng:I think u will go broke for her...Think twice!
now i take the extra effort to 'doll' myself up and present a gentlemenly side of me whenever she's in my sight. in the lect theatre when she sits behind me, i get quite nervous but i still want to give her an impression that im a good guy so i try to help my friends a little.. it is this time when i learn a lot more about her listening to her sweet voice...
even during lunch breaks sometimes i see what she likes to eat and tries it myself.. although some of which i dont fancy but now im starting to think they are not bad. i think im obsessed. haha
BUT still i dont wanna go broke. recently i am starting to be like her.. i cab home a lot nowadays and it takes up around half of my daily allowance. i really need more money if i have a demanding gf.. i hope she wont be if i can get her to be my gf. Quite troubled financially.. my parents arent very generous with what they give me.. though my dad earns quite a lot. but i dont mind, really. -
if u really love her, you wouldnt talk to anyone abt her. talking/boasting about the person u like repetitively to a friend is not love. it's sadly... infatuation.Originally posted by rouko:ive fally deeply for her.. Whenever i talk to one of my better friends, i always mention about her until he gets rather pissed... -
is it?? why did you say so? i don't get what you mean by that. i think its pretty normal to talk to someone you trust about your troubles. this guy is obviously having some problem sorting out his love... i think talking to a friend helpsOriginally posted by sinicker:if u really love her, you wouldnt talk to anyone abt her. talking/boasting about the person u like repetitively to a friend is not love. it's sadly... infatuation. -
as you said, she is a rich girl. she probably does not need material stuff anymore, overwhelm her with other values like, athletical strengths, character traits, charisma.Originally posted by rouko:U might have already read my previous post in AA about my love. it's still a crush, ive yet to pluck up enough courage to face this girl.. but ive certainly found out a lot more about this gal.. not eazy man.
I think i might fail.. just a strong feeling thats all.. but that wont stop my love for this girl. its an uncertainty whether she is more well off than me but she sure is quite materialistic from what others' say. i witness some of it too.. she owns at least 3 different pairs of shoes, all of them doesnt look too cheap. she might have more that she doesnt wear to school... she has a bit of attitude and that is what attracts me the most.
i heard her dad brings her to school too.. she also owns things like mp3 players, bags and stuff.. that speaks for her richness. once i overheard she's a hardcore shopper.. I am not sure if i can take up this challenge to chase after her or not.. i myself am not too poor, i consider myself slight above the average singaporean but if ever succeed in chasing after her, will she add a lot of burden to me?
but my heart is already full of thoughts of this girl.. never gotten close enough to her so now, we are still considered as strangers.. or rather schoolmates. but i m very sure she is single.
So troubled now! facing my promo exams in a week, still undecided what i should do.. regarding this girl i like.
what can i do to catch her attention and know her for a start?
also, please think over carefully, you are giving alot up of your old self to become a new self. notice i did not say that you are giving up yourself, because once you are a new person, you are still yourself. are you willing to give up the current self you are in to change into the new person you will become for her? -
Is her financial status and background holding you back? Is it hindering your personal confidence of approaching her?Originally posted by rouko:U might have already read my previous post in AA about my love. it's still a crush, ive yet to pluck up enough courage to face this girl.. but ive certainly found out a lot more about this gal.. not eazy man.
I think i might fail.. just a strong feeling thats all.. but that wont stop my love for this girl. its an uncertainty whether she is more well off than me but she sure is quite materialistic from what others' say. i witness some of it too.. she owns at least 3 different pairs of shoes, all of them doesnt look too cheap. she might have more that she doesnt wear to school... she has a bit of attitude and that is what attracts me the most.
i heard her dad brings her to school too.. she also owns things like mp3 players, bags and stuff.. that speaks for her richness. once i overheard she's a hardcore shopper.. I am not sure if i can take up this challenge to chase after her or not.. i myself am not too poor, i consider myself slight above the average singaporean but if ever succeed in chasing after her, will she add a lot of burden to me?
but my heart is already full of thoughts of this girl.. never gotten close enough to her so now, we are still considered as strangers.. or rather schoolmates. but i m very sure she is single.
