still remember me?
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hi,
do you still remember me? i don't hv any internet connection so now using my friend computer! so many things happened since then but it's getting worse. i've nothing now except debts! debts! debts and loansharks and seizures! it's all by my hubby. he is responsible for my child and my miseries. We now didn't even hv proper meals everyday. Whatever help i can seek, i've exhausted. i think the best thing now is KILL HIM!
Then at least can claim insurance for my child to live on.... me? i think death is also a release. but i don't want to leave my child in this world alone 
. that is the agony of a mother. How to settle all these debts(abt 200k)? my flat are new so can't sell!can anyone think of a better solution? -
Originally posted by freshbreezes:
Try to draw out an installment plan for returning your debt.. They probably won't drive you up the wall, doing so also won't benefit them much...
hi,
do you still remember me? i don't hv any internet connection so now using my friend computer! so many things happened since then but it's getting worse. i've nothing now except debts! debts! debts and loansharks and seizures! it's all by my hubby. he is responsible for my child and my miseries. We now didn't even hv proper meals everyday. Whatever help i can seek, i've exhausted. i think the best thing now is [b]KILL HIM! Then at least can claim insurance for my child to live on.... me? i think death is also a release. but i don't want to leave my child in this world alone . that is the agony of a mother. How to settle all these debts(abt 200k)? my flat are new so can't sell!can anyone think of a better solution?[/b]
Why is your hubby's debts under your name? Anyway to 'shake it off'...?
How old is your child? -
feel sorry for you. but you still look pretty strong from the way you write.
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yes...go pay a visit to her husbandOriginally posted by Devil1976:Anyway to 'shake it off'...?
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hi, I was in your shoes, my ex-husband, he accumulated so much debts, wiped out my credit cards, took out loans etc that it took me 5 years to pay all back. I had to write to credit card banks asking them to allow for installment payments etc. Bcos of him, my credit history is so bad now that no bank is willing to give me a credit card now
I did not think of killing myself, neither should you think of giving up, especially so if u have a kid to live for... one suggestion is that if the debts are incurred in his name, hv him declare himself a bankrupt, then all the creditors can't come after him or u. and btw, in case u r wondering, even if he is a bankrupt, u won't lose your flat, from personal experience as my ex declared bankrupt..
so stay strong, live and fight another day! -
the worst part is i can't divorced him as i've to depend on him for livelihood. i can't work due to medical problems. i've took all my money to help him.. my insurance claims, my CPF, savings and even borrowed fr relatives and friends. How to 'shake him' away? Now it's "not a penny to my name".... even had problem buying instant noodles.
Anybody out there can recommend me a work fr home job? No MLM, insurance, property or telemarketing. I've tried all nothing work! can't do tuition as not strong in all the subjects. I'm not eligible for govt's help coz my husband earn abt $1500. so i'm consider middle class and not low-income family. -
How is your relationship with him now...?Originally posted by freshbreezes:the worst part is i can't divorced him as i've to depend on him for livelihood. i can't work due to medical problems. i've took all my money to help him.. my insurance claims, my CPF, savings and even borrowed fr relatives and friends. How to 'shake him' away? Now it's "not a penny to my name".... even had problem buying instant noodles.
Anybody out there can recommend me a work fr home job? No MLM, insurance, property or telemarketing. I've tried all nothing work! can't do tuition as not strong in all the subjects. I'm not eligible for govt's help coz my husband earn abt $1500. so i'm consider middle class and not low-income family. -
Well, I almost wanted to repeat that Tampine's tragedy. But he made headlines just a day before I decides. I was so very angry and disappointed with him. But after almost 6 months now, my feeling are numbed. I don't feel anything towards him now not even anger. Now I just make sure my child has food in her stomach etc.... for other thing I've given up!Originally posted by Devil1976:How is your relationship with him now...?