So troubled now! facing my promo exams in a week, still undecided what i should do.. regarding this girl i like.
what can i do to catch her attention and know her for a start?
If the above is yes, then I would advise you to stop pre-thinking about some insanely impossible relationship scenarios. Do not...I repeat...Do Not Self-Sabotage yourself EVER if you're planning to be successful in any future relationships.
You won't and will never know what love will give you until you've got into one.
Love should comes free and genuine and limitless.
The only good way of catching her attention is to talk to her OFTEN. Start from a short yet simple and friendly conversation and see how's her response and your behaviour.
Since you're studying at the moment, I would advise you to concentrate on your studies first...else if she knew, she won't be touched by what you've done for her. She will view you as a silly and immature person who doesn't know how to prioritise your life.
Good luck, success in everything doesn't comes easy and free. -
As They Say, love don't cost a Thing.
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This kind of gal no bf yet meh....
I had a couple in my class during my sec school days. The gal was materialistic, rich, hardcore shopper, super pretty, everything you said about your own gal. The guy was handsome, not rich though(middle class I say), jin tong yu nu, you can say.
They went on for a few months, but in the end broke up due to some incompatibility issues and such. The guy later told us, one of the disadvantages being with her was that he was going broke. The gal's the type who demand the guy pay for everything. Imagine paying for all her shopping expenses and others.....you can imagine lah.
Go and chase her if you want to. But if you really have her, be prepared.
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hmm, it is not love until you get to know that other person better. So far, how much have you known about her other than she is rich, hard core shopper etc? And how much of this is rumors, how much of it is actually facts and comes from her own mouth?
Be friends with her first. And financial status shudnt be a barrier to friendship. If she lets it become a barrier, then sad to say, she might be rich in the financial sense, but not when it comes to character... -
one of my schmates is with a pretty-loaded gal. he lives in an HDB flat, she, a terrace house.
they go out, eat at cafe cartel, jack's place..
i hope the guy is doing alright, financially.
me and my gf on the other hand eat at food court, fast-food outlets and even hawker centres.
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sometimes simplicity is happinessOriginally posted by sinicker:one of my schmates is with a pretty-loaded gal. he lives in an HDB flat, she, a terrace house.
they go out, eat at cafe cartel, jack's place..
i hope the guy is doing alright, financially.
me and my gf on the other hand eat at food court, fast-food outlets and even hawker centres. 
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Wow.
Whoever told you that to be with a rich girl, you have to do all the spending? There's no way any of us, except for other rich people, can afford their shopping and lifestyles..
And whoa, why are you taking cab home everyday, eat what she eats? Are you trying to be like her, or are you so deeply infaturated that you don't know what you're doing?
They say being in Love is using each others' strengths to overcome each others' weakness, and being unique, etc.. but at this rate you're slowly becoming her.. which is quite a scary thought.
There are alot of things that can happen, and alot of things which may not happen. She may not want you to pay for her shopping bills if she knows you're not able to. Well, the thing is she has to love you first before anything can happen.
Once she loves you, i don't think she'll want you to pay for things you can't afford. Right? Besides, maybe she'll get used to eating at foodcourts and stuff.. you'll never know.
Just get and know her first, and make a difference in her life.. Good luck -
mp3 players, expensive shoes and bags... any average person who's willing to spend , can get all of those... wana know if she's really that rich anot.. must check her house address "D = X
Anyway, if you are really into her.. then just go for it.... may the results be good or bad.. at least you have tried... do it before she gets taken! This is a kiasu world dude!!!!!
Anyway.. rich people(not all though) may be a bit more classy, but I don't see why they should be materialistic (as in to expect bf to be paying for this and that).. since their loaded.... Anyway.. don't know how you define the term "rich"... she got a billionaire dad or ? nowadays millionaire also not considered rich liao..... -
give it a try, you never know the possibilities. she may end up insisting on paying for all your expenses. since girls can make guys do it, why can't guys do the same to girls?
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Personally, I think you're sort of on a 'pathetic' level...? You're not really getting nowhere close to knowing her better but just trying to find out things about her in your own sense... BEFORE I CONTINUE.. Pls take care of your promo EXAMS 1st....Originally posted by rouko:ive fally deeply for her.. Whenever i talk to one of my better friends, i always mention about her until he gets rather pissed... the only other person who knows about it, my live-till-death buddy who's not in the same sch encourages me but he told me not to take things too fast...
now i take the extra effort to 'doll' myself up and present a gentlemenly side of me whenever she's in my sight. in the lect theatre when she sits behind me, i get quite nervous but i still want to give her an impression that im a good guy so i try to help my friends a little.. it is this time when i learn a lot more about her listening to her sweet voice...
even during lunch breaks sometimes i see what she likes to eat and tries it myself.. although some of which i dont fancy but now im starting to think they are not bad. i think im obsessed. haha
BUT still i dont wanna go broke. recently i am starting to be like her.. i cab home a lot nowadays and it takes up around half of my daily allowance. i really need more money if i have a demanding gf.. i hope she wont be if i can get her to be my gf. Quite troubled financially.. my parents arent very generous with what they give me.. though my dad earns quite a lot. but i dont mind, really.
You're THINKING ALOT on what kinda person she MIGHT BE... That won't really get you anyway pretty much nearer to her... If you want, REALLY go and KNOW HER... As a friend or aquaintence... As someone whom she can know your existence of..... Meanwhile... REMINDER AGAIN... EXAMS 1st.... -
Wow Infatuation. seems like you are abit idolizing her also.Originally posted by rouko:ive fally deeply for her.. Whenever i talk to one of my better friends, i always mention about her until he gets rather pissed... the only other person who knows about it, my live-till-death buddy who's not in the same sch encourages me but he told me not to take things too fast...
now i take the extra effort to 'doll' myself up and present a gentlemenly side of me whenever she's in my sight. in the lect theatre when she sits behind me, i get quite nervous but i still want to give her an impression that im a good guy so i try to help my friends a little.. it is this time when i learn a lot more about her listening to her sweet voice...
even during lunch breaks sometimes i see what she likes to eat and tries it myself.. although some of which i dont fancy but now im starting to think they are not bad. i think im obsessed. haha
BUT still i dont wanna go broke. recently i am starting to be like her.. i cab home a lot nowadays and it takes up around half of my daily allowance. i really need more money if i have a demanding gf.. i hope she wont be if i can get her to be my gf. Quite troubled financially.. my parents arent very generous with what they give me.. though my dad earns quite a lot. but i dont mind, really.
Better for you to become friends with her then start to think so much. or else its really too obsessive with something. not good.
Dun try to force yourself to act rich to match with her. if really theres love between you two, everything else can be work out nicely. compromising. -
I re-read what you wrote and I am actually shaking my head. Here is someone you hardly know, and she already has that much power to change you into someone you are not.Originally posted by rouko:ive fally deeply for her.. Whenever i talk to one of my better friends, i always mention about her until he gets rather pissed... the only other person who knows about it, my live-till-death buddy who's not in the same sch encourages me but he told me not to take things too fast...
now i take the extra effort to 'doll' myself up and present a gentlemenly side of me whenever she's in my sight. in the lect theatre when she sits behind me, i get quite nervous but i still want to give her an impression that im a good guy so i try to help my friends a little.. it is this time when i learn a lot more about her listening to her sweet voice...
even during lunch breaks sometimes i see what she likes to eat and tries it myself.. although some of which i dont fancy but now im starting to think they are not bad. i think im obsessed. haha
BUT still i dont wanna go broke. recently i am starting to be like her.. i cab home a lot nowadays and it takes up around half of my daily allowance. i really need more money if i have a demanding gf.. i hope she wont be if i can get her to be my gf. Quite troubled financially.. my parents arent very generous with what they give me.. though my dad earns quite a lot. but i dont mind, really.
Love is not about this. Love is about being yourself, of cos change a bit for the better during the r/s to compromise with each other, but it will never be to this extent. You shudnt feel forced to spend more just because you want to know her. You are putting on a facade in front of her, trying to be helpful, trying to look as if you are as rich as her...but for what?
You are not even being yourself. And love is supposed to free you from any mask, any facade that you are wearing.
Reflect on this, and you will see why I think this is foolish. -
Originally posted by rouko:
ah boi, u kidding me right? really eat full nothing better to do and thinking how to get into some1's pant.
but my heart is already full of thoughts of this girl.. never gotten close enough to her so now, we are still considered as strangers.. or rather schoolmates. but i m very sure she is single.
So troubled now! facing my [b]promo exams in a week, still undecided what i should do.. regarding this girl i like.
what can i do to catch her attention and know her for a start?[/b]
concentrate on ur blardee stardee... if u fail, not only the ger will not give u a chance, even the society at large will not give u a damn.
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does she even know about you?? cuz u said u two are "skul mates"?
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You veri weird lehz... 3 pairs of shoes? I am hav mah... mp3 Player, I also hav mah, bags, I also hav mah.... I also EVERYDAY, I mean EVERYDAY after school go shopping, means I rich ar?Originally posted by rouko:U might have already read my previous post in AA about my love. it's still a crush, ive yet to pluck up enough courage to face this girl.. but ive certainly found out a lot more about this gal.. not eazy man.
I think i might fail.. just a strong feeling thats all.. but that wont stop my love for this girl. its an uncertainty whether she is more well off than me but she sure is quite materialistic from what others' say. i witness some of it too.. she owns at least 3 different pairs of shoes, all of them doesnt look too cheap. she might have more that she doesnt wear to school... she has a bit of attitude and that is what attracts me the most.
i heard her dad brings her to school too.. she also owns things like mp3 players, bags and stuff.. that speaks for her richness. once i overheard she's a hardcore shopper.. I am not sure if i can take up this challenge to chase after her or not.. i myself am not too poor, i consider myself slight above the average singaporean but if ever succeed in chasing after her, will she add a lot of burden to me?
but my heart is already full of thoughts of this girl.. never gotten close enough to her so now, we are still considered as strangers.. or rather schoolmates. but i m very sure she is single.
So troubled now! facing my promo exams in a week, still undecided what i should do.. regarding this girl i like.
what can i do to catch her attention and know her for a start?
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Pass your exam first lah.
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Dear Rouko,
I'll just say 1 thing : ) If the girl likes you, you wouldn't even need to doll up or do anything to impress her. This is what happened to me, I didn't care how rich or how poor my partner was, I just loved him, & I love him still.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by rouko:ive fally deeply for her.. Whenever i talk to one of my better friends, i always mention about her until he gets rather pissed... the only other person who knows about it, my live-till-death buddy who's not in the same sch encourages me but he told me not to take things too fast...
now i take the extra effort to 'doll' myself up and present a gentlemenly side of me whenever she's in my sight. in the lect theatre when she sits behind me, i get quite nervous but i still want to give her an impression that im a good guy so i try to help my friends a little.. it is this time when i learn a lot more about her listening to her sweet voice...
even during lunch breaks sometimes i see what she likes to eat and tries it myself.. although some of which i dont fancy but now im starting to think they are not bad. i think im obsessed. haha
BUT still i dont wanna go broke. recently i am starting to be like her.. i cab home a lot nowadays and it takes up around half of my daily allowance. i really need more money if i have a demanding gf.. i hope she wont be if i can get her to be my gf. Quite troubled financially.. my parents arent very generous with what they give me.. though my dad earns quite a lot. but i dont mind, really.